Raine :
The thing with boundaries is there kinda needs to be an ultimatum at play. If its something major or is extremely important to you, its likely "Stop doing this, or i am leaving and you will not be in my life." Or for something a bit smaller, "Do not interrupt me, or I will not speak with you." If they cross the line after being told, then hold up your end as well. If its in the case of an accident, or they ask for a second chance, use your own discretion on whether or not you will follow through, but ensure the line is redrawn regardless. This is what I used to get out of a very bad relationship, because I set boundaries that were honestly bare minimum, they refused to even hear me on them, I expressed the alternative, they overreacted way past sane limits, and I broke things off.
2025-07-15 19:02:57