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Sara Young :
Thank you for responding to my comment in your video. I’m just now seeing this . So I’m always reflecting and wanting to make sure my child is supported emotionally aswell that’s why I made this comment . I should have clarified. So I do have a lawyer and a lot of evidence . To clarify we have had a parenting plan that has gone ignored for several years . Dad will go several months( longest 6 months ) with zero contact at all but when he does pop up I do meet him . However that being said there has been a couple times I haven’t been able to due to being at work or out of town and having no warning at all . I am the custodial parent currently and I have shared contact information of school and medical and ways he can access this information. I just don’t update him on every little thing . I have tried for years to get him involved but he hasn’t attended a single event or appointment ever in our child’s whole life . My husband came into my child’s life when my child was 4 years old and my child on their own called him dad. They are now 10. Birth dad has been extremely absent the last 10 years so there isn’t a very strong relationship there .
2025-07-27 08:48:02
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BaileyLaurel :
There is so much backstory that we don’t know like why doesn’t dad see the child, for instance. Being on the alienated side and also have so much anger because his father did this and the courts allowed it, I would still correct my child especially at a young age. I wouldn’t necessarily play them up but I wouldn’t let him call his dad by his first name. At least not until he was old enough to be rational. I would also try to understand why my child felt this way, to not want to call him dad.
2025-07-11 16:26:17
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tommartiner :
This is pretty straightforward. No parent who would actually being engaging in PA would ever ask if they are. However there is a very big difference between PA and engaging in alienating behavior. Alienating behavior is anything a parent does in which alters a child's perception of the parent in a negative way that is not inherently known to them, even if it is true. This is why one must analyze how they present the other parent to the child, as even very good parent could be engaging in these behaviors unintentionally.One wouldn't be doing any real damage to a child but a court may see things differently.
2025-07-11 10:51:49
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Kayla's Health Coaching🇨🇦 :
I'm being accused from my xs new girlfriend. only he was never apart of there life. I kept him in their life when he could care less. now he stop paying me and they are accusing me of lies in the courts. how can she even file the way she is under our family file! all about money to. he owes me lots. now he's making up lies.
2025-07-18 05:26:08
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🧜🏻♀️AK🧜🏻♀️ :
I’m in the same situation. He calls twice a month. Sees them for five days a year. Doesn’t reply when I email about school or sports. But it’s my fault they don’t want to talk to him
2025-07-10 23:23:02
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DanSanchez.com :
She knows. 7 days a year is insane.
2025-07-10 20:21:32
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Halyn :
thank you for the clarification, I was gonna say "almost twice a week is.. kind of a lot" but 7x a YEAR?? yeah no
2025-07-10 19:03:06
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Nix Pix :
Why must a mother give doctors/school info to a grown ass man?!?!? Why doesn’t he have this information himself!??!
2025-07-15 08:29:59
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Jenna Tellya :
What should be HIGHLIGHTED in these cases is the absent parents absense. A good parent does not just disappear. Parents should NOT be able to walk in and out. There is a difference between alienation and protecting a child from a parent who only cares when it's convenient for them. These disappearing parents should be PUNISHED. I totally believe true alienation is a much smaller problem than parents who willfullly come and go in their kids lives. They should be criminally charged with neglect for doing so.
2025-07-10 21:12:04
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cynthetic427 :
How dare you praise anyone who does such atrocious things to a child.
2025-07-17 05:48:35
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