PhoenixUntaped
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pae_noelle :
And where were you
2025-07-15 17:01:26
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Aimi :
I'm going through this exact scenario right now. Find out 4 days ago and he was arrested. I feel like I'm watching a nuclear bomb go off in slow motion. she is safe, I am safe. Thank you for this because it's so incredibly helpful. This is spot on and I didn't even realise. thank you.
2025-07-14 10:51:22
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pamelaevans335 :
Im 62 years old. I taught my son and daughter to be mean. Because my NICE uncle did all kinds of thin6to me. And my family NEVER EVER thought anything about me spending the night at his house even though none of my other siblings did😢😢
2025-07-31 02:06:38
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Ritual Nebula :
As a victim of CSA (and CSAM) one thing I made sure to teach my daughters is they can say no to ANYONE touching their body. Whether it’s us asking for a hug or their aunt or uncle or grandparents. And if any family members don’t respect that that shows their true colours. My abuser was my bio father, and this (what you’re talking about in this) hits hard and is so so true. More people need to know what to look for and what to teach our kids. My parents were split (because he was abusive to my older brothers that weren’t his kids)
2025-07-15 22:22:56
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❤️🩹 :
My daughter is 4 and I’m so glad, I don’t let her hug anyone she doesn’t want to. My dad pretends to cry when she doesn’t hug him and I say tell grandad “your feelings arnt my responsibility” and my dad praises it it’s been drilled in her head xx
2025-07-14 08:09:18
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Eridanus_Achernar :
Ngl this is why I was relieved when my nonverbal kiddo started saying no and I encouraged it. I encouraged him to get louder with his No if someone kept pushing. It meant he had one more tool to protect him. It meant he would not live through the same things I did. Granted- it is why I am so glad he wasn’t born until I was an ‘older’ parent. I’m glad because it gave me a decade of therapy and unlearning being silent so that I could teach my kiddo to have a voice. 1/
2025-07-14 06:57:38
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S :
In my household, a parent’s disappointment was the biggest punishment. We’d be ignored or even avoided. The message: we will withhold our love if you don’t comply. Imagine how that impacted our romantic relationships.
2025-07-14 06:57:39
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Erin Nickerson :
If I rejected him, he was mean and cold to my mother. My mother would then beg me to “be nice to him”.
2025-07-14 13:40:28
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emme baer :
I have always encouraged NO and respect for it too. it's not perfect but I want my kids to know they have a voice that should be heard.
2025-07-30 16:03:49
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Wilson :
I'm currently on my third or fourth read through of adult children of emotionally irresponsible parents, It was such a revolution to understand the whole internalizer externalizer dynamic and how many bad habits I picked up from experiencing it.
2025-07-31 11:42:29
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PhoeNix222 :
I protected my father and didn’t even speak up until after he passed away. I don’t want to break up the eternal family. Because that’s what I was taught. I feel like I was trying to save the family.
2025-07-14 09:23:26
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Courtneyy📚📖🫶🏼 :
Gross way to make this about yourself.
2025-07-14 21:58:22
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Thankyoutiktoc🐦🔥 :
We are all groomed by our parents to be the perfect victim!
2025-07-14 10:20:27
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amandalynn4330 :
be sweet
2025-07-19 10:18:21
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EliciaWard :
I tell my daughter to hold boundaries, make a scene and anger is information to be used. leaders are kind, but they are a part of the equation, it has to be a win / win, your feelings are important and no one can tell you how you feel or what is right. conversations with kids cards Australia
2025-07-15 05:48:03
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__.melanieee3 :
I’m very thankful that I didn’t have anyone like this in my life because my parents groomed me to the perfect victim. Extremely obedient, scared of authority, very and scarily quiet, best into submission like
2025-07-14 13:56:05
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Leah :
My parents told me my daughter was disrespectful because she didn’t want to hug him that day. I told her she never should HAVE to.
2025-07-15 01:50:54
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Cat 🇵🇸🕊️🐨 :
As a SA therapist for years I tell parents to tell kids that if something feels weird or confusing to ask someone about it. There is zero reason why an adult will ever need to see or touch your gen**als or show you there’s or show you a video or pictures of other people’s.
2025-07-15 10:27:48
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🏳️🌈Lynn🏳️🌈 :
I hate when people question ask those of us that are victims “well why didn’t you just speak up?” It really is not that simple
2025-07-15 05:27:50
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cassandra :
i’ve scrolled through your account for a while and i just wanted to say that you raised some really really good children. they obviously didn’t get any bit of it from their father and i hope you know how proud you should be of yourself
2025-07-16 20:41:51
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alexa :
ty for acknowledging this
2025-07-14 07:22:19
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CaRa :
It starts with you. Children learn boundaries from us. They follow the example. We set healthy boundaries and teach them that it’s their body and their choice. We need to stop normalising bad behaviors and patterns and also respect children’s boundaries.
2025-07-14 11:52:36
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LoriMoulton :
That’s such a tough question. I taught my kids and my students that no one should ever touch them where their bathing suit covers, except mom or a doctor to help with medicine, but even that is not quite right. (I taught pre-k through second grade.)
2025-07-15 00:59:07
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Fss :
i told my kids to make people uncomfortable. to say no. don't care about other people. as. child it's not their job to please anyone.
2025-07-14 08:24:29
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