There are several Alex Filho’s on Tiktok. Which one is it?!
2025-07-11 00:04:22
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Rafaela_ela :
When I was SA I froze n just laid there n let them do whatever, I was to scared if I tried anything I’d get hurt. So I gave them what they wanted to keep myself safe. It’s not as easy as getting up n leaving
2025-07-10 09:17:55
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Mya Knight :
I believe WOMEN! Point.
2025-07-10 16:04:47
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Louise.George :
off topic but I just noticed what your mug says🤣
2025-07-10 08:44:29
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J_Lynn_♥️ :
I’m a detective and most of my victims freeze. Some don’t remember the event at all. No matter what your reaction is no is no and no one ever deserves for this to happen to them.
2025-07-10 13:20:02
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alex.pahnin :
name?
2025-07-10 21:06:58
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Megan :
“Let’s not blame victims for how they respond to their own SA.” 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Say it louder for the people in the back!
2025-07-10 15:17:43
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Jeanne Haywood655 :
Many of us have a moment in our lives when we submitted to survive
2025-07-10 12:33:09
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Tiffany Masse :
I always told myself if somebody ever tried to do that to me that I would fight back. Until it happened to me. I froze and just laid there until it was over. I cried. He was my ex. It happened in my own house. In my own bed.
2025-07-10 15:50:30
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Bronnie 🦄🦉🦄 :
Hey sweetie, I feel like you did chat about this waaaay back when. Hope you’re ok - hugs 🤗
2025-07-10 08:42:35
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Cartel Queen :
I just watched the other video. I froze during my last SA too, and then passed out. It’s a valid response.
2025-07-10 09:13:17
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Em🤍 :
Why do they always act like males always take no for an answer. Women say no & are still harmed. Women fight back & are over powered, women try to run & they’re chased down, a lot of the time, it’s SAFER to ‘fawn’, the harm will still happen but it can save our lives
2025-07-10 12:32:14
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Frog7617 :
there are 4 or 5 responses, flight, flight, freeze, and fawn. fawn is people pleasing out of fear. they're all valid responses and don't disintegrate your trauma. I've faught, I've frozen, and I've people pleased simply because I couldn't run. everyone deserves to feel and be safe, regardless of the situation 💕
2025-07-10 09:55:37
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💜🐻kezzbezz🐻💜 :
I have one of those mothers, 1st denial then victim blame, I was 14 🤯
2025-07-10 09:57:42
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Ana Mary🇦🇺 :
Thank you for talking about the violence in content towards women, and how mainstream it has become. It is a huge concern in our society. I also understand your response at the time, many of us have experienced the same in the moment.
2025-07-10 09:15:25
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Nic :
Yep mother not believing happened to me. I was 7.
2025-07-10 12:15:23
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Lauren Emily :
Just curious, if you knew his content was forced engagement.. why did you opt to work with him? Not victim blaming
2025-07-11 09:55:18
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Silvia :
I’m sorry that happen to you
2025-07-10 08:59:25
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Sparkle & Fizz :
This is absolutely *not* a criticism of you or any other SA; I just think it should be industry standard that, particularly for rougher and more extreme stuff, all of the specifics should be consented to beforehand. And if you haven’t consented to it in the contracts and/or a consent video, they’re not covered. There should never be a “blanket” consent that covers any and every situation. I’m so sorry that this happened to you.
2025-07-10 11:41:59
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Tara 🇨🇦 :
I was a victim of COCSA. My mom didn't believe me because the boys were her favourite kids. She blamed my sisters and I for everything wrong in her life.
2025-07-10 16:00:54
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Maria :
You need not to go alone you need to have security with you
2025-07-10 23:46:12
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Genuinely Just Sad :
I always said I would never let a man do anything to me. But I completely froze under him, I tried to push him off me and he held my hands down to the bed. I stopped fighting. Never just assume just saying no will stop them.
2025-07-10 11:51:03
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yamiup :
Completely off subject, love the cup! Who’s Peggy sue? 😂😂
2025-07-10 12:30:18
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MACupGrl :
It doesn’t matter if you are a S worker or not. NO MEANS NO. Period! I’m so sorry that you experienced that abuse. 🙏🏻Praying for you and others who have suffered through that POS 💩 abuse can heal from the trauma.
2025-07-10 20:52:49
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Huanel💕 :
Great response! You really nailed it with that reply.
2025-07-10 08:39:19
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