@madsadbadpodcast: When you’re scared of being hurt, so you end it first!! ❤️‍🩹 Jordan Stephens talks about why people self sabotage relationships when they’re uncomfortable with being loved….and what he has done to overcome it. Search ‘Jordan Stephens Mad, Sad & Bad’ on YouTube, Spotify and Apple for the full episode. @Jordan Stephens @paloma faith #jordanstephens #heartbreak #rizzlekicks #attachmentstyle #emotionallyunavailaible #selfsabotage #relationshipadvice #palomafaith

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deadlynightshadelondon
DeadlyNightshade :
I had a really abusive ex who was like this. The kinder I was, the more I tried to be there for him and show that I cared about him, the worse he treated me. He hated himself so intensely, it was very sad but I had to walk away for my own wellbeing.
2025-07-01 21:51:24
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helengunderson
helengunderson :
I can’t believe how true this is for my ex, he cheated and I honestly think this was the reason
2025-07-01 19:15:11
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ducklife89
ducklife3150 :
My ex down to the T
2025-07-10 22:46:48
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mummyem3
Ems :
I dislike myself & so embarrassed of myself on the outside so bad that if I see a lovely looking man il instantly say bless him he doesn’t deserve to be someone as disgusting as me. Even thou I know I am the sweetest, kindest most caring person that always treats everyone with kindness. I’ve never been jealous & I love so hard but yet because I’m so uncomfortable looking like me I just think no one should give up everything to be with me I would feel sorry for them 🥺
2025-07-03 04:11:07
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men_talkhealth
SlimShaney86 :
some people wear a mask so far from themselves that they can't maintain it over a long time and then instead of working towards the mask they wanna be they revert and self sabotage.. sad
2025-07-06 15:00:59
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zakprior
zak prior :
Oof Jordan really knows how to press that "ouch that hits real close to home" button for me
2025-07-02 20:24:49
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nicholast99
Nicholas T :
People will choose a familiar hell over an unfamiliar Heaven
2025-07-02 19:46:00
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_kitty_x00
Pretty profits :
Yep I do this after loads of trauma which is why I stay single
2025-07-03 23:06:47
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rosiehayman_
Rosie :
Why do I feel like older generations were better at doing this than we are so far
2025-07-01 20:17:05
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sarahjkerry
sarahkerry :
I’ve been in an abusive relationship you have to heal before you can move on otherwise you will hurt some else or yourself.. it’s a vicious circle unless you break it xx
2025-07-03 00:03:14
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mollybibbsx
Molly bibbs :
Dismissive and fearful avoidants
2025-07-02 19:56:48
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swanny283
Andrew Swann :
Yep I am this person
2025-07-02 05:49:43
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jofitzgerald28
Jo Fitzgerald665 :
*checks if ex reposted*
2025-07-01 19:45:38
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kdvmcg
keegy d :
Looking for my ex in the comments
2025-07-04 22:28:44
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daninflow_
daninflow_ :
Holy shit, you got me bro 😂👏 love you for doing this. Your mission is awesome
2025-07-02 09:33:05
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sineadleah_
Deluleah 🌴🌊☀️🐚 :
This is so true and so sad 🥺
2025-07-01 18:43:51
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teashans90
teashans90 :
You gotta leave people that are like this no amount of love can take away their hate the only person that can do that it them by loving them you will only end up hating yourself your trying to bring them up to your level and the whole time they are trying to bring you down to their level
2025-07-02 06:15:39
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hotmotormommy
olivia :
Know this all too well
2025-07-02 13:42:17
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essex.girl.in.wales
Me :
well wasn't expecting to be called out this morning. I self sabotage. don't cheat though.
2025-07-03 06:56:48
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jen__j__l90
Jen :
Yup
2025-07-02 22:36:15
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beigeshawty
Beigegurl :
Just described my ex 😭
2025-07-02 05:14:51
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tenisseh
Tenisse 🇯🇲 :
Sheesh… 😩
2025-07-03 02:10:47
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loveintherave
loveintherave :
This is so so sad 😞
2025-07-01 17:32:59
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johnbroderick78
johnbroderick78 :
Self love inner peace
2025-07-01 22:03:50
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han4m18
Han :
This is me. I feel so unworthy of being loved, when she’s intrest in me I get weirded out by that person
2025-07-02 16:51:01
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