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lovemesomewestend :
im the only one of my friends who doesn't have kids. occasionally I see their offspring, luckily most of the time I don't and they're ok with that
2025-07-27 01:07:13
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Sjofn🍀🍁🐢 :
Like there are things that are implied to be "family friendly" events (back yard BBQ, Thanksgiving Dinner something like that) , and things that clearly aren't (Going on a wine tour, going to a fancy dinner etc) and if you as a parent can't tell the difference or ASK if it's vague, you're a bad parent AND a bad friend.
2025-07-15 14:21:09
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Breezimarie :
As a mom I 100% agree! I do not ever assume my kids are invited everywhere. I also hate when i throw something and didn’t plan on kids like a dinner party and people don’t ask and show up with all their kids. My kids are at grandmas… that’s why I’m doing this!!!
2025-07-23 17:32:35
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🦥🐈⬛ Tay📚🇨🇦 :
if my childfree friends are willing to hang out with my kids im willing to find childcare to we can go do childfree things even if its just going for a coffee and a chat
2025-07-15 14:12:44
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Diego and the Beast :
I’m 47 and child free by choice. I never take kids into account when I make plans. Figure it out on your own.
2025-07-16 04:11:52
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Sheyenne ✨ :
I can understand this but also some mums don’t have a village or anyone to take the kids so going out without the kid just isn’t a option, nobody’s forced to hang out but I guess if you wanna hang with that mum and your friends you understand they will have the child with them just mean ya miss on on adult only activities as they will come again some day
2025-07-15 21:29:27
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The Amazing Reesa :
I'm 44 and several of my friends have kids, but none of them ever blanket assume that something will be kid friendly unless I say so ... because that's the considerate thing to do. If the person says they can't get childcare but want to come, we try as much as possible to accommodate but it's never an expectation or requirement. And those of us who don't have kids totally get it if they can't make it work.
2025-07-15 17:25:26
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MahsaTM06 :
let's just address the real underlying issue here. These mothers don't have co-parents that step up without needing to be " worked on" or without having to have prep done beforehand. So childfree people sacrifice to ease the burden of their friends. That's why so many friendships between childfree people and mothers end at some point.
2025-07-15 14:32:39
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Klara :
Like in my parents friendgroup either all have kids in the same age or none at all. And there was no Problem with children in child free homes, but also Childfree events at the parents place
2025-07-16 18:43:31
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mummysloth🇬🇧 :
I'm a mum and I love going to more adult activities with my friends, my mum watches her while I go. my main reason for this is I have people in my life who can't have children and I am respectful of that, but also I don't want to force her on people who are childless
2025-07-15 15:12:25
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Anxious Apricot 🇨🇦 :
someone suggested I make my bachelorette party child friendly
2025-07-16 19:19:38
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natashacollin300 :
I love child free activities. i love my kids, but I need some me time also. a lot of parents will try to make you feel guilty for having time for yourself, but truthfully, it makes me a better mum because I've prioritised myself outside of my kids
2025-07-16 07:29:45
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Misty Dawn :
I'm 45 and have 4 kids and my kids don't go everywhere with me and I do plenty of events with just my friends / friends and partners
2025-07-15 14:09:55
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foz_1320 :
I am 20 and I usually are friends. That are older than me. My better friend has 2 older kids under 10 and a younger kid under 2. And while I assume that they're going with us every time they don't always if we go shopping or if we're going to go about to eat, we don't bring them. But I also know If I i want to go like swimming, I assume the kids are coming
2025-07-16 13:46:56
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Mintgreeen :
I as a single mother prefer to hang out with my childfree friends alone during my childfree weekends because if i bring my son, i won’t be able to give my friend my undivided attention and have that quality time a friendship needs.
2025-07-15 15:17:07
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🦝 :
As a parent, I automatically assume it's no kids unless it's been specified as a "family / any and everyone is welcome" event.
2025-07-15 14:34:11
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Angelic1 :
I always ask kids/no kids. Benefits to both. I’m usually the one pushing for no kids but it’s easier to schedule with kids.
2025-07-15 21:05:16
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blu :
if I have a friend that has a kid I let them know if it's child free day or not
2025-07-16 06:21:31
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Emma Walker 🇬🇧 :
id rather non child activities. I spend enough time with my kids
2025-07-15 18:52:23
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Pamela :
As a 37 year old with no children...I so agree with this.
2025-07-16 05:42:48
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mom2jazz :
Im 47. I was the only one in my close friend group with a kid. I never assumed to take her. My kid is 21 now. And even now, I ask, ok if they join?
2025-07-20 14:41:35
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TurtleGurl :
2 of my best friends are child free...we compromise, they come to the birthday parties, I come to girls night & brunches...It's about finding the balance.
2025-07-15 19:14:44
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merpderp36 :
I’m a bit younger myself, but just like randomly bringing a partner: I’m fine with accommodating a different dynamic (kiddos or the other persons partner etc) every now and then, but oh my god please discuss it with me first. I’ve let more friendships fizzle out than I like to admit purely because they kept bringing their partners without warning, and honestly wouldn’t be surprised if they’d been the same with their kids once they got those 😂😭 I’m not 100% sure if I wanna stay child free (25 now and I don’t have this longing to be a mother and am at leats 100% sure that I don’t wanna carry one, but with the right partner I’m not against adopting at some point when I’m older), but you bet that I’m gonna be that one parent-friend that will only bring the kid when specifically invited 😂
2025-07-15 14:46:36
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Minty8dove :
I feel like most things would be obvious if they’re child-friendly. Like, if my friends invited me to the park - yeah, I’d probably bring my kid, if they invited me to the bar then no, I’m not bringing my kid.
2025-07-15 14:56:16
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