@pinsandweevils: Antwort auf @cocacolola 🥤🥤 [EDIT: Goodness. I was terribly scared to post this video because I was so scared of how people might react. I felt that same way when I had to tell my friends and family that I wanted to go back to living as a woman. In both situations, the world turned out to be a far kinder place than we expect. 💛] Thank you for asking politely—this comment is NOT the problem but I wanted to use it as a segue. I’ve wanted to address this but I’m scared that the comments will look like the Purge. #gender #lgbt #lgbtqia #trans #transgender #genderidentity #detrans #detransitioning #detransitioner #genderidentity #pronouns
youre so valid. gender doesnt have to be linear or static.
2025-07-02 17:51:03
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BARA HARI (Sam Franco) :
People are so mean I’m sorry.
2025-07-02 18:36:35
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he’s panicking :
love your content! I’m a trans man, and I have a few friends who used to be trans men as well and have detransitioned (or retransitioned, or whatever other language they use to describe their experience). While we’re in different places re: gender identity now, we’re absolutely part of a community and have so much in common and so many connections.
2025-07-23 03:56:25
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annie 🍂🍄 :
girl ill be real i honestly just thought you were german and left it at that 😭 but honestly i am proud of u for figuring out who you are!! ur journey is yours and yours alone :))
2025-07-02 19:44:12
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💫 :
as a trans person i love hearing the experiences of detransitioners! in a sea of misinformation and fearmongering about detransitioning, you guys have actually lived it and have such complex and beautiful stories to share!
2025-07-02 20:35:35
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Holzie 🇳🇿 :
I feel more people need to understand that detransitioning and regretting your transition are two different things. A lot of the people I’ve seen that have detransitioned never regretted transitioning, their journey was simply not as linear as others, as that’s okay because we are all different 💛
2025-07-03 01:36:39
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Wcr :
You are the first platformed person I’ve seen that wasn’t using their detransition to invalidate trans people. I love that you share your experiences to give nuance and color to the full breadth gender!
2025-07-03 05:13:01
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Ass Tree in Summertime :
Girlboss I’m so sorry people make you feel bad for detransitioning or trying to make it some crazy political thing to weaponize against trans people. I hate that people use it as a tool to say transitioning should be illegal because people might change their minds. In what other situation on the planet have we made something illegal due to the risk that people might regret doing it afterwards? If that was a valid argument to criminalize stuff, then it should be illegal to get a mortgage and have children.
2025-07-03 22:53:46
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🇨🇦 Death Before Comic Sans :
I’m really hoping we’re on the way to understand gender and sexuality as fluid spectrums. Your truth is valid at any point in your life, and sharing your experience is so appreciated!
2025-07-23 03:21:28
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Raymond Apollo :
you're like... a woman+. love it
2025-07-02 21:48:59
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loveofthedamned :
OMG, I suddenly realized why you looked vaguely familiar to me and that's because years ago I used your YouTube tutorial on how to make a pirate shirt out of linen! Thank you btw, your advice helped me make a recreation of the traditional Ukrainian embroidered shirt from my hometown. I still get compliments whenever I wear it.
2025-07-02 21:42:40
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Hour Glasss :
you are so welcome in the trans community with me <3 i love your view on this, it lines up with my understanding too.
I respect your journey and welcome your voice in this conversation. Long may this continue to become better
2025-07-11 21:49:11
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Laura-Lou :
I just assumed you were ex-amish/menonite tbh
2025-07-08 21:52:00
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Saff :
This just in: identities are fluid and gender isn’t a static concept! 😱 (fr though, I’m loving this comment section and I’m so glad you’re confident in your identity and building an amazing and supportive community here 💕💕💕)
2025-07-02 21:15:25
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Lamb :
as a trans person; please! talk about it! It helps a lot
2025-07-03 08:39:14
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Tamara :
You don’t owe strangers on the internet any explanation. It’s your decision and yours alone.
2025-07-02 17:45:56
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iiris :
detrans perspectives like yours are very important to counter the loud minority of transphobic detransitioners. it's a very personal matter and you shouldn't be expected to tell strangers on the internet about your medical history, but i still feel grateful that you shared this. also, you spoke about this really calmly, i can't imagine how some of those comments must feel. thank you for sharing, i hope people will let you be now❤️
2025-07-03 10:16:12
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fullstackdanni :
Your gender never even crossed my mind when seeing your videos, I was surprised that this was a question you were even asked, I just like your video for you and don’t think anything else really matters or is anyone’s business😊
2025-07-07 11:14:09
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Úlfurinn í tunglinu 🏳️⚧️🇮🇸 :
Sorry for using your story as an example, that hate you have been getting is just such proof that even if trans people detransition to follow what some extremists want, we will still be hated. You dont deserve that, anyone should be allowed to explore and express their gender in anyway. ❤️
2025-07-12 01:32:01
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Jamie :
As a trans person, i valued detransitioner's stories as it helped me make a more informed choice. I know a tiny tiny minority of detransitioners attack the trans community, but ive met so many more that aren't like that, and I value them.
I feel like we need to talk more about detransitioning because the community is heavily unsupported and they need are support too!!
2025-07-04 07:48:28
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Frankiedoodle :
In my friendship group we call it 'retransitioning' - like repositioning or just another transition itself - it's hard when neutral terms gain a negative association so imo you do just need to invent new ones ☺️
2025-07-02 20:22:18
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korejon_ :
i hope people are kinder to you in the future
2025-07-04 01:43:03
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Whaveyx/Thirza :
I just thought you were German/Northeastern Europe because I have a similar voice (AFAB and have always identified as female) and have a similar voice and speaking pattern😅 I'm glad you found something you are comfortable with though, your content makes me super happy
2025-07-02 22:12:15
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hawthorn_mori_ :
Solidarity from a trans person here! The few detransitioners I’ve engaged with in actual communities have been wonderful people. Gender isn’t always linear, and complex relationships with gender do not diminish the trans community. We both want autonomy over ourselves, there is no reason we should be misaligned besides the interference of bad actors. It’s important people know there are detransitioners out there who are kind and thriving and have a life beyond gender and grifting. I’ve always loved your content and I didn’t know you had a YouTube channel so I’ll check that out when I’m crunching through my next sewing project!
2025-07-02 18:32:45
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stephythespooniewitch :
As someone else mentioned, I just assumed you were European 🤷♀️
2025-07-03 14:21:01
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