@howmarriedareyou: “I used her love as a crutch…” Whew. That line hit deep. 💔 This man didn’t write in to defend himself. He didn’t minimize. He didn’t shift blame. He told the truth—about the depression, the passivity, the weight he placed on her shoulders. And then he asked: 👉🏾 How do I become the man she deserves? 👉🏾 How do I stop drowning in self-pity? 👉🏾 How do I build discipline when I was never taught? This episode isn’t about pointing fingers. It’s about reckoning with who you’ve been… and rising into who you’re becoming. We’ve been there. And if you’ve ever felt stuck, ashamed, or behind—you’re not alone. 🎧 Episode 250 is live now. Drop a comment and tell us: What’s helped you break free from self-pity and start showing up for the people you love? 👇🏾 #howmarriedareyou #episode250 #redemptionarc #blackmarriage #mensmentalhealth #HealingJourney #ownyourstory

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