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⋆౨ৎ˚⟡˖ ࣪ :
They’re both annoying tbh😭😭
2025-07-15 09:37:49
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Chelsea :
If this is the true story her being upset that he DoorDashed flowers is odd , why does it matter how you got them ? You asked he did it ? Flowers from a florist are insanely expensive for zero reason. He is definitely a red flag but lowkey she is too .
2025-07-15 02:56:14
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Ieasha Powell :
Someone commented that they're both annoying and I couldn't agree more. 🤣🤣🤣
2025-07-28 18:21:11
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Yokogirl21 :
She had expectations and he made them come true… he could’ve handled it better, but overall I don’t think he’s in the wrong… life happens, sometimes you forget things…
2025-07-16 02:47:40
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Kat Bomm :
It’s the thought that counts. She wants him to put effort in and show that he cares. It’s not the flowers that are the gift, it’s the gesture bro!
2025-07-22 01:12:49
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Caen Dusk :
I mean technically speaking he wasn't acting thoughtfully, he was doing it because he saw it as an obligation. he just picked a random bouquet so it wasn't even one he picked for her. I get that he feels like where the flowers come from shouldn't matter but the issue she's having is that she sees him as not putting effort in for her to make her happy without understanding why these things make her happy. he's going through the motions to placate her
2025-07-15 04:15:33
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Stephanie💜 :
The fact that he said it doesn’t come naturally but is still trying…. He forgot and still tried. I understand his frustration. He felt like his efforts weren’t enough.
2025-07-20 12:13:12
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Alex :
You can’t just take the wife’s side. It sounds toxic from both ends. He said he does old romantic things for her because he wants to make her feel loved etc but lets be honest if it was the other partner who was writing this you’d be bashing the husband.
2025-07-19 02:56:31
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golder :
Sometimes healing starts when you realize you’re not alone Every page of book Tracing Back to Myself by Nina Cole reminded me that someone else has walked this road—and made it through.
2025-07-15 20:34:17
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Morgan Kelty :
she was out of line, but him saying he wants her to hurt the way he hurt and leaving her alone to cry.. thats deep, scary, I dont want to have anything to do with any person who thinks this way
2025-07-15 02:55:20
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bri🕺🏻 :
i was on his side till it hit me he doordashed flowers to make himself look good
2025-07-15 02:44:49
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MyrtleSandwich :
It has nothing to do with getting his wife flowers! I don't understand how do many people don't get that. It is not about the end result, it's about knowing what your partner likes, knowing which flowers are their favourite, and putting in the effort to order them. Getting last minute flowers and just picking at random, puts in no effort at all and that is probably the issue in their marriage; not enough effort. It's honestly a capitalist idea that you should be happy with whatever you get. If he likes Scottish whisky but she gets him a bottle of bourbon should he applaud her, when they are married and supposed to know eachother?? She's also just laying out for him how she would like to be treated. But 'women are such a mystery, they never say what they want'. Humbug.
2025-07-22 08:06:56
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christinap78 :
I think there love language are very very different, till they figure a middle ground it will continue to be rocks. my husband is verbal and gift giving. mine is touch and cuddles. he not a cuddle person. we found our middle ground and are happy with it.
2025-07-19 21:05:08
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Valentina :
The fact that he did get her flowers to begin with was sweet, especially if it doesn’t come naturally - just because he didn’t walk to the florist to get them himself shouldn’t even matter. But him doubling down to be like “how do I make her feel what I felt” was an ick. They’re both lacking some communication and regulation.
2025-07-17 06:49:42
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Katie89how :
some husbands/boyfriends don't even give gifts or flowers
2025-07-15 14:13:47
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Alohapili :
I’m siding with op. He could give her everything she wants on a silver platter but if the platter was from his mom, she’d have a problem with it because he didn’t go out and look for one himself at TJ Max. 😂
2025-07-15 03:37:51
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🌻 Ali 🌻 :
I'm kindly of on his side in this situation. But I really feel like love languages are sooo sooo important. You knew this about her before you married her. If you don't want to do these acts of service in a positive attitude kind of way, you shouldn't have married her. I feel like her red flag was being mad about how he did it, he did it, he didn't forget. I personally get why he didn't want to go through with the date though.
2025-07-16 01:07:11
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Yanna kinkade :
These comments are give the bars too high for a man that forgot to get flower freaked out 20 minutes beforehand and order to have delivered what if every date is like that what if his effort is no effort at all what if this is the only time he actually show any effort and it’s only door dash flowers what if there only ever door dash flower and he has never truly made an effort and she has asked him over and over and got nothing and this was the last straw and he took it as being ungrateful for the bare minimum of effort and love leave her heart broken for the wasted time and him angry that doing nothing isn’t appropriated and you people say that the girlfriends expectations of love and affection are too high maybe your expectations are too low
2025-07-15 06:16:35
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Kitty Wind :
It’s the fact that the gesture involved little effort or thoughtfulness. That’s the whole point.
2025-07-15 07:49:16
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SSSSSnyman :
listen my husband spoils me rotten at times when he is able to...me as a spoiled brat has to agree with op...his wife is thankless.she has childish ideals about what romance is.
2025-07-15 05:01:55
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Nutmegsnowydopedealr :
that is thoughtless though, you can't even go get me flowers?
2025-07-15 16:26:41
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Monique Claros :
She aint wtong
2025-07-15 13:11:37
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Monnia Oropeza :
It sounds like they don’t have the same love language. She is obviously not getting her needs met if where he got the flowers matter. And he doesn’t feel understood either. Both have to drop ego and start getting curious about the other person. Work smarter not harder!
2025-07-20 19:46:36
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Eeelaine :
It sounds like he just didn’t wanna do all that so he made a little thing a big thing.
2025-07-16 05:43:08
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Nadiya 🧡 makeup :
Your advice is perfect!
2025-07-21 23:05:55
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