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wes ⚧︎ :
i’ve gone back and forth with this and realised it’s actually not okay, if the only thing that they don’t like about me is my genitalia then that is definitely transphobic 😭 like i’ve had cis gay men want to date me until they find out im trans and then im disgusting
2025-07-16 16:00:41
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SussexSaxon 🏴🇬🇧 :
As a cis gay man, I'm attracted to other cis gay men.... its nice to hear from a trans man that that's ok.... some members of the trans community don't agree and imply that not being attracted to ALL men is somehow transphobic and I'm definitely not. 🥰
2025-07-17 22:26:38
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G :
cis gay with a trans bf and couldn't be happier!
2025-07-17 21:02:51
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Char :
I’ve had more of an issue with straight* men using me to figure out their sexuality or as a “soft launch” into gayness, than I have with gay men being suddenly not interested in me because I’m trans. It’s not transphobic to be not attracted to a trans person. It is transphobic if you’re not attracted to someone because they are trans specifically. There’s a huge difference between the two and I feel like the community confuses the two frequently.
2025-07-17 06:48:18
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Zatishere :
they don't mind? this is one of the things that have scared me the most about my transition. I recently started T, and I'm only attracted to men but I wasn't sure if it was okay to call myself a gay man. I didn't want people to feel like I'm stealing their space. 😕
2025-07-16 06:56:09
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👑 :
Any other take makes it sound like people are only welcome in the same spaces as you if you'd consider them a potential partner. I'm exclusively interested in cis men, but trans gay men... Are just as much of gay men as me.
2025-07-16 16:42:21
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Nightbluewingg :
A preference is preferring something over the other not disliking something in general btw.
2025-07-16 13:27:11
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scoutiez :
We need a word for terfs but men because girl…. A lot of these conversations about “real homosexuals” is very much sounding like terfism. Some gay men are more interested in presentation over pants. Not everyone is sx obsessed, and I don’t understand the vitriolic hate for us just existing in the space. Nobody said you HAD to be attracted to tboys. All we said is that we also deserve to be treated like human beings.
2025-07-16 23:40:29
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progdavid :
gen preference is okay and should be normalized, as long as both sides are respectful about it
2025-07-16 15:25:50
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UbiZoZo :
Well it’s not a preference if you won’t date someone with that trait at all, it’s a requirement. But that’s still okay. It’s not wrong. As long as you understand it’s not because they are trans, and respect that they are men. (I hope I worded this right lol)
2025-07-17 00:14:47
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💙ErasureSonic💙 :
Thank you! I am so sick of the majority of the trans community shaming cis people for having preferences. Automatically calling someone transphobic for preferring a body part is as ridiculous as labeling someone homophobic because they are straight. It’s not transphobic.
2025-07-17 23:59:48
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ABYSS :
Off topic, but i love your hair!!!
2025-07-16 07:27:54
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Ersearis :
This just seems like common sense? We don't police other people's attractions, nor do we exclude trans people from spaces of their acquired gender and sexuality. Why is this controversial? 😂
2025-07-16 09:10:32
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🔥Harvey🔥 :
YES, TRANS GAY MAN HERE.
2025-07-15 20:22:46
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Jay :
Yeah why wouldn’t it be okay?
2025-07-17 20:23:03
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Alex white :
I’m a trans man and my fiancé is a gay cis man and we have two biological children 💯🥰
2025-07-19 01:02:38
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smeah :
can i be honest as someone who’s homosexual? the word preference feels very odd bc like. it implies i chose that and there could be other options that i like slightly less. there is no other option when you’re homosexual.
2025-07-16 01:47:02
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meow :
aahh gender envy
2025-07-18 16:45:10
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nydaicho :
I don’t think you need to be so nice to them, I’m an amab nb gay person (specifying that I’m amab, because people still perceive me as cis, and I don’t have the same issues in gay spaces that trans men have). like it’s not your job to validate their feelings. if they aren’t willing to actually listen to you, that’s on them
2025-07-17 19:34:35
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Todd Gibson :
gay man here who welcomes you wholeheartedly to gay spaces. you're very handsome. i would ask you for conversation and would be open to more, just in general, lol. not trying to get a date. happy day handsome
2025-07-16 19:14:50
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moon limerence :
I couldn’t agree more! There’s a really nice Danish Film “Sauna” that actually tackles into that topic more, it’s about trans gay man and how different that experience unfolds in cis gay men spaces. You should give it a watch (was filmed in my city and my fav queer rave club hihih)
2025-07-16 15:10:42
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Benji🐾 :
as a trans gay man my bf is cis and loves me [yummy]
2025-07-17 15:42:20
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louden or whatever i dont care :
Gay trans man with a cis gay lover can confirm
2025-07-16 13:58:18
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🍉 JKL🔻 :
I always feel kinda weird/bad explaining that I mostly like AMAB people but am romantically pan so thank you for the vindication.
2025-07-16 17:11:26
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lil_mmagb :
This makes plenty of sense 😌 also u are so gorgeoussss handsome stunning !!!
2025-07-17 06:51:06
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