@annajemusix: Had to drop 2 friends a couple years ago because they kept making plans with me just to not follow up and then would go see other people at the time we were going to hang, after confronting them, they apologized and said they’d do better and then did the same thing not even 6 hours later…. Learn from me and don’t beg :) #friends #friendadvice #advice #healing #badfriends #healthyrelationship
ive always said this, there's a difference between busy and just lack of effort. some people will take days to text back and then call on you as soon as they need something
2025-06-29 21:58:52
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Zero 🏳️⚧️🇪🇺 :
I dropped my ex bestfriend because i wanted to hang out, but they cancelled on me for months. Even when i was like "hey we are both off school and work that week, lets meet" AND SHE WAS LIKE SORRY I WORK ONE DAY THAT WEEK I CANT HANGOUT. yup, that was the last push. I dont respond to their messages atm, if they cant spare an hour or 2 after almost a year, i cant spare time to answer their messages. 😔
2025-07-29 19:11:47
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Multis :
disclaimer for the friends that can't cause they live with their parents and their parents are strict: unless they're lying to you and hanging with other people, I promise those friends want to see you just as bad
2025-07-30 14:32:38
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Labubuck :
I realized this when I was the only one reaching out to hang out and they never bothered to 😭
2025-06-30 03:37:58
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Thor :
I had a friend cancel plans with me, day of, 4 TIMES IN A ROW. Within the span of like 2 weeks. I keep agreeing to reschedule (around their availability of course) and they just. kept. canceling. I no longer make ANY one on one plans with this person. 4 times in a row?? Naw, good luck with your future endeavors, I will not be reaching out again. 🙄
2025-07-25 23:47:29
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aslaklagelm :
im sorry i am the other friend but sometimes you guys be so insistent. get the clues people
2025-07-17 09:14:45
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Aleximeow95 :
had a friend like that. I do not talk to them anymore.
2025-06-29 22:01:02
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Daniiruthless :
Or they do finally make plans with you and then bail at the last minute. It just happened for the 3rd time in a month with someone and I’m no longer making plans with her.
2025-06-30 10:36:42
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Alan / Harpy ✡️ :
Needed this 5 years ago
2025-07-29 22:55:45
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Willvisionary :
it means they don't see enough value in the hang out, idt they hate you, it's just life
2025-07-29 05:39:24
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AJ✨💤 :
I know this, hence why I have no friends 😂
2025-07-24 00:21:53
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Aby :
Ik im busy but i can make time bc i had an ex friend be like well you never hang out with me bc u never ask and you never text me i ask do u wanna do something im free but never ever takes me up on it and talks sht
2025-07-26 19:47:21
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Missing :
I used to put so much effort into keeping a friend group together, the hardest thing with putting yourself first and letting those connections silently leave when you stop trying so hard, is how hard it is to make friends as an adult. There's no spaces like school for find your people again after.
2025-07-07 15:05:26
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Rylee Dulas :
I had a friend like this worked a 9-5 was their only job and I saw them like twice a year yet constantly saw pictures of them with other people on there story
2025-07-28 17:31:38
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Morgue :
Just cut off my “best friend” of over a decade because I finally woke up and realized I was never asking too much she’s just an immature person who doesn’t actually care about me 🤦🏻 she couldn’t even make time for me when my mom died in January (I haven’t hung out with her outside of a group at all this year 🤪)
2025-06-30 09:09:59
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Demented she/her :
The same “friends” also bailed on me when I was in a very dark place…. Saying I shouldve bene there for tjen… I was always there for them… but I need someone to be there for me once in a while too but hienstly good riddance I enjoy my peace now
2025-07-27 17:08:07
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SGB🎸 :
I am autistic and I do cancel a lot but I make a different date though
2025-06-30 18:18:13
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Jiniret's real account :
I full on asked them to hang out and they said "um uh I think one of these weekends" LIKE WTF
2025-06-30 23:38:40
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Sydney Luree 🆘🇺🇸 :
Right. I work full time and am back in school. But I will put in effort if you show me mutual interest and effort. But you have 2 times max to bail on me before I’m done reaching out and/or accepting invites. It gets lonely but it’s less emotionally draining.
2025-07-25 16:23:23
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Anonymous :
they said their too busy ALL the time
ive barely seen them in 2 years.
Ive talked to them about this a couple times, they apologise but dont change.
we were BEST friends, now I honestly think they dont like me
2025-07-07 09:17:44
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screamingcryingwhy :
Literally trying so hard to absorb this. Bro doesn’t have a job, we’ve hung out consistently for nearly four years, but recently he don’t even read my texts, and i got the ick cuz i found that he reposted a mr beast video. He used to give me reasons on the rare occasion he’d decline, now its just a “i busy.” I def gotta go. I think his gf hijacked him and is probably separating him from friends n shit. Cuz he been weird. I ain’t doin all that.
2025-06-30 12:41:11
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Sleepything45 :
Yeah my friends hate me. Guess I
Don't really have friends
2025-06-30 13:52:33
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🐇Scrap🐇🇵🇷❤️🐸 :
I literally told a couple of people I found actual train routes to meet these people in their states and whenever it came to coordinate a hangout they would never bring it up again or they would deflect but they would drive 9 hours for someone else or 17 hours to go to Florida😭
2025-07-01 16:27:46
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Alex :
"Time is valuable and they obviously don't see you as such" Did you just stab me? 😔
2025-07-03 08:40:41
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Ari_Tan || COMMISSIONS OPEN :
Idk if she hated me, because he has done this. AND WHATS WORSE IS THAT WHEN SHE DID "HAVE TIME" SHE WAS WIFH ANOFHER FRIEND AND WOULD PIN THE BLAME ON ME AND ANOTHER FRIEND FOR NOT CALLING FOR AN EMERGENCY
2025-07-12 07:18:44
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