@anxiouslyalej: The Psychology Behind Why Men Love "Bitches"⬇️ Ever wondered why the women labeled as "bitches" often capture men's attention the most? It's not about being rude or heartless - it's about having unshakeable standards and genuinely high self-worth. Here's the psychology behind why: ✨ 1. Effort Equals Investment: Men instinctively value what they invest effort into. When a woman has clear, non-negotiable standards, a man has to work harder to meet them. This effort increases his emotional investment and attachment, making her more valuable in his eyes. ✨ 2. Scarcity Drives Desire: Assertive women don't freely give away their time, attention, or affection - they reserve it for those who truly earn it. This scarcity signals worth and creates a strong psychological pull, motivating men to step up and prove themselves. ✨ 3. Authentic Confidence: Women labeled as "bitches" often display authentic confidence and aren't afraid to assert their boundaries. This kind of authenticity communicates strength and independence, qualities men inherently find attractive. ✨ 4. Actions Over Words: No non-sense women don't waste time convincing or explaining their worth; they simply embody it. Their consistent actions, clear boundaries, and willingness to walk away from disrespect demonstrate genuine self-respect, commanding respect from others. ✨ 5. Emotional Discipline: A woman who maintains her standards isn't swayed by fleeting emotions or empty promises. She knows her worth, remains composed under pressure, and avoids chasing validation. This emotional discipline is powerfully attractive and rare. Men bond through the effort and challenges they face in pursuing you. Let him invest in the process - because effort creates attachment. Your standards aren't obstacles; they're filters. Let him rise to meet them. #feminineenergy #womensdatingadvice #blackcatenergy #datingforwomen #relationships #datingadvice #avoidantattachment #datinginyour30s #datingcoachforwomen #dismissiveavoidant #breakups
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Monday 07 July 2025 21:53:03 GMT
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Shialina 🕉️🧬🦋 :
“A queen never fights, she withdraws her energy and the empire falls.” YES!! 🔥
2025-07-08 01:03:18
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cecimo :
why obsess over men when you can obsess over yourself.
2025-07-08 14:49:10
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最好 :
Mine wasn’t attracted to woman with high values and all that, he was attracted to women who were easily manipulated, forgave him for everything and made him feel comfortable in knowing that they didn’t make him feel “forced” to be better .
2025-07-08 16:17:32
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evelyn_lee_harris :
Girls, seriously just read Dark Femme Mastery by Sophia Vance. It woke up my feminine energy like nothing else. If you want to feel powerful
2025-07-08 15:47:08
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Mama & Son Content Creators :
Don't answer their calls, block them for minor things, go no contact far minimum of 30 days, look beautiful everyday and stay in shape. keep a roster
2025-07-08 18:39:48
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Anu :
this book feels like a secret that got out accidentally. The Woman’s Hidden Edge by Emma Pierce is THAT powerful.
2025-07-14 11:54:13
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BluejayMacQueen :
How do you embody your standards?
2025-07-08 19:00:08
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✨Claudia✨ :
“Men don’t find clarity through your word, they’ll find it through your absence” 🫳🎤
2025-07-08 03:41:54
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JennAndTonik 🇨🇦 :
“Discovery is more impactful than disclosure” ✍️✍️✍️
2025-07-07 22:15:26
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deidre Gen❌ :
But, if you don’t communicate your boundaries, how do others know what they are so they don’t break them?
2025-07-09 23:08:15
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Perfume_&_Roses ރ :
I am that B and she’s right ladies ! 😎
2025-07-08 17:29:05
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Wallflowers ✨ :
THIS IS SOOOO TRUE! "the mouth speaks the abundace of the heart" and whatever a man talks alot about is what they're really wants
2025-07-08 03:06:38
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Amely :
This video highlights the psychology behind why men are drawn to women with high standards. It emphasizes that when a woman has clear boundaries and authentic confidence, it triggers a man’s emotional investment and creates a sense of scarcity and value. The key takeaway is that effort leads to attachment, and maintaining emotional discipline while staying true to one’s worth is an incredibly attractive trait.
2025-07-07 21:56:35
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Galina❤️ :
The psychology behind attraction is complex. It's not about being rude but about having clear boundaries and self-respect. When a woman sets standards, it challenges men to prove their worth, which creates emotional investment. Confidence and emotional discipline are key factors that make her more appealing, as men value effort and authenticity. Setting boundaries isn't a barrier, it's a filter that helps cultivate deeper connections.
2025-07-07 21:56:58
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chrissymakeupartist :
Loveeeeee your videos so much!!!
2025-08-02 18:49:59
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🌺 :
He says he loves me since 12years but he is married to the girl his motehr asked him to marry.So is it a real love? he got kids too
2025-07-09 21:48:19
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Revenge Of The Good Girl :
The psychology of high value. Yup
2025-07-09 02:35:45
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mamafergie2 :
I’m trying to master this in a co-parenting situation is a true challenge. He’s constantly playing games and asking me to watch our kids when he needs to go out of town. I don’t want my kids to be in a bad situation so I always say yes. Ugh! So frustrating any thoughts?
2025-07-08 21:59:39
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Heather Tebbe-Nicken :
If I need to be authentic, then I need to speak my truth. Then follow up with actions… I’m confused.
2025-07-08 04:33:37
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nohemiverse :
I love this cuz is sooooo right
2025-07-28 05:51:56
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Cherish :
Less Chihuahua and more composure👏👏👏
2025-07-09 11:04:50
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leilasingh :
yes that's right, a woman must demonstrate what she wants and respect that. True.👌❤️❤️❤️
2025-07-08 14:24:19
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Gigi :
YES!!!! it’s the woman he can’t walk over. The woman that will make him a better person.
2025-07-22 15:53:39
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drsuzee :
I love your ‘less chiuhuaha’ term 😂
2025-08-01 23:31:30
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__loosechange :
to your discovery point - it’s crazy that you can directly tell someone something but they either won’t pay attention or won’t believe you unless someone else told them or they saw it on your socials.
2025-07-14 17:11:48
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