@amie: thanks everyone for the encouraging words 🥹🩷
2025-07-16 02:59:21
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Malcolm Lee :
I can empathise, but after a while you will win them over just by being yourself. hang in there
2025-07-16 12:53:06
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pwm :
Hey I think you're doing fine, could find friends who can take time everyday to communicate in Chinese with you. I believe your relatives in Malaysia are treating you as one of them. Just keep speaking to them in Chinese and slowly you will learn bits by bits. Don't worry about your accent as you'll do just fine. Keep going and have faith!! 💪🏻
2025-07-14 13:28:51
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not rose 🪽 :
ohh my angel you should teach me mandarin bc im terrible, i only know canto 😭😭
2025-07-15 23:06:28
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Coolson🚘 :
Please don’t stress yourself. Stay positive. Always support you from long time follower. ❤️
2025-07-15 04:16:12
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steriias :
this feeling is so real!!! i feel the same way every time i go back to taiwan and it really is just kind of an old fashioned/prev generation mindset, i know its hard esp when its coming from family but i rlly mean it when i say you cant take it to heart!! younger ppl are much less judgmental and i know you will learn so much just by being there 💖 just keep practicing and the effort will show and attract the right people — hope you enjoy the rest of your stay in malaysia 💓💓
2025-07-14 01:16:15
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PokeSibs :
It’s rough being Americanized and having Asian parents! You don’t need to live for your parents standards! Walk the path you want to in life! 😬
2025-07-14 00:21:59
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Arcnologia_🎱 :
i understand. i wish i could give a hug, so i am sending a virtual hug. i also still learning mandarin by myself. i also want to fit in but i guess i am alone by myself for now. i hope you will get through this.
2025-07-16 09:40:12
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lilwagyu :
The fact that u are there and u are trying says so much more than ur mom or relatives could ever say to put u down
2025-07-14 00:10:19
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Chriss88 :
tas vidéo ma ému,j'ai un peu ce ressenti y a quelques années non au langage mais a la différence de culture après avoir vécu en France et être retourné sur mon île natale.
2025-07-15 15:31:26
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James :
Just be the best version of yourself. You have your own uniqueness. And I’m sure in Malaysia you will be welcome. All the people will be impressed if you actually try to speak Bahasa or hokkien if you in Penang. Just have fun 🥰
2025-07-14 01:52:54
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Unknown1 :
Your Chinese is good. I know your parents don’t think so, but just know that people outside of that circle know that it’s good
2025-07-14 00:50:04
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Whyso5eriou5?🇸🇬🇯🇵🇰🇷🇹🇼 :
🥺 Gal, your mom is being modest. She can’t brag about it, social norm prohibits it. That’s the nuance you are missing about when growing up in America. In truth, she’s very proud of you 😊❤️
2025-07-14 00:33:10
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Clement Soon :
Erm, in Malaysia we don't care if you don't know the language, and some Chinese in Malaysia we called banana which they don't know Chinese. So that not a big deal. We don't care about language barrier, we just care are you open and fun person 😂
2025-07-14 06:34:51
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hotpockets :
hey dude, dont stress it man. im also of malaysian decent but first generation american. ive been in your shoes and i tried many years. it was devastating for me too. i just went back to malaysia earlier this year to see family but it was pretty embarrassing to even try. but if youre trying your best im sure they can see that too. try anyways. dont worry about what your mom says. everyone says “youre your worst critic” but its actually your mom 😂
2025-07-14 00:30:08
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Jay Dubs :
You’re actually inspiring me to learn more Chinese, as a Canadian born Chinese
2025-07-14 00:24:32
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Kobe Jordan :
is fine actually, you are unique,no worries, we all at your back👍,
like me,can't speak proper english,
actually I speak holy english 😂
by the way,is surprising me you start to eat bread suddenly
2025-07-13 23:58:59
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DK Swei :
I feel for you. I was lucky that most of my friends in school were older one dat they told me they weren’t speaking English with me anymore and I had to learn Korean. So thats how I learned. Don’t give up! You can learn
2025-07-14 03:09:41
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Happy0324_ :
Asian parents. 😭😭😭
2025-07-13 22:53:14
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Garou Densetsu: Ace of Based :
I wish I spoke Mandarin. Also, can we please get more honest Chickin posts of this variety? 🫵 are strong.
2025-07-13 23:43:42
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Phil :
Aww😥
2025-07-14 04:05:14
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gabesdope :
It’s okay . You did enough . You are enough . You don’t need to force yourself to be something you’re not . Language is just one of those things you acquire when you’re really young at critical developmental stages . Your ear will simply not catch certain sounds anymore .
2025-07-14 03:58:43
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Shad0winc :
So sorry you feel this way. Nothing is ever easy on your own, and even worse when the people closest to you have no faith in you… are there local groups you can join?
2025-07-13 22:52:46
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Chris :
There are actually many English-speaking Malaysians who don’t speak Malay or Chinese, let alone any dialect, so the fact that you’re even trying to learn is already sth to be proud of!! 🤣
2025-07-14 16:13:50
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