@beyondbeautifull: AITAH for letting the daycare call CPS with My STBEX husband failed to pick up our toddler from daycare? R/AITAH By: ThrowRA-separate11 #fyp #redditstories #redditreadings #BlackTikTok #foryoupage #blacktiktokcommunity #foryou #beyondbeautifull #reddit #aita
as a Father with 50/50 custody who deals with this constantly from the other parent. not with being late to pick up from day care, but just demanding me to bring her home because she can't find a ride. mind you I did it a couple of times, but now I just tell her nope if I can make my work schedule work with pickups so can you. I tell her you either pick up our daughter on your pickup time and day or I keep her until you can get here. 🤷🏻♂️
2025-07-10 20:02:37
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toniitee 💕 :
I feel like he only wants 50/50 custody to hurt the mom or try to control the mom. Men are so draining.
2025-07-10 13:46:50
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Naomi Tringali :
I would ask for documentation at the daycare. And make him pay each and every overdraft fee. But I wouldn’t let my child get picked up by CPS bc that looks bad on mom, unless there’s some reason I really can’t get there. But I’d ask the school to back me up during the trial or whatever happens with custody things to help get full custody and dad can just have every other weekend and pay child support.
2025-07-12 00:18:31
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Raven Skylar :
I read this one and they tore OP up in the comments calling her a bad mom. Like it's her fault he can't be responsible for their son when he is in his care. People make no sense to me sometimes 😑
2025-07-11 03:11:56
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Danni :
I think the daycare should be a bit more understanding and keep a note of dad bring a no show
2025-07-12 01:35:25
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Sierra Juliet :
nta we don't deal with weaponized incompetence ✨
2025-07-10 14:46:37
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XoeyS :
😎 NTA. more of a mamma bear! 🐻🥰
2025-07-12 03:56:29
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🏳️🌈✊🏿⚛ :
he only wants 50/50 so he won't have to pay child support
2025-07-13 21:21:52
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writing.comes.alive :
If she were to pick the baby up he could say she’s interfering with his custody time
2025-07-11 16:21:12
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PaulaCandelaria :
He’s trying to tell her that his job is more important.
2025-07-11 07:28:04
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Michelle Solis :
I love that she’s doing it the way that she’s doing it because it shows that she’s putting in her 50% as far as rearranging her schedule for the days she has her toddler and accommodations for pick up but ex-husband hasn’t given 50% effort to even show that he wants 50-50 custody
2025-07-12 00:52:28
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Shameka Mcghee :
NTA because this will literally be his responsibility if he has custody.
2025-07-12 08:09:22
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Haayyyleyyy :
50/50 means no child support… I think he made it clear what his intentions were. 🙃 he doesn’t want the child 50% of the time, he just doesn’t want to pay the mom.
2025-07-12 14:34:22
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thebusypara :
50/50 to avoid child support and control the mom
2025-07-12 14:56:36
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ArcticFoxQueen86 :
NTA but definitely keep track of each time this happens and use it in court
2025-07-11 06:34:07
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Auntie Dani :
This is what happens when one spouse takes for granted the support they had in marriage and assumes they will still have that same benefit during and after divorce. NTA
2025-07-10 14:27:49
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CarissaAssira2025 :
she picks up the child he doesnt get the child till the next day.... at daycare.... document each day he never picks up
2025-07-11 16:53:12
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alshiabooze :
your just trying to be a good mom he needs to get on his game
2025-07-11 07:16:25
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Jay :
How the hell do he expect split custody but can’t even pick up his son up from daycare???
2025-07-10 13:49:56
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snorreh07 :
I feel like the school records are enough for the custody case but healthy coparenting is important in any relationship 50-50 or not and CPS and the authorities will put you all under inspection not just him and it’s a headache
2025-07-12 16:54:16
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nayahrdz15 :
If it’s been a few months I understand it as between 3-5 months. That means if it’s happened about 8 times that’s most of “his time” NTA.
2025-07-13 17:30:45
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lorannamae.2 :
he doesn't want 50/50 custody, he wants to not pay child support.
2025-07-10 20:39:55
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Gretchen Mann :
Why is the mother always supposed to be more responsible and accountable? He is the father. He is supposed to share the workload and fix his schedule.
2025-07-12 20:44:36
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lemonline74 :
She’s divorcing him and I bet at least 50% of the reason is that she only wanted to manage the child she birthed, not the one she married
2025-07-15 00:10:22
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It’s_a_dateposhpicnics :
He was doing that to make it seem as though she was the one picking him up late to make her l look bad. And have a record of HER negligences when in fact it was his time. They are not legally bound to custody
2025-07-11 14:10:25
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