@tendency_fl: Many men grow up in cultures that push the idea that masculinity is defined by toughness, stoicism, and emotional control. From a young age, they might hear phrases like “man up” or “boys don’t cry,” which subtly—and sometimes directly—teach them that expressing vulnerability or sensitivity makes them less of a man. Over time, this conditioning can create a deep internal conflict: on one hand, they naturally feel emotions like anyone else; on the other hand, they’ve been taught that acknowledging those emotions is somehow wrong or “weird.” This belief often isn’t just about what they think of themselves but also about how they fear others might perceive them—worried they’ll be judged, rejected, or seen as weak. As a result, sensitivity can feel foreign, uncomfortable, or even threatening to their sense of identity. It’s not that they don’t have these feelings; it’s that they’ve been taught to bury them so deeply that expressing them feels unnatural. Ultimately, thinking it’s “weird” to be sensitive is less about who they truly are and more about years of societal expectations telling them who they’re supposed to be.#feelings#real#fyppp#relatable
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connor :
i cry every night twin
2025-06-29 16:42:20
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noah :
no twin, it's not weird to be sensitive as a man 🖤
2025-07-01 18:49:47
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nvdontdoit :
Nah twin just means we got a big ahhhh heart🫶
2025-06-30 13:53:03
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aaden.Yaj :
I guess WE all weird twin.
2025-07-01 06:58:47
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Arm@@n :) :
NO BROTHER
2025-08-04 04:33:12
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👓 :
am I even allowed to show emotion or is that still seen as weakness?
2025-07-27 13:33:45
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Luh timm :
Hn jus dnt let nby else see
2025-07-02 04:02:57
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nick :
F no, that’s what makes you a man
2025-06-29 04:13:45
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Brendon :
I embrace it atp. I’m emotional. Judge me. Idc. My girl has never looked at me differently. All that matters.
2025-07-02 03:06:27
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️ :
i cry all the time cuh, u good
2025-07-01 16:54:29
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No way Jose :
No that’s one part of being a man, being able to show your emotions❤️🩹
2025-07-02 23:14:24
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Angel🤙 :
I wish people cared for me
2025-07-01 01:43:48
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Timmy :
Atp it be like that every night fam
2025-07-27 07:17:42
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imtiredbutnotsleepylol :
i wish i felt comfort
2025-08-16 02:29:04
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✝️GODFIRST☦️ :
I cry almost every now and then
2025-07-03 14:20:30
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hc’ :
why do i care so much abt everything
2025-07-28 14:01:12
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ant⚜️🧌 :
nah but we need to learn how to control that sensitivity and not make it someone else’s problem
2025-08-05 14:26:51
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chillguyfrl :
na man I'm hella sensitive ngl I cry every night twin
2025-06-30 03:41:35
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roaminroman13 :
Weird, no. Unnatural to society, yes. Unfortunately people nowadays aren’t accustomed to male feelings and emotions. For years and years it’s always been “be a man. Be strong. Be tough” but in reality, we are human just like anyone else. We hurt, we overthink, we cry, we FEEL. Never be ashamed to be yourself, even if that means moments of vulnerability and sensitivity. The longer you sit with it, the worse it gets. “A tree cannot bear ripe fruit with rotten apples”
2025-07-02 01:07:52
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mj :
Be in my room like dese every night
2025-08-24 07:44:10
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️ :
i guess it is
2025-06-29 15:42:11
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braxtankerr :
thought it was js me frl
2025-07-01 23:28:18
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M :
I be feelin like I was meant to be a girl or somin bro ion know why I feel everything so deeply bro it da don’t make sense like ion fw crying yet I do ts everynight I hate that I care about everything I just wanna reset in life bro
2025-08-12 18:39:34
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محمد الجامد :
Yea
2025-11-01 21:56:19
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 :
nah bro if you gotta cry then cry a calm sea don’t make a skilled sailor there’s gonna be bumps in life and it’s okay to express that i wish the best for you all🙌🏼
2025-07-02 00:04:58
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