the magic line i use with any grade level “i’m not asking you i’m telling you” they have no response and do the task
2025-07-24 21:10:51
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Shelby Frye :
my line is
either you move your body, or I will move your body.
2025-07-14 17:58:19
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JustKeepSwimming💙 :
I've done the fireman carry.....my kiddo is almost 10 now, watch me get in the car start it up and start to drive....it works.
2025-07-28 22:08:49
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hmiller1228 :
Okay I have been that parent…. And now my kids are 21 and 15. So for these people saying what are they going to be like. Well they are the sweetest caring individuals. It was my 21 year old and it happened when I was pregnant with the 15 year old. So no I couldn’t pick them up
2025-07-16 21:28:36
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Kendra Westphal :
Gentle parenting is ruining kids. They need discipline and rules and to learn about consequences when they do not listen and follow rules
2025-07-27 07:56:53
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Bri 🩷 :
And in THIS HEAT? Hell nah 🤣
2025-07-14 19:32:47
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Barb Shelton395 :
My pda/ autistic grandson has a certain way to do things, including getting in the car. If it's off in the slightest he is not going to do it. If you physically pick him up to put him in the car he takes it as physical assault basically and things get heated fast. His brain doesn't register we are not trying to hurt him.
I've gotten some looks and let me tell you I'll be the first to tell you to mind your fing business !!!
We do things differently over here all day everyday!!!!
2025-07-15 18:12:12
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ღᗷᗩᗷYᗪᑌᗰᑭᒪIᗰᘜ 4 KIᑎՏᕼIᑭღ :
you say that until the child may be too big for you to handle yourself physically in that kind of way and having to basically crawl in the car to buckle them in. you literally can't say you wouldn't tolerate it if you've never been in that situation.
2025-07-15 02:37:33
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jsmoove77 :
Either you can get into the car or I’m going to help you because this is not how we behave”
2025-07-28 19:31:32
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user097350964 :
can you imagine what that kid's going to be like when they're 15
2025-07-15 11:33:35
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Just Me :
Gentle parenting is a joke.
2025-07-16 18:39:16
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user8344429175919 :
I agree!!! However, I think it’s clear we don’t know the whole story and that mom/child could be having the worst day of their life/some crazy situation. It’s SO important not to judge
2025-07-15 01:15:03
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BeeHive🐝 :
Permissive parenting is giving gentle parenting a bad rap 🙄
2025-07-15 14:55:47
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Jennifer Carlson-Lov :
I am struggling with this but my son is 2. Right now I am pregnant and it is so hot, I do not pick him up or chase him down as quickly as I normally would.
2025-07-15 18:05:11
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MNWI :
Get in or get whooped. Your choice
2025-07-15 21:43:46
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TheWireProfessor :
The point though, is, to not HAVE to grab your kid and put him in the car. If you have to escalate to that, you're even weaker than the parent arguing for 5 min.... it's a tough job to be a parent.
2025-07-28 18:34:33
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Krystal Marie :
talking about it (begging, yelling, asking, any of the options) is allowing the kid to escape the demand placed. they are dragging out completing the task. you are doing more damage the longer it takes. #1 rule, I don't negotiate with terrorists.
2025-07-15 12:43:50
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Kelly Melvin :
Hear me out though running away from a park with a screaming child sets off alarm bells: I saw this before and the father told each passing parent “don’t worry it’s my child she doesn’t want to leave I’m not kidnapping”
2025-07-15 11:36:22
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user3788e97883 :
I have to go with White...
2025-07-15 04:31:23
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vv.ii.kk.aaa :
if i see a swift pick up with frustration i already know they’ve asked nicely MULTIPLE times 😂😂
2025-07-14 21:54:16
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audrelynn90📚📖 :
I lived by this. My daughter is 4.5 and her dad & I split a few months back. Her demeanor towards me has changed 180. It’s so hard to deal with this while at the same time, she’s telling me she doesn’t like my house. It’s so hard, especially as a single parent.
2025-07-14 18:28:22
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melbellasworld :
Period!!!!!
2025-07-29 06:44:44
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Midlifegirl :
my children never held me hostage, and I don't understand how parents let it get to that point.
2025-07-15 10:25:32
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dijac84 :
My child is a mommas boy and won’t leave my sight. So I say fine stay and turn my back and he immediately panics and follows. I don’t negotiate with terrorist 😂 and PS I don’t walk away I’m never more than a 5’ away.
2025-07-15 10:59:54
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@crazysweetB :
You don’t know her life she might have been under investigation by cps and can’t figure out what to do
2025-07-15 05:34:58
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