@daneshamonek: 🚫You cannot heal around the people who trigger the very wound you’re trying to recover from. 🗣️Read that again. Your body isn’t overreacting. It’s remembering. That anxiety? That tension? That urge to shrink or overperform around certain people? It’s not drama, it’s data. Your nervous system is saying: “I’m not safe here.” You don’t need another sign. You need peace. And you don’t need closure, you need distance. Healing requires safety. Not guilt. Not obligation. Not the illusion of loyalty to people who were part of the pain. If your healing makes them uncomfortable, That’s your confirmation, not your problem. ⸻ #fyp #HealingJourney #TriggeredButHealing #EmotionalHealing #HealingOutLoud #SelfHealing #InnerChildHealing #BreakTheCycle #HealingFromTrauma #HealingIsMessy #HealingIsWork #HealingIsPower #HealingInProgress #TraumaHealing #HealingIsHard #HealingYourself #HealingTheWound #HealingMyInnerChild #SelfAwarenessJourney #HealingThroughTriggers #FeelToHeal #HealingAndGrowth #HealingTakesTime #HealingSeason #HealingBlackWomen #GenerationalHealing #UnlearningTrauma #MentalHealthAwareness #FromTriggersToTransformation #SafeToHeal #NervousSystemHealing distancing yourself from toxic family distancing toxic family toxic family boundaries toxic black parenting issues toxic family member stories mother issues toxic family jokes toxic family issues relatable toxic black family issues dealing with toxic family member quotes toxic black parenting issues toxic family issues into adulthood toxic marriage issues toxic sister issues toxic family issues
That’s why I blocked my mom and other family members 😂
2025-06-30 03:00:48
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MzExitStragetyCEO :
I live around the person who added to it ., working on exit strategy
2025-07-18 12:07:50
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SweetNSassy :
I wish, but I'm not able to move. God grant me the finances. I'm trying to grow and heal in the same place that broke me originally. and just had a 2nd neck surgery. I am mentally, emotionally, and physically exhausted. I stay quiet and to myself but feel Im still hounded. Praying for the strength and a reason to keep going. When Im invisible. I'm trying to do it alone so if there's any prayer Warriors I'd appreciate some prayers.
2025-07-01 17:23:45
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Redd :
I’ve healed and grown around those same people who triggered me
2025-06-29 12:39:27
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Cole :
correct. that’s why I went 1500 miles the opposite direction.
2025-07-02 01:57:01
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Reg :
Facts I stopped talking to a lot people during that time it’s crucial. You gotta heal the nervous system 🧘🏽♀️
2025-06-29 12:49:39
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AMBITIOUS RED :
Amen.That is so true 💯💯💯💯
2025-06-30 05:19:54
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dvinefinesse :
This is conflicting because you need to be triggered to grow
2025-07-02 09:37:02
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Flow Beats ZA :
When I started to feel physically sick by just being around them I knew it was time to leave my toxic family.
2025-06-29 20:39:29
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Therealaliciakey :
Okay I hear you.
2025-07-25 20:04:01
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Quita :
Let this sink in. Take a deep breath and start your journey.
2025-07-01 05:07:12
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MyraVanessa :
It's not physical it's spiritual. you must get right within first regardless of the outer world and the outer world will change 👍 being triggered is a sign of weakness, become unbothered ♥️
2025-06-29 19:52:19
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MillieLivingLife :
Had to quit that job
2025-06-29 19:55:30
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Crys379 :
I had to step away from someone who was triggering me with abuse.. family
2025-06-29 23:58:04
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howww to leave im 17 .
2025-07-04 05:33:10
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Canaan :
I’m disagree. What better opportunity to do the work? It’s not them that needs to change it the way you respond and the agreements you e made with or about yourself that need to change
2025-07-01 00:43:00
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B :
I kicked a group of people out of my life. I walked off my job to get away from one of them. A few days later my manager called and said I was on a 2wk vacation and terminated the other girl (her nephew’s wife😂) Got my job back and never saw the group again.
2025-06-30 00:32:28
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Quisha :
I need to heal and my body telling me I need peace
2025-07-12 04:32:02
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Pamelawalker282 :
Nothing but the truth my body telling me by unforeseen health issues the moment I detached I was healed no more issues 💙
2025-07-03 01:55:57
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user664823661 :
Here’s the thing. The only way to know if you’ve healed is to be around your triggers and be able to stay in control, regulated, and functioning. However, you need to start that journey, and figure out what works for you to stay in control, regulated, and functioning away from your triggers.
2025-06-29 19:05:21
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sabrinateese :
I agreeee
2025-07-05 19:37:04
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warm :
The Bible says that he will set a table before you in the presence of your enemies. Yes, go right in front of them and let God bless you.
2025-06-29 10:42:58
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Lil Ron -the -Saint :
you can't heal around the ppl daaaa lol 😆😆😆😆😆😭😆😆😆😆😆😆
2025-07-08 20:48:30
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CoachQueenBee :
@i always listen to my body
2025-07-03 17:29:02
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