@juliajcha: 👯♀️ It always has been and it still is about power. What is honorable is being upfront about how we benefit each other and navigate these relationships ethically and fairly (as allies), rather than navigating with hidden intentions to exploit. #bffgoals #bestfriendsforever #femalefriendship
Ur right bffs aren’t real and neither are good husbands and boyfriends. What’s the solution then? Don’t humans need human connection to survive?
2025-07-04 02:54:19
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iduxux :
Most of the bff groups are toxic and codependent. In my mid 20s I realized it's all a big💩
2025-07-04 13:58:16
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betkhery :
I admit that I was the less privileged and jealous friend while I was at school and even university. I always felt so resentful towards the affluent classmates - not even because they had more than I did (there is always someone richer and prettier out there), but because I felt like they looked down on me and genuinely believed that I am somehow below them. Only in my late twenties I managed to gradually drop this competitive mindset, and only in my early thirties I somewhat got rid of my addiction to validation that was ruining my friendships. I still believe that having friends and allies is wonderful, but we should all be careful who we trust and strive to be a better friend as well, because conditioning runs deep.
2025-07-03 22:05:38
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PINANKI :
Her parents called my parents to make me hangout with her again when I stopped talking to her because she was a mean girl - we were 23 😭
2025-07-03 20:06:01
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AA :
There really is no such thing as bff. So glad i released that fantasy. I recently went through one of the biggest betrayals of my life from my “bff” of 20 years. Whew. It taught me that people can cosplay friendship for years even decades.
2025-07-04 17:48:40
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🐰🎀•~Lola The Bunny~•🎀🐰 :
Yup
2025-08-03 12:08:04
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Steigh Sea :
Ima be my own Bess friend
2025-07-11 19:45:11
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bawdymyway :
This is why when I wouldn’t let women not get close to me to know my business or get something from me, they sought to destroy my reputation by getting with others to gang up against &/or resort to other violent acts. 😏💯
2025-07-07 12:01:59
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Y :
Feeling that u owed her anything, is true pure jealousy, they think that others have to live less for them
2025-07-12 01:51:19
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Noxolo Nhlabathi :
Thank you so much for this, I feel seen.
2025-07-04 20:24:36
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Rembulan Nauli :
the painful truth
2025-07-04 04:31:05
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Kachy :
@Victoria🌺✨ us in a nutshell
2025-07-05 11:56:21
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blah-blah-blah blah-blah-blah :
@nyaka thiiiiis
2025-07-05 10:05:49
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Her She Fun 💞🔆🔅🐰💞 :
🎯
2025-07-04 13:00:49
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maira :
um no, this statement might be abit one- dimensional and based of an experience. community support is important. just have some sort of discernment when approaching this.
2025-07-04 08:34:35
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skyscraper :
The entitlement of these envious “bffs” ugh
2025-07-04 03:48:20
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