it's because they don't make their own money. I don't hide anything lol
2025-07-14 20:22:36
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timeakz :
To me the red flag is having to hide packages from your bf/husband...like why is he having negative reactions and making you feel scared to show them? That's the real red flag for me, it shows somethings off
2025-07-14 20:25:16
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Lul :
Is that peanut butter or almond butter?
2025-07-14 23:17:09
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Nicole HB :
No.. he goes outside and gets them for me
2025-07-14 21:15:55
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Olyaa La :
I’m the one that proudly shows my husband every little thing I buy even tho he doesn’t want to even see it 🤣
2025-07-14 21:31:18
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Ashley :
agree, that’s so crazy i can’t imagine being in a relationship like that
2025-07-14 20:24:20
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granny candy :
Yeah if they are housewives it might seem strange, but my mum is working and she did this for a long time for really small things since we were in debt cuz of my dad so 🤷🏻♀️
2025-07-14 20:24:14
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Judit Roca :
My mom is my neighbor and I still kind of hide my purchases because growing up my parents always judged every single euro I spent. So now I feel guilty even when I buy toothpaste 😊
2025-07-14 22:41:44
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HPbaddie :
My mom taught me this BUT I STOPPED my husband and I share banks 💕
2025-07-14 21:26:27
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🌌🏹☁️ :
I def see what u mean. But what if it’s a surprise gift 😂
2025-07-14 20:23:44
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rach \\ 🇺🇸 in 🇭🇺 :
I hid my trash from UberEATS a few times when I was pregnant bc I was embarrassed but he found out and now it's a running joke with us that our son is made of shake shack cheese fries 😭😭
2025-07-14 20:24:23
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Nikk123 :
I hide nothing, but I don’t tell him about everything. Honestly he wouldn’t care. Most things are like restock of skincare or supplements, I don’t spend a lot. For anything clothes or similar I ALWAYS share.
2025-07-14 20:41:16
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Karriza🍯 :
I hide nothing! Unless it his birthday present.. I literally give him fashion shows/hauls of what I buy 😂😂
2025-07-14 22:54:18
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Megan :
Right! I can’t imagine hiding stuff and it’d be so easy because we don’t share a bank account. But we still talk about everything.
2025-07-14 21:19:09
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Lisaury Diaz :
I give my fiancé a haul 😂 and so does he, if it is something expensive we consult with each other about the purchase
2025-07-15 14:46:29
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Maria Alejandrina Papagno :
I do not hide nothing, instead I am going like a child telling him “look! Look what I got for us” or “look! Look what I got for the kids!” If I buy something for me, I don’t tell him, he doesn’t care honestly and I do not overspend. If he sees something new on me he doesn’t notice all the time, he just say “you look awesome babe” He is just very interested in making more money everyday. I am a SAHM btw.
2025-07-17 12:32:39
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debtfreewithjess :
I feel like that’s how I know I’m overspending - if I don’t want my husband to know. 😂
2025-07-14 23:42:20
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ersela◇ :
no I put on a fashion show , when I buy something
2025-07-16 02:17:41
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marteu :
And then there's me opening them in front of him excited like it's the Christmas morning 😂
2025-07-16 21:00:19
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AbbyyyandEstebannn :
I never hid packages and never will. We sit down and talk about a big purchase or what we need. I also ask for his opinion because I do tend to purchase stuff that I do not need.
2025-07-14 20:49:20
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Lily :
I am with you on this, it’s a red flag. I don’t hide packages, we do have a rule in our marriage. If it’s a large amount at a certain price we discuss it. Under that, we trust each other to use our judgement, if it’s a want or a need.
2025-07-15 08:27:38
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Lincoln :
It’s basically like hiding the fact that they’re cheating
2025-07-15 00:28:35
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buckt🐰 :
me and my husband both have our own package knife to open them. he is just as excited to open them as I am!
2025-07-15 17:24:11
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MissA :
Sometimes I get a bit wild with shopping, but if my husband comments something I just listen and dont do it till we need something. I think it depends on relationship and how both agree to spend money..
2025-07-14 20:54:42
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hala :
Me and my mum hide our shopping trip buys from my dad even though he literally gets the notifications to his phone on what’s been spent and from where 😂 it’s a shared account that’s solely my mums money too bc my dads goes to bills etc 😂 we do it for the thrill 😂
2025-07-14 20:31:15
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