@madsadbadpodcast: When you’re scared of being hurt, so you end it first!! ❤️🩹 Jordan Stephens talks about why people self sabotage relationships when they’re uncomfortable with being loved….and what he has done to overcome it. Search ‘Jordan Stephens Mad, Sad & Bad’ on YouTube, Spotify and Apple for the full episode. @Jordan Stephens @paloma faith #jordanstephens #heartbreak #rizzlekicks #attachmentstyle #emotionallyunavailaible #selfsabotage #relationshipadvice #palomafaith
I had a really abusive ex who was like this. The kinder I was, the more I tried to be there for him and show that I cared about him, the worse he treated me. He hated himself so intensely, it was very sad but I had to walk away for my own wellbeing.
2025-07-01 21:51:24
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helengunderson :
I can’t believe how true this is for my ex, he cheated and I honestly think this was the reason
2025-07-01 19:15:11
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ducklife3150 :
My ex down to the T
2025-07-10 22:46:48
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Ems :
I dislike myself & so embarrassed of myself on the outside so bad that if I see a lovely looking man il instantly say bless him he doesn’t deserve to be someone as disgusting as me. Even thou I know I am the sweetest, kindest most caring person that always treats everyone with kindness. I’ve never been jealous & I love so hard but yet because I’m so uncomfortable looking like me I just think no one should give up everything to be with me I would feel sorry for them 🥺
2025-07-03 04:11:07
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SlimShaney86 :
some people wear a mask so far from themselves that they can't maintain it over a long time and then instead of working towards the mask they wanna be they revert and self sabotage.. sad
2025-07-06 15:00:59
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zak prior :
Oof Jordan really knows how to press that "ouch that hits real close to home" button for me
2025-07-02 20:24:49
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Nicholas T :
People will choose a familiar hell over an unfamiliar Heaven
2025-07-02 19:46:00
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Pretty profits :
Yep I do this after loads of trauma which is why I stay single
2025-07-03 23:06:47
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Rosie :
Why do I feel like older generations were better at doing this than we are so far
2025-07-01 20:17:05
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sarahkerry :
I’ve been in an abusive relationship you have to heal before you can move on otherwise you will hurt some else or yourself.. it’s a vicious circle unless you break it xx
2025-07-03 00:03:14
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Molly bibbs :
Dismissive and fearful avoidants
2025-07-02 19:56:48
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Andrew Swann :
Yep I am this person
2025-07-02 05:49:43
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Jo Fitzgerald665 :
*checks if ex reposted*
2025-07-01 19:45:38
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keegy d :
Looking for my ex in the comments
2025-07-04 22:28:44
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daninflow_ :
Holy shit, you got me bro 😂👏 love you for doing this. Your mission is awesome
2025-07-02 09:33:05
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Deluleah 🌴🌊☀️🐚 :
This is so true and so sad 🥺
2025-07-01 18:43:51
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teashans90 :
You gotta leave people that are like this no amount of love can take away their hate the only person that can do that it them by loving them you will only end up hating yourself your trying to bring them up to your level and the whole time they are trying to bring you down to their level
2025-07-02 06:15:39
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olivia :
Know this all too well
2025-07-02 13:42:17
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Me :
well wasn't expecting to be called out this morning. I self sabotage. don't cheat though.
2025-07-03 06:56:48
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Jen :
Yup
2025-07-02 22:36:15
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Beigegurl :
Just described my ex 😭
2025-07-02 05:14:51
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Tenisse 🇯🇲 :
Sheesh… 😩
2025-07-03 02:10:47
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loveintherave :
This is so so sad 😞
2025-07-01 17:32:59
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johnbroderick78 :
Self love inner peace
2025-07-01 22:03:50
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Han :
This is me. I feel so unworthy of being loved, when she’s intrest in me I get weirded out by that person
2025-07-02 16:51:01
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