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Rosemary Beenken :
May I ask how long where you widowed? How long were you divorced? Before you each started dating Ect. Thank you
2025-08-01 21:05:33
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Christa Weber :
I’ve thought about this very much
2025-07-31 19:43:25
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Brenda Humphrey Wilkinson :
My husband had sold his house that him and his wife built together. Even though I have been here for 3 yrs (2 as wife). I am still making things at my taste so work is still in progress.
2025-08-01 11:52:36
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user3018389860719 :
It’s the hardest thing to do other than losing my husband. 😞
2025-08-01 01:35:05
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Walter Roll :
couch is too low
2025-07-26 10:27:00
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j :
The hardest is finances. How have you set that up? All bills 50/50? Savings and retirement separate?
2025-07-31 20:54:41
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Anne Marie Wingate :
Awww…. It’s hard. I’m dating a window and I’m divorced. It’s a process for the kids. Dating into our 5th year. Not moving in…it’s awesome!
2025-08-01 02:24:55
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bettynippercrawford :
Selling my home and moving to his was hard, and a big mistake.He says I have the choice to live here as long as I’m alive. Then it goes to his family. We’re both Widows and widowers.Finances is a big challenge How do you blend money and property .
2025-07-31 02:12:46
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Alaina :
My husband moved to my house and he resents me all the time for it. We had plans to buy a home together in the next year, but we didn’t make it. He left me due to challenges with his grown son.
2025-07-11 00:59:51
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Steve :
I appreciate this conversation so much. Everything you both talk about is so true and real
2025-07-09 12:47:52
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JennySteve6585 :
Moved into my now husbands house, with my toothbrush and clothing. Sold everything I had or gave it away. Selling my home that I bought and paid for by myself was hard. This house will always be his but we remolded the entire house and changed EVERYTHING. It now feels like it’s my home, best money we spent!
2025-07-08 01:47:47
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michelec19600 :
How do you pay for finances since you have moved in
2025-07-08 09:47:35
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Jess :
Do you both have 50-50 shared custody?
2025-07-24 14:05:27
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Cecilia Mota :
I love that I came across yall page. I’m in the same process which we haven’t decided just yet which move to make. We have 4 children together. We each have our own home. I have the space but my house needs a lot of work. He doesn’t have a lot of space but his house is more equipped. He owns his house and I still owe on my home.
2025-07-22 18:49:16
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brookebarve :
My husband was a single dad for 10 years before myself and 4 children moved in. And it was kind of the same way. After 4 years, we just purchased a new home together, and I can tell you, I feel more at home TOGETHER in our new home, than I did the last 4 years in his home that we moved in to initially. It’s so fun to build something together.
2025-07-15 16:02:04
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jenniferstimisbon :
We both sold our homes and bought one together
2025-07-08 19:55:49
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Yvonne Szotzki :
I have been dating a widowed man for three years now, we have been living together for two, it was his marital home. I came from a divorce after 33 years of marriage. I had moved into an apartment right after my divorce and was in that apartment for about a year before I moved in with him. Moving into somebody else’s house and feeling like it’s not yours has been a very big challenge for me it doesn’t feel like home to me. There are so many things that are still intact from his wife.
2025-07-31 18:37:23
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kAyLA.boRst25 :
I feel this ! Still living in the home my husband shared with his ex wife. And I definitely feel like if we were to move out into a different place that neither one of us shared with anyone else would make it feel better. I did make it more homey feeling but I just want something different for us and we have 4 kids all together and it would be wonderful if they all had their own rooms. Just hard to find a place when everything is expensive lol
2025-07-16 22:01:47
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Summer Dawn :
When we blended, my fiancé had been renting, I owned my home. I sold my home and we bought a fixer upper that could accommodate our large family. Everyone pitched in resulting in ownership in the home we created together. We are now planning a big backyard wedding this fall, three years after moving into our home.
2025-07-08 21:06:42
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MonsterButte :
Choosing new items together and phasing out items from our previous homes.
2025-07-09 15:11:55
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Kimberlyn Parker :
I still want our own place and having the other for rental
2025-07-09 00:33:23
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Michelle Burke :
So how do you decide where to live once all the kids are out of the house and scattered among states?
2025-07-09 20:09:34
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Ryan Guilford :
Moving into my husbands house that he built with his ex was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. I still don’t feel like I’m at home. It’s a very nice house but I will be excited to move when all the kids graduate. It’s also a little challenging because we like different styles! 🙈
2025-07-08 17:13:44
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charity_5629 :
Same I moved into my fiancés house after our divorces and it was hard to feel like it was “our” home. We moved a year or so later so it all worked out.
2025-07-08 17:55:24
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