@ashralouisaa: As an #autistic person this is like 70% of my real life communication! This may be surprising to many of you given how verbal I am on this page, but the truth is in real life, my communication and level of speaking is very different. Using scripted social games gives me a way to communicate that feels very safe and doable. Sometimes, it is too hard for me to express things in “typical” sentence format, or I feel too overstimulated or emotionally unsafe or uncomfortable (this happens a lot for me), so using my scripted social games gives me a way to communicate. Without them, I have many periods of nonspeaking and shutdowns. But now that my boyfriend understands my scripts, I have had less periods of nonspeaking and shutdowns. When I am not using my scripted social games, my communication is often essay-like, or it is highly masked.
ashralouisa
Region: US
Friday 11 July 2025 16:06:05 GMT
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PeeeJ :
I’ll accept this from my autistic son. But there’s no way im accepting this in a life partner. Sorry. I’m not your specialist carer.
2025-07-12 12:59:49
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Laikee :
I’m sorry I’d be so annoyed 😩
2025-07-11 23:28:18
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❦ Zephyr Ingle ❦ :
THIS IS WHAT I DO TOO! and only my fiancé understands…
2025-07-12 01:48:25
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Zoey :
unfortunately no one understands
2025-07-11 16:42:30
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Nat :
This is called Gestalt Language Processing and very common for autistic individuals! 🙂
2025-07-13 09:13:55
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Alana 🇨🇦 :
This is my first time seeing anything about this, but it’s 100% my son, and I find it hard to understand. How can I learn more? It’s called “scripted social games”? My mind is blown right now, thank you for sharing!!!
2025-07-11 19:07:01
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Dana Davies :
Might sound silly but this reminds me of bumblebee from transformers, I always thought the way he communicated was actually cute and cool 😁
2025-07-11 16:51:23
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CosmicMunchies :
you're absolutely fine everyone is different me and partner have fun with it ❤️
2025-07-24 04:14:00
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DJ Anderson :
The way this would make my life so much easier if I could just do this half the time without feeling ashamed
2025-07-12 02:40:24
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Captain 🖖 Jane-Gay 🌈🏳️⚧️🚀 :
Mines in song form
2025-07-12 01:40:30
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HSIF✨🐠 :
I speak in animal crossing character talk when I wanna talk to my fiancé but idk what to talk about lmaoooo
2025-07-23 10:33:25
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Nani Romanoff :
Me & my spouse communicating but we’re both autistic so we’re out here being like “meep mop” & “beep” to each other. M
2025-07-16 16:04:27
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Monkey :
I'm kinda like this. Almost every single thing I say is pre scripted and follows a "program". I've reached a point where I have responses for most things, but there's still a few things that'll break my sequences.
2025-07-16 13:35:33
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secretlyabeetle :
THIS IS EXACTLY HOW I COMMUNICATE W MY PARTNER AND I FEEL SO VALIDATED RN
2025-07-11 23:53:11
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Sapphire :
this is meeeeeee. i am capable of verbal communication but it takes alot of energy and most of the time im most comfortable being non verbal. noone understands though
2025-07-12 05:08:33
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Puckish Personas :
This is why I get so upset when people don't sing my words back haha
2025-07-16 03:50:32
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iamseavenom :
Same. I have two types of communication. One for friends and public settings and another for private safe spaces.
2025-07-16 15:47:27
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Rachel J. :
My autistic 9yo son does this!! He also has super special interests in cats and uses "meows" as well
2025-07-17 06:42:49
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❤︎ alexia ❤︎ :
So I'm not the only one 😭
2025-07-12 05:50:49
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c.h. :
I always say “Womp womp” when I am uninterested or disappointed 😂
2025-07-13 02:38:11
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Alexis 🐛 :
Yes I use references this way to communicate.
2025-07-15 02:24:41
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Implied_lesbian 🇨🇦 :
I just got realized that while I don’t script a lot for general interaction, I tend to fall back on scripts for expressing emotions. And my scripts tend to be lines from songs from musicals lol. And TikTok sound bites but that’s much less often. Interesting! I didn’t know why my brain did that until I saw this!
2025-07-12 03:24:54
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ziterman :
As a child I'd say "mow mow" with a special intonation when I was feeling too tired or lazy to do something.
2025-07-13 16:45:52
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ash 🌿 :
finding a partner who’s willing to understand is key!!
2025-07-13 13:18:20
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