If you’re falling out of love over the lack of proposal, you are not ready for that proposal.
2025-07-13 02:41:13
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1.Keeping.My.Heart :
OP is not unreasonable. He was pushing her boundaries that she is not comfortable living together. He is not right for her.
2025-07-13 13:46:06
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Ella Rose :
My husband made me wait 7 years. We were married for under 3 years 😂
2025-07-14 19:57:43
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batmeeps22 :
getting engaged after a year and a half is SO fast!!!! also it’s hella normal to live together before engagement. it’s one of my requirements too. also if making you wait for an engagement makes you not wanna be with them…. you ain’t ready for marriage
2025-07-13 03:33:21
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ambider091011 :
all she wanted was the excitement of an engagement. my sil was like this. shes already divorced. wasn't actually looking for the right partner just wanted the rush of the engagement and marriage 🙄
2025-07-13 04:30:22
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MommaGreywolf1992 :
If you truly love someone you'll find yourself falling in love with them constantly. If it's dead feelings then leave.
2025-07-13 02:35:14
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Sylvia Fields958 :
Well 3 years of waiting is nothing it’s been 10 years and I have came to terms with I will never get married
2025-07-14 16:04:11
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she.hikes.alaska :
She wasn’t ready for this proposal. I think all of this was done in a timely manner and it sounds like he put a lot of planning into a romantic proposal and she’s hung up over a few months. She may not realize it yet, but he’s not for her.
2025-07-15 02:54:54
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Ella Rose :
To be fair 3 years isn’t mental
2025-07-14 19:58:17
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user9571968392734 :
I can see where she’s coming from
2025-07-13 02:52:48
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dobrohanna :
I don’t get why everyone is attacking OP. She said from the very beginning that she needs to be engaged before moving in together, and her partner had agreed at the time. Instead, he pushed her boundaries and left her hanging for over 1,5 years after stating that he wants to propose, knowing how important it is for her. That’s a huge red flag 🚩
2025-07-13 16:44:41
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Heather 🇨🇦 :
My husband and I are not typical: we moved in together after our first date, which was only two weeks of knowing each other. I basically stayed at his house that night for fun time and never left lol. We bought a house together at six months, we got engaged shortly after one year together, And we got married at almost 3 years together. We have been together for almost 20 years. The first time I saw him, I knew he was my soulmate and the person I was supposed to marry. Again, this is not typical. As others have said if waiting for an engagement makes her not want to get married to the person anymore, then that is not right for either of them.
2025-07-13 03:44:02
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ktrnisaac :
I get where she coming from. It not even about the proposal, is about the fact that she express how she felt towards the engagement and living together. Him knowing it and insted of being honest that he wasn’t ready, was selling her the promise that the proposal was coming soon, when it wasn’t and then he put a condition to an engagement that wasn’t there before that he knew she wasn’t comfortable with. Still push to have it his way it with no compromise. It was literally on his terms.
2025-07-13 18:40:05
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Amely :
That’s such a twist! It must have been a tough decision to make.
2025-07-13 02:38:31
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Des :
she did blindside him
2025-07-15 19:13:49
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Tobias Funke ◡̎ :
Only together for three years and expecting a proposal is so weird and strange lol??
2025-07-15 20:07:50
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Rachel | Mumma & More 🌸 :
In your heart you know when you're ready
It's hard when someone's not on the same page as you
If they're not on something big like proposal then I'm sure they'll be more things you disagree on in the future
2025-07-13 07:54:15
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L J :
everything is on his terms. maybe they aren't compatible
2025-07-16 16:40:39
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DarkShikixx :
“I respect how you feel about moving in” after pushing for her to move in and is dragging her along.
2025-07-13 17:46:29
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_☆Narra☆_ :
Idk why ppl chase marriage so much before establishing a sound relationship with their partner. He is not unreasonable for wanting to know if you guys are compatible before marrying you. OP should want to know that too.
2025-07-15 06:49:51
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Roxi :
Marriage is falling in love over and over again. Feelings change within a marriage!
2025-07-13 08:18:22
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charlie v :
3 yrs isn't that long 💀
2025-07-13 22:01:46
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CuriousGeorge :
leave now, don't waste more of your time, and be thankful you lived together first, and found out he is not right for you.
2025-07-13 18:56:56
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Beth :
Ugh thinking you being proposed to “soon” puts you on alert every single time you go out. That’s stressful
2025-07-14 15:14:52
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The Phoenix Queen :
Where marriage proposals are concerned, anything other than an enthusiastic yes should be a definite no.
2025-07-13 10:03:43
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