Jessica Valenti
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Tuesday 15 July 2025 12:32:56 GMT
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ActuallyIntroverted :
Anyone who thinks raising a child is less stressful than a corporate 9-to-5 job is not raising their children properly.
2025-07-15 13:06:39
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Letsbehonest :
I had 4 children. I’ve been a stay at home mom. Raising kids is stressful. Going to work was my break from the stress. AND I WAS AN ER NURSE!
2025-07-15 15:19:49
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user4479100077449 :
I think it is if you have a good husband provider.
2025-07-15 21:34:30
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Mr. Thiccit🇺🇸💙 :
Talk to the children of these large families about how their childhood was cut short because of having to take on parenting roles at a young age.
2025-07-15 13:20:49
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Cigarette mama :
My grandmother had 8 babies and at one point she had a full mental breakdown and had to go back home and live with her parents for a while while the children were split up among family members. Believe me when I tell you, she was burnt out.
2025-07-15 13:20:43
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naturemama :
I was a stay at home mom for 6 months with a baby and toddler. I missed being valued for my mind and contributions. I was lonely. If they want women to have “more babies” give more emotional, social and financial support.
2025-07-15 13:08:02
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Kat_sta :
I've been ambivalent about kids my whole life...but this whole maga/tradwife thing (and trump generally) has moved me into the firmly "no" category. I get the appeal though, especially bc of influencers. I'd rather make bread than attend meetings some days.
2025-07-15 13:07:55
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Ganymede :
imo, motherhood is oppression
2025-07-16 00:35:49
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Lee :
Every person I know in their 30’s-40’s who grew up in big families now only have 1-3 kids, even the really conservative ones! That tells me something
2025-07-16 15:20:20
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Mel🆘️🇺🇸 :
That is a lie! I only have 2 kids and dear God trying to be a good mother and all that it is is fucking exhausting.
2025-07-15 12:56:02
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Love Heather B :
chances of getting and being afflicted by long term post partum depression goes up exponentially with more children and even more the closer the children are in age 😭😭😭
2025-07-15 12:44:59
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Mass Cary :
As the mother of four children, I can say unequivocally that more babies will make you feel more burned out!!!
2025-07-15 12:46:43
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initforthedonuts :
Any person that is not in a cult and has ever cared for a child will see through that immediately.
2025-07-16 01:28:45
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Iamreadyforarevolution :
I had a career and then I became a stay at home mom and being a stay at home mother was way more stressful, made me more anxious and depressed and was less happy as a stay at home mom than a career because of lack of support.
2025-07-15 12:44:01
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Sharon Chevillet :
Tell me you’ve never had a baby without ever having a baby.
2025-07-16 05:06:39
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Kimi H :
Immediately said what because two teenage boys have me burned out without work. They have me wanting to go to work.
2025-07-15 12:55:14
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Christina :
I wasn’t burnt out until I had a baby
2025-07-15 17:23:40
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Pam GenXGramma 🆘🇺🇸 :
I haven’t heard this yet from my MAHA D-I-L but she is pregnant with #4. I’ll be listening for this language, thank you.
2025-07-15 15:09:40
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bananas1213 :
Mom of 3. DON’T DO IT JUST TO HAVE SOMETHING TO DO OR TO CURE SOME UNRESOLVED MESS. Please, think about things before you do it- they rely on you so much and need so much guidance even when you are falling apart. Too many folks having kids to use as glue for bad relationships or to heal some trauma and it’s heartbreaking for the kids at the end of the day. Be safe, be careful.
2025-07-22 00:59:59
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Miranda :
lol nothing burns you out more than having a kid
2025-07-25 17:02:53
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no :
I think a lot about the “having it all narrative.” None of these spaces adequately consider women.
2025-07-15 16:17:11
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April :
How on earth did they come up with that equation
2025-07-15 12:51:03
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Mombirb :
I tried being a stay at home mom. After six months the walls started to crush me and I craved rest, peace and an adult conversation. I ran, not walked, back to my career. I was a happier and better mom for it.
2025-07-15 14:05:45
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mjs.2024 :
Probably the same people who say we should "gift" a sibling so they play together so we don't have to.
2025-07-16 06:13:47
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thesaladwhisperer :
That demonstrates how little they emotionally care-take of their children. That is the challenging part. It’s not just the dishes and laundry.
2025-07-15 17:42:51
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