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Women have that reaction now because we are beyond exhausted. We have been treated as less than human by men all throughout recorded history. We used to definitely try to encourage men to be more open with their emotions but we're called nags for it. So, I dunno man after all this time of trying women have given up the ghost of thinking men will change and decided to work on ourselves.
2025-07-01 08:27:01
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JaneoftheJungle :
When it was women’s pain it wasn’t a crisis. Only when men are underperforming and in pain is it a crisis. And women again, are expected to be the bigger person, look at the big picture, come to the table, and meet in the middle. No. Do better!
2025-07-01 15:22:01
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Rebecca P. Fox :
Appreciate you making this video, you’ve hit the nail on the head here. The divide between genders is becoming too large and needs to change
2025-07-02 15:08:52
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Big Poppa :
This right here. Well done Cody.
2025-07-01 12:08:48
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Joey Chandler :
No, we aren’t. We just need a better way of clarifying and making use of our values so that we don’t get stuck in our fears.
2025-07-02 01:06:24
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amazing.anxiety :
Men need good advice too
2025-07-05 17:31:16
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Adonna :
I think it can also end up as an echo chamber. Definitely temper it with people who are calm & stable. Co-regulation. But anxiety can also be a little contagious.
2025-07-05 15:59:11
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Christine Stiles Trauma Coach :
Same! I do this too and it’s exhausting. It’s extremely hard work. But it’s so necessary! Thank you for doing it too.
2025-07-01 08:18:30
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Bluurm :
here’s the good news: your heart and mind are inseparable and that’s why you care. you’re brilliant. the blowback is truly comical really
2025-07-01 12:48:40
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Secret Servals :
Social media was a mistake.
2025-07-01 16:31:04
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lu.wall0 :
I think a big issue is that women are exhausted. we are being raped and killed in ever rising numbers by men, and then we get gaslight about it constantly. Women are just bowing out of being near men and giving them our attention and our labor. They are interpreting our absence as hate. It's not hate, it's self preservation. This truly is for men to fix. We don't hate them, but we can't be there to lift them up anymore either. They have to do it themselves.
2025-07-01 21:11:41
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Fractured Empire :
New day. Same scars. Bigger fight. You weren’t broken, you were built different. Keep rising — Fractured and Found.💙💙💙
2025-07-10 09:12:58
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exhaustedbutfulfilled :
As someone in therapy and doing the hard work, I remember not to long ago I was like a lot of men who carry their mental health issues like a badge of valor. Happy to play the victim while making everyone else around them miserable. (Just ask wife/kids) Let’s get over ourselves and our anxiety and stop stigmatizing therapy for those who reallly want it. Damn! Do better!
2025-07-01 11:58:46
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Bruno George :
You know these are the same hateful people saying it's Men's Mental Health Month not Pride.
2025-07-01 16:25:33
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Purrl :
Mushrooms for everyone 🍄🍄🍄🍄
2025-07-01 12:20:24
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Just Jane :
I have 3 boys ( grown men) and I know they struggle. I would not say they need to get over it. Why do women feel like that? We expect a certain behavior and then criticize when we break them
2025-07-06 21:36:10
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