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dunvegan
Mac :
I'm at the point in my life where I just tell people, "You're not listening!" Or, "Stop adding subtext and listen to what I'm saying!" I'm not playing neurotypical games anymore.
2025-07-13 04:54:43
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paricsqnhkd
Bella :
Autistic people are the most direct at communicating. Neurotypical people usually want to be coddled and will even prefer being lied to than to hear the truth.
2025-07-15 04:47:00
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beeradu812
BeeradU812 :
I have found a blunt intro is useful if I'm going to be working with someone for a while. "I'm autistic, please be direct with me, I won't think it's rude "
2025-07-23 23:14:32
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notlikeothermums
NotLikeOtherMoms :
The phrase “Don’t hear the words I didn’t say” comes in handy.
2025-07-14 21:27:27
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rachel.kristen
Kristen Rachel ♡ :
my ex said to me, "I'll always get it wrong, no matter what I do". well buddy, if you're choosing to misunderstand me even when ive told you exactly where you missed the mark, then yeah, you will continue to get it wrong. I truly appreciate the people who are willing to understand. take the time to learn ME and simply come to know I say what I mean and mean what I say. nothing else. not beating around a bush. not wanting you to read between the lines. I didn't mean what Bob meant when Bob said it. I meant the literal words that came out of my mouth.
2025-07-23 13:02:01
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lit_dumplin
Esther Yang :
I think people need to practice active listening first 😭
2025-07-23 14:52:17
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10pointone
10.1 :
The problem isn’t how we communicate. They don’t like our existence regardless if we mask or not.
2025-07-13 18:49:13
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kamithingie
Aki :
I feel like neurotypicals are in a constant state of confusion, I believe that their lack of solid direct communication skills is the issue. Neurodiverse folk aren't the ones with communication issues, even those who can't speak out loud are still better able to communicate in my experience with past interactions.
2025-07-15 03:45:00
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genxistentialists
GenXistential | CCL :
I think it’s ridiculous that we follow the guidelines for communication that everyone was taught growing up but we are constantly ostracized for it. I don’t have any interest in playing gymnastics in conversation to avoid hurting your feelings because you assume my words have a hidden meaning
2025-07-23 13:33:16
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pinkfinest_
Lovethegirl :
I learned that the world hates accountability and ANY sort of accountability is deemed as argumentative and troubling
2025-07-19 06:31:42
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streets.aheadofyou
streets :
Autism is supposed to be a social disability, but sometimes I'm surrounded by neurotypicals thinking to myself 'am I the only person who knows how to hold a conversation?'
2025-07-16 06:26:43
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107.8682amu
Alice 🍉 :
Late to the comments but they just published a study that found autistic people are excellent communicators- when they are communicating to other autistic people. The miscommunication only seemed to happen in mixed-neurotype conversations.
2025-07-23 06:07:45
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laneeb217
Laneeb217 :
This is why it's so hard to date in my 40's I don't have the bandwidth to play games I said what I said and now I'm mean.
2025-07-23 14:28:58
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ateb1tro
ateb1tro :
I have literally typed out LENGTHY paragraphs with everything explained and most neutotypicals STILL find a way to misinterpret what I said, have trouble understanding, or insert their own feelings/projections into what I say. They get so confused when I don't play the neurotypical games.
2025-07-22 20:34:49
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sunflower.love.jess87
🌻J E S S 🌻 :
Why are they always flipping out words?!? 😤
2025-07-23 14:58:18
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hermit926
Hermit :
It's my experience that 99% of miscommunication issues are not me but rather others trying to apply alternative meanings to my words that better suit them.
2025-07-23 13:00:23
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daddiesfiregirl
Kimberly :
As a “neurotypical,” a lot of the problem is that what the autistic person says and how they say it is rude, then they tell you don’t be so sensitive. You cook for them, they say it’s disgusting, and smells bad. They then say they are just being honest or blunt, they use positive terms (honesty) to excuse rudeness and expect you to just be okay being treated that way, when if you are half as blunt to them, you are so mean. When they could get their point across without being rude. Then we have to console them because we hurt their feelings because we told them they were being rude and they could say the same thing, but in a nicer way.
2025-07-22 13:41:23
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jasonferguson909
nothingisreal :
as soon as we correct someone, we are labeled as aggressive or rude.
2025-07-16 18:49:05
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mimmerzztbell
mimmerzztbell :
Nothing makes me angrier than people just assuming my emotions or what I mean when speaking, instead of them just asking. JUST ASK! I will tell you.
2025-07-22 04:11:13
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mildlystoned
MildlyStoned :
this. Ive sent myself into spirals trying to understand, rewording things in every possible way, taking my feelings out of it completely, it's like no matter how I communicate it's a personal attack, when I don't communicate at all or very little it's a personal attack. my existence isn't a personal attack to yours like chill, if anything I'm the one making sure you don't feel burdened by my presence but constantly feeling like the cause of all your burdening. it sounds like too much of a cult to say let's just all live together😭 💓
2025-07-22 18:50:37
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navi_99662
Navi :
I’m not autistic but I am neurodivergent and my biggest pet peeve is people getting upset bc I can’t read their mind 😭 “I’m upset bc I shouldn’t have to ask you should know”
2025-07-15 02:39:22
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wyldfire777
WyldFire777 :
God, I could not relate more. Here's hoping it goes well next time I talk to my psychiatrist who I found out recently is almost exclusively blaming things I say on my OCD & anxiety, but like... SO MUCH is because I'm autistic. Obviously he doesn't specialize in autistic patients.
2025-07-20 03:04:36
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jassminebreeanna
Breeanna Kay McKisick :
It’s like the saying “say what you mean and mean what you say.” Is thrown out the window! I say what I mean. You don’t say what you mean. It’s so frustrating!
2025-07-22 17:13:30
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renaeamber3
Renae Amber :
literally going through this at work, ive had 4 hr meetings now because this person constantly thinks i have an attitude when i ask for help. they are my trainer.
2025-07-23 13:13:27
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katinthecorner
Katherine the Alrightest :
My biggest pet peeve is when I'm trying to work through a problem WITH them, analyzing where either of us could possibly be going wrong without trying to blame anyone, and they think I just want an apology. I'm not just trying to corner you into coddling me, I'm trying to figure it out so neither of us have to deal with this again!
2025-07-22 23:00:34
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