@shadowdeangelis: We discuss the concept of 'narcissistic snapshotting' as described by leading expert Professor Sam Vaknin. This refers to how narcissists never truly know the people in their lives, as they view everything through the lens of their own internal framework and false self. When someone tries to change or deviate from the 'snapshot' the narcissist has of them, it causes deep anxiety and a compulsive need to force the person back into compliance. #narctok #narcissist #abuse #trauma #heal #therapy #narcissism #manipulation
This makes so much sense as to why they never ask about you or your life. Because everything about you is self-serving to them.
2025-07-04 23:39:53
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VadaBella :
Spent years with him. He knew nothing about me 🤦♀️
2025-07-05 00:06:11
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Eli :
I feel like sopilisim is a narcissistic’s fav philosophy lol
2025-07-05 06:26:04
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Syreeta_ :
This makes so much sense!!!
2025-07-04 23:43:52
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billi :
Fuckkk it all makes sense now .
2025-07-05 05:30:48
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Maz :
This explains perfectly what my narc mother does. Perfectly! I’ve even seen her meet people at parties and within 5 minutes she’ll start telling them who they are. A couple of times there’s been pushback where people have told her she’s obnoxious and arrogant. But she still does it. She’s creating a snapshot, establishing the idea of the person in her mind, rather than actually connecting with them.
2025-07-06 06:51:45
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mysticxyx :
Fact. They try to attack me using things they know about me that they perceive as “my weakness”, but it tells me more about their own insecurities regarding me and what according to them I did to hurt them. It’s all “revenge” bc I don’t want them in my life.
2025-07-05 16:13:04
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Cassie :
What’s crazy, is after 2 years in this. At the end before I left for good, he kept telling me I challenged his frame. He never explained what that meant… but now I know it means that I saw the mask slip, called it out and challenged his false self.
2025-07-05 13:49:00
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user43849593828559 :
when we would Hang out I always felt like he wasn’t present and I remember i felt uneasy about it and I never put my finger on it. I didn’t know what he was then
2025-07-05 01:25:25
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mariah :
This is wild. Before I went no contact, I used to say- “do you even know me? Because the person you are describing isn’t me…”
2025-07-06 19:53:06
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Len :
I have said for a long time a particular family member lives in a world that only exists in his own head.
2025-07-07 11:29:29
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Luke :
During Covid, I refuse to cut my hair. It went from 2 inches to 10 inches. That was the beginning of the end of my 14 year mar. He tried so hard to force me to cut it. He said he didn’t know me anymore.
2025-07-09 20:10:37
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user8195740046504 :
It was one of the many things that I kept noticing was how little he actually knew about me and never seemed interested in what I was doing
2025-07-06 20:56:45
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BlindsideArt :
ty. I needed this info
2025-07-06 05:40:40
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Stella Says :
This is spot on.
2025-07-05 05:11:26
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kathleenaxam :
That makes sense. As soon as I started to get well and out of my sister and mothers control, they both gave me so much opposition and undermined me. More than ever before. It took a long time to see it for what it was
2025-07-07 08:31:32
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the_cat :
yep they listed I had blonde hair in their temp restraining orders. I didnt have blonde hair for 20 years at the time
2025-07-06 20:29:11
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Gardengnome :
At 31, my own mother looked at me and uttered these words - "you know, I don't really know you". Bear in mind I lived with her my entire childhood up until I was kicked out at 18.
2025-07-06 15:25:13
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JT :
YYYEEEPPP. I've told me ex numerous times after we divorced that she doesn't know me.
2025-07-05 17:18:08
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Llamamomma :
Finding this out after the fact!
2025-07-05 02:27:09
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tutu joji kumivula :
Eventually this is how I started to see my narc father!! As a stranger! He did it himself, he didn’t know me and I didn’t know him even though we were lived together.
2025-07-05 22:41:21
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BackWoods360 :
Had this realization on a drive, day before last, then boom here's your video. Thank you for this...😁
2025-07-05 17:04:42
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It'sMeDeb :
This is so much to take in.
2025-07-31 07:08:18
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saysay22 :
Yep
2025-07-21 22:12:27
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saysay22 :
They snap shot me and watch me all day here
2025-07-21 22:12:08
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