Adam Lane Smith | Psychology
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thought0ftheday :
Has any studies been done on everythjnf your saying and how many have language based learning difficulties? I wonder if theres any slight relation, if these kids cant process language bc of something in the nervous system?
2025-07-04 02:51:06
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Ck :
Thank you for finally putting into words how I've felt all these years! I've always told people that I'm not good with emotions and showing them how they want me to but I do feel deeply. I wished I could plug them into my head so they could feel how I felt and I wouldn't have to say it when I didn't know how to articulate what was going on inside.
2025-07-04 16:29:48
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Meli :
I feel so seen and understood!
2025-07-25 21:03:53
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shavon Hinkley :
wow! I just came across your videos. these 3 video's is the first time I have ever felt validated. 😭
2025-07-03 14:11:23
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MsAndrea :
Opening this app and this what I finally learn about my family history and severe trauma onto the women including myself. That’s why I can’t succeed in any romantic relationship and I choose to freeze and just be alone. Thank you for this deep insight. 😩😩🌺 Love is all I want and all I offer myself currently.
2025-07-05 16:12:11
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Leslie Fox :
I’m sitting here bawling because I’ve never understood why I do ALL of this. The trauma from childhood caused it and I’ve never known it was that.
2025-07-03 17:35:17
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Jenni :
Wow. I’ve always thought no one would ever understand me. I feel seen.
2025-07-03 20:35:08
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the.montanablonde :
As an adult I still freeze around my dad instead of standing up for myself and worse of all I’ve frozen when I should have stood up for my kids 😭 the guilt is so big because I’m supposed to protect my kids and I froze… uncontrollably froze. Just like I always did growing up
2025-07-04 19:57:34
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Pryscilla.Christine :
All I have to say is thank you! I definitely needed this reminder… I have been in freeze again
2025-07-25 10:13:18
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Jonny helmet :
As a boyfriend or husband how does one help and support their needs
2025-07-04 12:43:41
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Bree :
You just described me. I have been trying to heal this for 4 years now.
2025-07-02 21:10:11
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user5830414896822 :
these all talk about childhood. but can adult abusive relationships leave you with the same variables of freezing?
2025-07-05 00:13:49
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tereska.music :
And when you actually are forced to say something because if not you’d be yelled at even more then you say something too direct too harsh too brutal. There is no way to put it in soft words and capture complex emotions. At best it will sound like an instruction to how to put together IKEA cabinet. Oh, and let’s through in some joke therapy so it defuses the tension…
2025-07-09 12:31:48
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vibrationhigh69 :
While traditional psychological frameworks often distinguish between attachment styles and personality disorders, this thesis argues that individuals exhibiting severe fearful-avoidant or other avoidant behaviors, particularly those who consistently refuse therapeutic intervention, manifest as profoundly destructive and psychologically 'sadistic' actors. Unlike Cluster B individuals often characterized by impaired empathy, these avoidants possess intact cognitive and emotional empathy, enabling them to comprehend the profound pain they inflict and the inherent wrongness of their actions. Their conscious and persistent choice to engage in a calculated pattern of manipulative tactics—including pathological lying, gaslighting, the 'push-pull' dynamic, emotionally abandoning partners in their deepest need, and the insidious 'silent treatment'—demonstrates a willful perpetuation of harm. This pattern of deceit, lack of accountability, and cold disregard for a loved one's suffering, often initiated after an initial 'perfect partner' phase, constitutes a uniquely insidious and dangerous form of abuse, designed to dismantle a partner's well-being and protect their ego at the victim's ultimate expense, extending indefinitely if unchecked."
2025-07-08 05:32:17
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Amber Damare :
I've never listened to a series that hit every point so on the head for my experience in life before...
2025-07-03 16:07:07
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___alyssum :
being trying to heal for 50 years!... this was my upbringing... parentisised, made to suppress emotions and abused.
2025-07-03 14:34:09
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Kat Rhoades :
I was mostly ignored. all the abuse was happening around me. but a few things happened to me too. people were to busy to see me.
2025-07-03 19:30:54
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NattyRuth :
To a T. I get extremely shaky during chaotic/confrontational moments. It used to just be my hands but it's gotten worse. Now my jaw & whole body starts shaking, or isolated to my stomach rolling (like a belly dancer,.. which I'm not) Afterwards I'm extremely exhausted, like I've just fought for my life. Glad I have something to call it and others can attempt to understand.
2025-07-09 03:27:32
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the.bearoness :
You are the first person that I have come across that has verbalized this. I thought this was just a “me” thing. 💔
2025-07-05 08:46:14
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Brandy Hills :
Wow ! I’ve never heard anything be verbalized about what’s wrong with me
2025-07-02 23:45:41
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Sweetruin :
Well, Parts 1 & 2 were already super accurate but this? Good lord, Part 3 is alarmingly accurate. I’m 41 and still trying to unlearn the damage of emotional neglect, verbal abuse, parentification, and enmeshment, before growing up and choosing very bad partners, friends, jobs.
2025-07-03 17:01:42
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Rafaela :
It’s not just childhood trauma. I am recovering from ptsd caused by living with my schizophrenic son. But healing is possible. With consistency and gentleness. Therapy and somatic exercises help tremendously. Dancing and music as well
2025-07-03 18:14:42
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makeyin :
Curious, can TMS make this even worse? I have been working on this for years, had some kind of control on it, but then got this treatment done and I’m just 10x worse than I ever was. Even during I was making awful decisions that have greatly affected my life.
2025-07-04 14:27:07
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Denise :
How I wish we could’ve found you 5 yrs ago. Life might have been so different
2025-07-05 03:14:19
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NotSandra :
I was told this all the time by my ex, all though I don’t remember much of my childhood I do know I have never had a healthy relationship, they’ve all been abusive in all of some forms of abuse. I always thought it was trauma due to the things I’ve been through in said relationships, not my childhood.
2025-07-14 15:56:00
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