@shanboody: Why are we expected to get all our needs met by one person before we even know what we want? Sometimes a cuddle buddy is what feels right. Sometimes it’s sex. Sometimes it’s just walking a really fine man’s dog. You get to explore what feels good to you. And you don’t owe anyone an explanation. #LoversByShan #ModernLove #Situationships #DatingWhileHealing #FemaleDesire #EmotionalClarity #LoversPodcast #HookingUp
I’ve been watching for years and people look at me with surprises when I tell them I do this. I learned it works for me and I don’t have to be traditional if it doesn’t work for me
2025-07-14 19:59:05
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SKYN :
No strings, just good vibes — and great chemistry
2025-07-15 12:32:42
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user842731400087 :
she married now so she figured it out
2025-07-15 20:45:48
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On my own.. :
So sad
2025-07-14 22:41:57
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JonLamarPhotography :
Question, were they aware of each other and where each should with you?
2025-07-15 20:31:47
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Derrick J.R :
man I been following yall for years now it so dope watching yall grow... I remember when you went to their show under the W-decisions banner
2025-07-15 06:30:28
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K :
there's nothing wrong with maintaining these varied types of relationships at once, especially if everyone's in the know. though the idea that these several people "make up one" person for you is disrespectful to them. they're all complete people in their own right, regardless of the structure of your relationship with them.
2025-07-19 03:52:12
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M :
And we wonder what has happened to the community
2025-07-15 01:49:53
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hARTford steede :
😂😂
2025-07-15 18:32:56
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LL Kool Dre✈️✈️ :
😩😩😩😩
2025-07-15 13:22:48
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Tara Wiliiams Alexander :
👀👀👀
2025-07-18 02:07:29
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ElGuapofromtheBay :
💯😋👌
2025-07-15 00:24:36
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Critikalthinky :
This is how men date.
2025-07-15 12:43:58
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mmbizkmyp :
My friends don’t understand why I have 3! It’s simple, they all bring something different to the “table”. I too only have ONE f’buddy. LIFE IS GOOD! 🥰🙌🏽
….and we wonder why men aren’t interested in marriage
2025-07-15 12:05:46
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Geeze Marie :
She’s emotionally split — sex from one, comfort from another. It’s not freedom, it’s dysfunction: emotional detachment, fear of intimacy, low self-worth, validation-seeking, control games, and zero accountability.
2025-07-15 02:35:12
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misterja :
Co buddy listening to this mad as hell he ain’t get none
2025-07-15 21:01:35
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