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Lorie :
I understand the whole message about patience, tolerance, and “not cutting people off.” I really do. But I think it’s a bit simplistic, and honestly unfair, to act like the people who choose to walk away are just being impatient or unkind. The truth is, the ones who end up distancing themselves are often the ones who were the most patient, for the longest time. They gave chance after chance. They tried to understand. They made excuses for other people’s behavior. They kept showing up even when it hurt. So no, walking away is not a sign of weakness or impulsiveness, it’s usually the result of deep emotional processing and years of quiet endurance. People like to quote the Bible about forgiveness and tolerance, but even spiritually, there’s more nuance. Jesus walked away. He set boundaries. He told his disciples to move on when they weren’t received. Love doesn’t mean losing yourself. And it definitely doesn’t mean staying where you’re consistently hurt just to prove you’re “tolerant.” Sometimes, choosing peace over chaos is exactly what God is calling you to do. It’s not bitterness, it’s growth. You can still be loving and kind and grounded in faith without tolerating what breaks you. And if anything, maybe the lesson is that all that pain and disappointment came because we tolerated what we shouldn’t have for too long. Growth looks like learning from that,not repeating it. So no, cutting someone off isn’t always the problem. Sometimes, it’s the result of finally realising that your peace matters too.
2025-07-16 15:32:26
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SoffyLoves :
I think a lot of ppl misunderstand forgiveness. Forgiveness does NOT mean access.
2025-07-16 04:44:23
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oyoe :
Me! He had to gather me QUICKLY
2025-07-18 03:42:35
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𝐀 𝐃 𝐉 𝐎 𝐀 :
I was just speaking on this topic! There are certain things in this life that are worth the fight. Nobody gives each other the grace, patience, and forgiveness that the Lord gives us. You’re so wise.
2025-07-15 16:43:43
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Y E N A :
i’m finding it 😭
2025-07-16 02:38:18
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Kelis. :
Is this a sign?
2025-07-17 06:51:59
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Ameliarule123 :
we dont have to put up with toxic people. they will destroy your life.
2025-07-16 12:02:41
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Timelesske :
Whew cause I block everybody...
2025-07-15 18:40:53
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Maggielou :
this was so good thank you!
2025-07-17 21:56:24
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Jalen :
“Instantly cutting someone off because they’re being human isn’t discernment” SHEESH
2025-07-16 01:59:09
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Njavwilizya :
For anyone disagreeing… your heart had to get here first and then action follows. It’s hard to understand this concept when you are still easily offended and your self worth is wrapped around what others decide to do. Like she said it doesn’t apply to everyone and neither does cutting off. Hope that helps.
2025-07-17 21:32:46
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Kgadi_naniki :
I used to be so quick to cutoff people after they’ve done me wrong. I’m currently learning that I can also be “annoying “ or hurt others but they could be giving me some grace. Grad I ran into this video❤️
2025-07-16 06:35:28
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drlmw919 :
He also gave us common sense and free will......what I look like allowing someone to keep playing in my face?!?!?
2025-07-18 04:01:19
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Steph • Dallas Content Creator :
I forgive but I’ll leave you alone after too many times 😅
2025-07-15 22:55:12
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𝒮ky :
Human connection isn’t the same as it used to be. People are always looking for the best in others, yet they don’t even hold themselves to that same standard. They run from what hurt them or whatever doesn’t feel perfect. / AGREED!
2025-07-17 06:50:12
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Carlotta :
THIS IS SOOO IMPORTANT!! Especially since Jesus forgives us so much worse. Every. Single. Day. Yes boundaries are important, but as you said, there is a big difference between protecting yourself or being prideful and overly judgmental.🙏🏼💖
2025-07-17 23:31:11
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DaYatraK :
Umm.. I also think cutting ppl off is easier for ppl who can’t quite communicate their feelings. It’s hard to articulate the hurt or disappointment they feel so they detach.
2025-07-17 03:54:28
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Evette 💜 :
forgiveness doesn't mean reunion
2025-07-18 01:49:11
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Asah :
I will give you many chances but if you consistently repeat the same mistake, I am stepping out of your way. My peace is also important just as yours
2025-07-16 09:11:59
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Natalya :
Lord, you brought me to this video?!?! 😩
2025-07-18 00:15:50
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Incognito :
My pastor said at Bible study last night that a spiritually mature person learns how to disagree without disconnecting!
2025-07-17 16:00:06
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V :
we don’t wanna doo that thoughhh *Amaya voice*
2025-07-15 18:41:06
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Ray Sunshine :
Most of the time we cut people off we ain’t got no business being around
2025-07-17 04:56:26
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sj :
Don’t let pride pretend it’s protection!!! Thats a word
2025-07-16 02:29:17
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Kayla Moore :
Girl!! This is truth. I struggled with this same matter. Literally was a cut off queen lol. Until I realized it was rooted in pride and being easily offended. I literally believe offense is a big tactic the enemy uses, and when we take that bait we try to justify our perspective which turns into pride. And that does not lead to growth, it does not help build relationships within the church(the people) and most importantly it does not reflect Christ. I am all for boundaries, but I always state boundaries should be healthy not harmful to others or hinder you.
2025-07-15 23:09:07
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