Never discount yourself! You’re worth more than chasing someone else’s approval. Start by changing for yourself. not for anyone else. Build confidence, build discipline, build purpose for yourself. When you grow into the best version of you, everything else will start falling into place. Even the girl you’re chasing will notice but by then, you might realize you don’t need anyone’s validation but your own. jiayou!
2025-07-05 16:34:07
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Courtney333 :
You so sweet🥲I hope you find the love you deserve
2025-07-08 12:25:51
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aiden :
bro if u just lock in for 2/3 months u can completely change bro, start skincare, gym, healthy diet, hair. U got this bro it’s important to be confident and feel healthy bro 💪
2025-07-05 16:15:20
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derron :
i love the intent and the message, but pls don't improve yourself just for a girl. Find a good reason within YOURSELF to improve. Value yourself to feel good enough for yourself, not to feel good enough for her.
2025-07-06 18:37:28
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justbethanyy :
You seem so sweet, articulate and emotionally aware. Have more confidence in yourself and don’t put anyone on a pedestal. You are a prize too. It’s great to have motivation and goals but please always focus on the amazing qualities you do have ❤️
2025-07-06 17:49:30
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J :
I think right now your resources should be focused more on appearance, at least focus until you reach “visually presentable.” Braces, dressing, weight loss, hairstyling, contact lenses etc. Tips can be found on 小红书, tiktok, insta. Etc This will boost your self confidence. Takes time but it will be rewarding when you see the changes and the journey. It might be painful and slow but gradually when you look back you’ll be so proud of yourself. Even i myself is still trying to find ways to improve myself in career/appearance.
2025-07-11 22:11:03
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ItsPickleNik :
just saying I am still a fat lover that plays mtg and video games no good money. alot of issues with my head and I ended up finding somebody thats well above my league. she's my world and she makes me feel like im her world. you will find somebody dont give up. I aint gunna sit here and say work on yourself etc cuz thats good for some but not all. just give it time. be you be funny and somebody will walk into your life and fit the peices missing in your heart.. 🙏❤️
2025-07-12 22:48:24
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dan lee :
all you can say is I don't think she would like a person like me
2025-07-14 06:30:13
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TeganStone :
😊bro, i understand you trying to look better for her, that's good, it show's you hold her in that special place in your heart.
hat's really good👏👏
2025-07-13 20:15:02
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Raziq :
looks dont matter man
2025-07-06 09:44:21
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Tarot Fluisteringen 🪽 NL | BE :
Sometimes we long for the unattainable because it feels safer than real intimacy. The dream is safer than reality.
2025-07-11 21:49:35
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Mark ひ :
the comments all positive I think I the problem sia
2025-07-06 07:25:05
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cu33yp0rK :
cb this one what build?
2025-07-05 18:27:44
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H.A.N.N.A.H :
hi hi it's me again ur so perfect and I have faith I like body types like yours but if you wanted to change for yourself and her I have a world of tips not that I'm anything good but swimming is a full body workout and great for debloating and great if you don't wanna diet it keeps the body healthy and builds muscle fast
2025-07-08 00:29:30
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Seamé :
maybe she is what your soul recognise as himself. she i not the only kind person - you ill meet her hen you become what your soul its teling you thta it desire to be 🤔🤔🤔 so now you know your atandard. just become it. not easy but you have a life for it 👍🤗
2025-07-07 14:02:10
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slime :
Genuine qn, what if you do everything to improve yourself and she still rejects you? Will you feel resentful? I think you should do things for yourself and not for others. I’m not sure if it’s just me but i get the sensing that you are expecting something out of doing all this “for her”. But if it gives you the motivation to better yourself then so be it. (Just a girl’s pov. I wouldn’t want my admirer to do things for me, do it for yourself)
2025-07-07 12:32:27
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yusssyusyussssyussss :
Lets be real you got potential first of all you can start using braces if you want its optional. Secondly you can start to debloat by taking potassium into your diet and lastly you can start going to gym to build muscles and about finances we can put that aside just do what you love instead of chasing a girl
2025-07-13 14:03:07
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Reegan Stani :
don't do it for others. do it for yourself.
other things will come
2025-07-13 12:29:02
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Doll💕🌻 :
Its really about 'you' before it is about 'her'..... you are thoughtful, adorable and its never about how you look, more of what you and her create..... don't stress so much, you're deserving..... and you will be loved 🥺🥺🥺
Sending love and hugs from Kenya 🇰🇪
2025-07-07 11:30:08
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nvm_jordyn :
just remember, you are doing this for you, love yourself first
2025-07-11 21:52:27
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Hermit King :
bro fix your teeth fix that first you get this bro
2025-07-06 18:53:01
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sarah yasmin :
I hope you do end up together with her.. you seem like a very nice guy with a good heart. Believe in miracles:)
2025-07-07 20:28:46
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Mystic Rose 🌹 :
Why is everyone going on about his weight? He should be comfortable and confident with who he is as us. Confidence is always attractive no matter how you look
2025-07-06 21:40:59
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Jasmine :
hope one day you will know and realize, your self worth is not dictated by someone else but yourself. jiayou
2025-07-05 16:08:21
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Unknown.Source :
the man im in love with, is squishy ☺️hes cuddly! successful women also have insecurities and worries! when someone loves you, you dont have to change. and shes not out of your league!i do think martial arts would be good because you can get fit and be in a position to protect her! yikes! go do classes for a couple of months, and see then if she would like to go with you! everyone is different.we do not EVER base human worth on a job description.we base human worth, on their value as a human 😉. our careers are important,but us outside of that job, is who we are!
2025-07-07 08:36:27
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