You will NOT win with your manager, do NOT confront them: work on a plan to get what you need from them and let go of the hope that they will change.
2025-07-15 06:23:29
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Heather :
I just want to say you just set me free. I have never appreciated a TikTok so much. I thought it was me. You must work in my office and I don't know it.. Thank you, thank you, thank you..
2025-07-21 19:51:04
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desmondgoggin :
My management are just like that.
2025-07-24 09:50:17
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user2064232363194 :
Not an unpopular opinion at all. I think you hit the nail on the head.
2025-07-08 13:17:38
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MarBar :
You nailed my boss 💯! If she wasn’t retiring in a few months I’d have left by now.
2025-07-08 12:31:18
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Tammy :
I’m about to call them out. 😆
2025-07-09 00:45:05
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Rachelle :
I’m so glad I found your page! I’ve been losing my mind with my manager. Thank you! I feel validated.
2025-07-17 01:10:56
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rmpwdc :
Your timing could not be more perfect. I grappled with this exact problem today. And what makes it even harder is that she gets defensive so easily. I'm trying to be so diplomatic and sidestep the landmines to get the information I need to do my job, and...
2025-07-09 03:33:43
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Kelexalate :
Honestly, you make me feel seen. This is content I need because so much of my day i feel crazy because of leadership
2025-07-16 05:34:32
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CharlotteSteggz :
My manager has ignored me for months. Not a single meeting, communication about my projects, not to check in. I have an interview tomorrow for something else.
2025-07-20 20:51:11
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Sarah The Organiser🇦🇺🇬🇧 :
Where were you 4 years ago 🙄. (Great post, thank you)
2025-07-20 20:55:11
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Camino Coaches :
100% please say it louder! They will also pivot and change direction all the time
2025-07-11 12:21:01
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Jenna :
Whoa 🤯 this put to words exactly what I felt like. I quit on Friday.
2025-07-22 20:29:14
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Vineyard Design Studio :
I left a 20 year career this year because of toxic/gaslighting leadership. I started my own business and couldn’t be happier.
2025-07-16 03:39:32
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Boitumelo Glamfabulo :
Ok Lynda I’ll follow you, you’re just all over my fyp😅
2025-07-16 18:27:40
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Luminaria 🇺🇸🇨🇦 :
I get what you’re saying, but this advice could be misinterpreted and used against disabled people with communication differences. “Clear” is subjective, and as HR I have seen this weaponized. “I can’t work with this person. I don’t like how they talk. It’s not clear TO ME.” When really it’s an unwillingness to manage anyone that isn’t a yes-man.
2025-07-18 15:16:29
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A R K A N O X - آركينوكس :
my ex manager lashes out at me when I asked her for documentation regarding her weird requests. she literally said "YOU want proof on ME??". as a reward they promoted her 🤣
2025-07-11 22:07:40
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Aarthi :
Unfortunately, decoding lack of clarity from your manager is packaged as “ability to manage ambiguity”. All of this to avoid taking accountability for negative outcomes. Can’t emphasise enough how much this phrase is overused and abused in corporate Europe.
2025-07-12 07:48:30
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Raquel Roman :
I love this
2025-07-24 21:30:02
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Kristin Boone :
Why does HR and other executive leadership continue to support this behavior when it’s so blatant and clear
2025-07-18 15:38:00
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Steph610 :
You explained my boss! Unfortunately…
2025-07-18 15:56:17
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Patty Carmen 🇨🇦 :
How do I send this to my husband’s boss and tell him that this is him to a tee without me sending it to my husband’s boss ? Do you do anonymously sent singing telegrams ?
2025-07-11 12:14:34
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Gneil :
So walking towards whats clear means leaving the job?
2025-07-12 06:41:24
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NancyFal29 :
😡😡 EEOC Complaint Filed 😡😡
2025-07-19 12:10:13
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Amy S :
OMG! You are my cosmic sign! I just wrote my notice to my boss, basically for lack of clarity!!! You describe it perfectly. TY!
2025-07-16 02:19:24
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