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Ramen Bowl :
as a trans guy I've recently realised that I've been accidentally avoiding transitioning because of how much trans men are pushed out and how bad men are treated recently
2025-07-01 00:57:15
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Nick ☽☾ :
Thank you for bringing up malgendering because it is SO bad when it comes to this whole discussion. The amount of CIS people I’ve seen say “you know trans men are men because they’re trying to invade women’s spaces” is actually so infuriating
2025-07-01 00:45:18
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Miko\Oswald :
The fact we actually can understand women and stuff Because we used to be one and have gone through that shit... Like what😭
2025-07-17 03:19:19
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Vulture/Equinox :
Plus the way transmen have been denied the opportunity to talk about their experiences with women’s issues in society as if they didn’t have those issues and experiences too
2025-07-01 17:13:33
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SynthpopBatteryAcid :
this will get me flamed but I find amab or male/masculine identifying queer folks aren't often taken very seriously. I'm non-binary but no matter how much I correct folks I'm constantly called 'he', it hurts. partners and friends are the only ones that even seem to try.
2025-07-01 08:50:27
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snuff :
Im a trans guy and my friend group has a “guys gc” and a “afab gc” and guess who isn’t in either of them :) I’m not “man enough” for the guys one and I’m “too much of a man” for the afab one. How awesome
2025-07-08 20:41:01
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DoodleDaff :
Along with this, I've noticed that expressing femininity is seen as more queer than expressing masculinity. I've seen trans men who will only be seen as non-binary and non-binary folks who are amab only be taken seriously if they're presenting feminine. I think it's because of how femininity is seen as more radical in general, but it sucks that expressing masculinity is seen as toxic, heteronormative, and less queer :(
2025-07-01 17:13:50
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James :
As a trans man myself, I tend to think of myself as less important or at least that I’m far more privileged compared to trans women, since they’re the usual target of trans hate. I’ve come to believe that I need (or even deserve) less community and support
2025-07-17 00:26:56
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Watch Venture Bros :
Also like. Ppl say “well if you only specify cis men when talking abt misogyny ur saying trans men aren’t real men!!!” when it’s just acknowledging the difference in privilege
2025-07-17 06:55:40
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Casey Marlowe :
I’m trans nonbinary, and I used to facilitate a support group for trans and gender diverse people. In my own community, I have definitely seen many trans men but into the patriarchy and take on a lot of toxic masculine traits in an attempt to pass, being misogynistic to trans women and trans femme folks. I’ve seen trans men once they pass say “well I’m just a man now” and disconnect from the queer and trans community because now “nobody knows I’m trans and I don’t need it anymore”. I’m not saying we should categorically push trans men out of queer spaces, and I’m not saying that all or even the majority of trans men are like this. It’s unfortunate that some bad apples are ruining it for everyone else. But I think it’s important to acknowledge and contemplate.
2025-07-17 04:26:33
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Loki :
Honestly why I hate the term ‘it’s all men’ because it’s not. A lot of men are bad, yes. But so can a lot of women! It’s to do with the person, not the gender. I have born male brothers and nephews, they would never DREAM of harming women.
2025-07-01 02:18:36
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naz :
yeah this!! my masculine gender identity does not take away from the years and years of misogyny i experienced, society still views me as a woman and treats me as such and i d serve to be able to talk about my experiences
2025-07-01 07:52:34
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Aedan :
As much as i like the term malgendering, i feel like its fair to just call it straight up transphobia. Because BY malgendering us, we are being stripped of our transness in an effort to silence us because our gender makes other queer people uncomfortable.
2025-07-01 13:21:04
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K o a l 🏳️⚧️ :
The amount of anti Trans men rhetoric is getting fucking insane. Remember the trend where they told us we couldn't make music cause people didn't like Cavetown? The infighting during pride this year makes me so fucking angry.
2025-07-01 15:27:36
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greenneerg123 :
Not to mention, saying that trans men are bad because they are men and that's inherently bad is literally one word of difference from terf rhetoric, it just follows gender instead of bio s3x. Rad-feminism doesn't actually help women in any way so anyone saying this is just trying to separate the community and in these times that's lowk right wing behaviour
2025-07-02 12:28:23
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Log🪵 :
What also should be understood is that trans men are not the same as cis men. Inherently trans men have a different experience of gender and just life in general. Trans men and cis men are both men, but not exactly the same. That does NOT mean trans men are any less of men than cis men are, again, theyre just different, that doesnt make them any less valid. Not cis ≠ lesser than Trans men, even passing trans men who may experience some male privilege, still deal with the struggles of being trans and have just as much of a right to queer spaces as any other queer person. The reality is that a trans man's "privilege" only lasts as long as he passes perfectly and isn't outed, because once he is outed he is no longer seen as a man.
2025-07-03 06:20:41
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TheDeLowl :
I dunno who said that, but whoever it was, I'm buying them a cookie from the vending machine fr💜
2025-07-01 01:23:23
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|×K⁄a ⁄s⁄p⁄e⁄r ⁄ ×~✿|✓ :
As a transguy... Hmm, strong wind today... (but srsly tho, thank you ♡♡♡)
2025-06-30 20:56:49
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Oisín 🏳️⚧️🏴 :
Transguy here and yes, I worry as I start to pass more I'm going to be not seen as LGBT or my voice not be heard. Yet as a transman that went through pregnancy I think I have a unique viewpoint!
2025-07-01 18:47:56
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Jay :
adding to that attacking the experiences of men no matter whether they're cis or trans alienates them from societal discourse and teaches them that thei experiences/emotions are invalid, making them more likely to subscribe to harmful alt-right ideologies WHAT WHO SAID THAT
2025-07-01 14:53:26
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stardust cookie’s boyfriend :
people forget that a lot of trans men grew up as/were raised as women and have experienced the same misogyny/sexism and social disadvantages cis women have. its so invalidating to be pushed out of what should be a safe space for queer minorities to exist as a community no matter their label
2025-07-05 17:37:12
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pointing abnormal titan :
I told sbd i identity as a trans man but don't feel like a man but I still identify as such for my own personal reasons and they said "then don't. That's not what a trans man is" stop policing people's identities
2025-07-01 21:43:15
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iudexfatarum :
as a cis guy my ex wife told me that she didn't perceive me as a man because i was not toxic and all men are inherently toxic. i do think it's important to remember Riley's original post didn't specifically say trans men. he is trans and has perspective and experience but it's moved a long ways from what he actually said.
2025-07-15 15:01:48
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Clockwork Skullies :
Trans men are still victims of misogyny even if we are men. Because if society doesn’t see us as men, then we’re going to be treated like we’re women. Trying to completely separate the experiences of women from trans men is just flat out ridiculous.
2025-07-06 16:43:23
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Sam🇪🇺🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ :
I accept all pronouns, but people use he/him almost exclusively in a derogatory way on me. Usually it's transphobes who assume I'm amab and then assume a whole bunch of other bullshit and it can get so awful that I've considered switching to she/they. Not because I want to.
2025-07-01 09:52:35
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