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#1 Jayce Edger :
"THIS IS SO REAL OMFG?!?!" *opens comments* "avoidant final boss" "Oh damn"
2025-07-10 01:04:39
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lacy Mae.g :
avoidant final boss
2025-07-09 06:36:10
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zoé :
i feel you, i feel this deeply but probably not for the same reason. im not actively attached to someone, but i still hold deep love for someone, for this specific person only. He's not in my life anymore and i've outgrown the sadness. Every relationship i had after wasn't right in any sense and were mostly just horrible experiences. Now i feel that exact way. Maybe i'm repulsing the idea of love after everything bad that happened to me and that one person being everything. But you're not alone with these feelings, that's what i wanted to say. 🫶🏻
2025-07-14 22:14:10
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Whatsaname :
this is avoidant attachment, It gets intense if you let it play out but it's fixable if you ignore your bubble and let yourself get hurt and it's not that I'm saying let yourself get hurt everyday but getting hurt once at a time forms something that actually helps you form a connection with people rather than wanting to avoid them when they get too close. I relate to this but it's toxic because you basically protect yourself to the point you're afraid of anything that can hurt you. Sometimes it's better to get hurt rather than being pure Y'know?
2025-07-09 13:43:42
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red :
people get upset at this, yet the video says op lets them know the way they are and what they want and don't want out of a friendship 🤔 if someone tells you they don't want anything deep or serious, and you go into the friendship anyways of the belief you can "change them", the blame is on you, not the other person
2025-07-09 14:58:54
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leley ໑ :
As a schizoid, this is too real. I don't want anyone to know me, it feels strange. I don't like bonding w my own family too, I only enjoy superficial relationships, they don't hurt me, and I don't hurt them bcs we aren't important to each other
2025-07-09 11:50:58
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Michael :
Shallow as hell
2025-07-09 06:06:27
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sumi7! :
how do u fix this
2025-07-09 19:08:33
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rosetotte :
me with friendship
2025-07-16 15:41:34
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leora :
wow you like explained how i feel perfectly u like worded so well
2025-07-08 18:45:06
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yuzu :
silent reposting ts
2025-07-17 08:32:21
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𝕬 :
YOU DESCRIBED IT SO WELL
2025-07-09 10:47:01
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⍴ᥣᥲgᥙᥱ ꉂ(ˊᗜˋ*)♡ :
I hate the comments saying "avoidance final boss" or anything around that. being avoidance and being super attached are both INCREDIBLY bad for either person and people don't tend to understand that. people baby super clingy people and see the avoidance person as the villain when that ISNT the case. its so much more than just "being avoidant". I feel like people confuse this with being cold and toxic. these comments are not it, I relate to this so deeply
2025-07-11 00:30:49
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Birb 𖤓 :
As someone who has a favorite person, being very attached to them. I know they don’t function that way and that is okay. I don’t mind putting in the effort, waiting, reassuring that I’m not going to leave. I’m going to wait if they are tired. I’m going to comfort and reassure when they need it. I will wait.
2025-07-08 17:50:39
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Sir fork IV :
I just like my alone time and having too many people relying on me takes that away
2025-07-08 17:09:39
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written by ash lynx and nana. :
sounds like avoidant attachment style to me, cause I've been like this all my life ig. craving love and intimacy but I'm too exhausted to even talk
2025-07-09 06:49:07
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TLS123 :
This is valid and suddenly attachment styles are going viral everyone misunderstands them like they do with depression and other issues
2025-07-09 07:42:00
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☣ :
just say you have attachment issues
2025-07-09 14:02:19
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microwave.309 :
Hi i feel the same, Ive never heard one speak about this. In general i struggle with holding more than 2 good friends because i honestly dont even feel the need to have any at all, its just that the social status of being ”alone“ is ”weird“. Most of my life i grew up having more fun online rather than with friends in real. I also feel no need for a romamtic relationship in any kind, I could not think of sparing my time for somone romantically. I am not arrogant, though. Im very empathic even, and honestly id prefer one good online friend over any kind of romance. With 1 good friend ship i mean not being best friends with the person, but for them to just acknowledge me.
2025-07-09 07:45:48
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hotrhod 🇬🇧🇪🇺 :
If I am someone’s favourite person (in a bpd sense), I hope they would never tell me. That’s a lot of responsibility to put on someone when they don’t have a choice
2025-07-09 07:40:14
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meowtski :
as someone who was on the other end, I don't hold anything against them cus I understand their part and the best way to love is to love them the way they'd feel most comfortable in. We still talk everyday but I don't intrude their personal space anymore— I'm learning to not depend emotionally on other people[awkward]
2025-07-13 02:13:34
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ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ :
please go ask for help.. someone who you trust, you are most definitely avoidant.. I know it can be difficult to ask for help but trust me it's better than bottling up your emotions
2025-07-09 17:35:19
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zen. #1 HYUNJU's FAN :
I don't understand why people really hate avoidant and don't really care about attachment style
2025-07-09 14:52:07
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pepepickle :
The problem is that you were led to believe that being someone's favorite means carrying that burden and having the emotional responsibility for others on your shoulders, but that shouldn't be the case. When someone is your favorite, you like to be around, to see them well. You're like a bird watcher who watches them fly by from afar and offers them comfort if they want it, but you don't hold them, you don't demand anything of them, you just love them, let them be, and love them from afar if necessary. I think you're disgusted by the idea because what you've really experienced is emotional dependence on the other person.
2025-07-09 19:56:44
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•I am VADC• :
I met someone like that, I thought I would be the one who would change it, I managed to maintain a friendship of years and then everything went away. Don't think you'll change them guys, tho you never choose your emotions, neither do they
2025-07-10 17:30:44
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