@there_y0u_are: Replying to @MADI HAND unfortunately i might be too annoying of a person to have a wedding registry :/ everything i want is vintage or frankly kind of insane

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beks1989
beks1989 :
I feel this so much.
2025-07-22 11:36:59
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jameswolfphotography
jameswolfphotography :
no, this is so valid
2025-07-22 11:27:44
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audreymadeleinere
audreymadeleinere :
The china I wanted you couldn’t link on a registry so I made it a “fund.” Nice towels, bed linens
2025-07-22 03:51:56
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ivebrynneverywhere
IveBrynnEverywhere :
Best advice I ever got was to put literally whatever on your registry. If someone doesn’t get it-no big deal. But someone out there might just buy you that random thing you really wanted. I put a tablesaw on there because I wanted to make my own frames for my art-didn’t think anyone would buy it. But my uncle Uncle did.
2025-07-16 13:54:49
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dahliabirdie
dahlia 🌟🩷 :
you’re so real for this. idk how i would explain to my relatives that i want a very specific $150 vintage alessi kettle without sounding like a snob 😭
2025-07-14 16:52:42
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theashleyurban
Ashley Urban :
Under no circumstances would I trust others with my wedding registry or understanding my taste. Just ask for cash.
2025-07-15 00:31:02
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return_of_the_meg
return_of_the_meg :
do a blog with eBay links or something! it's annoying that some of the stuff they click thru might be sold but you can delete some occasionally.
2025-07-21 23:49:06
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elliepayne09
Ellie Payne :
Maybe word it as "we love to find things for our house at small boutiques and vintage stores, and are undecided on what we need right now, if you'd like to donate to our house pot, we'll be sure to show you the beautiful items we find in the future with your generous gift" ... I totally agree with you but family always have their own ideas and opinions and you can't win, try as hard as possible and let it go if it doesn't work out
2025-07-16 10:17:54
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mailb0xqt
mAiLb0xQT :
I didn't have a registry for this exact reason! People just gave us cash or gift cards! I thought it was fine! And for the relatives that were HELLBENT on a gift, I picked something out for them to gift us
2025-07-16 23:01:12
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frequencyfield
Aura :
100percent. We did not have a registrey (bit mostly because the whole idea is tacky). People kept asking so finally we said cash (I’m Indian, this is not considered tacky) and told everyone we would use the cash to take 6 months off and travel, which we did. This was back in 1996.
2025-07-22 01:56:56
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tcepottery
TCE Pottery :
My cousin did a registry of things (places, restaurant, spas, etc) for their honeymoon
2025-07-20 03:11:50
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_barthvader
Emily Gunter :
Just do a honeymoon fund so you can travel!
2025-07-14 14:57:17
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skjoldielocks
AM :
I did the most basic registry because I didn’t need a lot of stuff. Had “honeymoon fund” and “new home” fund as our preferred.
2025-07-21 23:04:28
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sunnyandthebear
KC :
Do a honeymoon fun instead . You can do that on Zola just write “we don’t want physical gifts, but if you’d like to give us a gift you can donate to our honeymoon fund for us to go to this place. And to make it more fun people can buy specific thing spoke “dinner in Tokyo” or “snow monkey sanctuary tour” or whatever
2025-07-19 15:26:57
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isabelmooney85
isabelmooney85 :
We just didn’t a honeymoon fund
2025-07-21 17:35:32
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ouiouinicoled
nicole delabrer :
I literally make google slides with my eBay links for my family Xmas wishlist. Be free.
2025-07-15 00:37:29
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alexacrstiano
Alexa Cristiano :
I added a cash app and PayPal where they can deposit and it went to our home renovation fund
2025-07-18 23:20:06
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asmedina8
asmedina :
I custom built our registry from our favorite local shops around Brooklyn that included ‘untraditional’ things we loved and we would use (vintage table cloths, Japanese cookware, one of a kind hand blown glasses, Gordo beans, a pre order of a new book we wanted etc). And people just gave us cash 😅 ... I don’t think people got it lol
2025-07-15 12:27:47
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n.w.88
n.w. :
Highly recommend over the moon. They have a curated collection on there but you can also add links for anything! Easy user experience for you and your guests. I found as long as you have a variety of price points, most people like the unique items
2025-07-21 23:46:51
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allmyflowers
kait 🌸 🍉 :
This is exactly why we went cash fund. We gave two options — house reno or honeymoon!
2025-07-21 13:39:00
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3vol143
Evol24 :
You’re not a snob, you’re just not wasteful, you know what you like and would hate for someone to spend money on something you’re not going to use. I’d say you’re highly aware and considerate.
2025-07-21 18:09:53
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seets93
sita :
Do a limited registry with direct links, and a honeymoon fund for the rest. This is how I got the block print linens of my dreams, a new electric kettle, and a trip to Japan from my wedding
2025-07-14 15:12:52
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ariacoleman__
Aria Coleman :
This was me when my family kept asked if I was going to have a house warming party 🥴
2025-07-14 19:23:55
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brijitobridget
Bridget 🍉 :
You can make a registry on Etsy
2025-07-18 14:25:03
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saltandbleach
saltandbleach :
Yeah I got a honey fund instead lol but did I go to Bloomingdale’s and register a shit ton of Alessi to buy for a discount post wedding? Yep!
2025-07-17 04:47:19
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