@lordjuliusofappalachia: Because of my life experience I cannot call myself feminist or men's rights as I see both camps to be extremists fighting against each other rather than seeking to understand each other. Misandry and Misogyny stink alike and if you don't understand that I don't know how to help you with that.

Jack with the fish 🧿 :

Honestly, I've always felt unsafe in all-female environments. I knew I didn't fit in and that made me a target. I've had a better sampling with men and I feel more welcome around them. Both have issues and neither are 100% safe, but I fit better over there. Idk why, but once you get past the ignorance about trans guys existing, then people tend to assume we all are straight, which I am very much not.