They were so protective beyond anyone I’ve been with. But in reality they hurt you more than anyone else ever will.
2025-07-07 02:14:18
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Kat B :
You feel safe with a narc because they say the right things, give the best compliments, and make you feel loved like never before...just to keep you in control. And the moment they get caught in lies or mistreatment they lash out and that's where that safety ends. It was all a facade.
2025-07-07 02:39:00
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_twiggz :
Yup I literally said that to him when he asked why I was opening up about so much
2025-07-21 21:34:48
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hannah :
He protected me from everyone else but couldn’t protect me from himself
2025-07-07 16:25:43
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Jenna🧿 :
Yup he protected me from everyone but he was the main one hurting me. Physically and mentally.
2025-07-07 02:43:45
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BronzeMama :
he looked like a nerdy dad. but he was so protective. turns out he was using his nerdy vibes to make moves on women the whole time.
2025-07-07 19:54:26
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Drew 🌈 | WLW Sports :
They act “protective” but it’s all about controlling you.
2025-07-07 17:43:40
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Andrea :
Unfortunately the only person I’ve ever felt safe with 🤡
2025-07-07 02:45:12
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this💚time🧡4🙏🏼sure🤣 :
great post
2025-07-24 09:06:56
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user9515698081071 :
I never felt safe my intuition told me something was off
2025-07-07 05:46:19
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💜kenya_charyce💜 :
build you up to believe they're your protectors then yank it all away.
2025-07-07 04:07:40
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Babygirl74 :
💯 facts I felt safe and I loved his hugs
2025-07-07 03:37:51
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James681 :
I mistook Familiarity for Safety. I have never known "Safe" in my life, so her Chaos is Safety through Familiarity.
The Familiar Chaos is better, then the Unknown Chaos of Peace.
2025-07-07 21:56:05
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Shanté 🌹 :
Yep, over protective because your beautiful and I want you to be safe. No, control and fear of losing grasp of it. I couldn’t wear makeup or shorts in Florida. He was very unsafe.
2025-07-07 02:43:40
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Sonny :
The way he held my hand. Never let me open a door, morning check ins. I soon learned it was all for control.
2025-07-07 03:22:18
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Aisha :
I’m trying to leave one because I can’t take anymore. 15 years and I have no confidence, no friends, no family and no peace
2025-07-07 02:19:12
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tiarblanton :
I wasn’t initially attracted to him;he was my male “best friend “ cuz he was short,not all that good looking,but to me-he was so cool & funny & smart! I liked that about him.But then -after we got together-in a romantic way-he punished me.
2025-07-07 04:35:05
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gayle s :
right for a period of time and the unsafe
2025-07-07 02:34:39
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SharNaye❤️🔥 :
He was so loving and protective in the beginning then turned out to be the wirst person I’ve ever encountered. Speaking to him causes me extreme anxiety now. I’ve cut off communication as much as possible.
2025-07-07 14:58:26
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Androniki Kouveli :
Also, Maybe they mean familiar.
2025-07-07 05:21:23
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Carine :
they either take advantage of or create a situation where they are the "saviors & protectors" so you feel safe & let your guard down.... at least at the hook...
2025-07-08 18:37:30
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Ashly Kiara :
Oh my… this is spot on
2025-07-08 01:02:11
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Deana Vazquez :
I’ve encountered so many narcissists, specifically ones that weren’t romantic, that I straight up don’t know who to trust anymore. What are the earliest signs of a narcissist or toxic person that you can point out?
2025-07-07 03:44:20
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2toxic006 :
Yea I felt safe til I realized how much he was actually my enemy and kept trying to bring drama into my life to the point he tried to have me jumped twice and while carrying out last baby so nothing about being wit him was safe it was more of the illusions he had me in
2025-07-07 02:43:40
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NightyShifty :
I never felt safe from day one - what was that?
2025-07-07 07:13:13
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