@lesleygoth: As a trauma specialist, I discuss an example of coercion and manipulation shown on the Love Island. I accidentally call it love is blind… oops! I analyze the interaction between Huda and Chris, highlighting how Huda's behavior of counting down and threatening Chris's mood if he doesn't engage sexually is a clear case of coercion, manipulation, and emotional blackmail. I emphasize that this type of behavior is unacceptable regardless of gender, and that respecting someone's 'no' is crucial in healthy relationships. I encourage viewers to recognize these red flags and to prioritize their own boundaries and emotional well-being. #coercion #manipulation #trauma #sa #foryou #fyp #foryoupage
I’m curious to know would you consider how he reacted to her not wanting to kiss him emotional coercion as well??
2025-07-20 16:03:08
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💜 :
it’s called love island babe!
2025-07-16 14:10:01
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zsociallife :
I think also it’s important to discuss the SCIR scale too when discussing this topic because frequency does matter too.
2025-07-22 04:31:29
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Steven :
lol they’re about to attack the trauma specialists,
2025-07-16 14:05:00
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maia angel :
I just imagine if they were kids, would more people understand? like making a kid cuddle because they’re too focused on it just being “cuddling” (mind you she said “just cuddle me then” so it seems like from editing it may have been wanting more)
2025-07-17 01:45:52
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toon :
ppl defend her w the excuse “shes being real” are enablers!! not only that but are also the ones to consistently mistreat their friends and make no effort to be better ppl/friends bc “im just being real!!” & any accountability is “doing too much;” all these opinions are saying a lot 🥸
2025-07-20 03:03:56
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Petty Mogul :
I really like the portion about “being able to tolerate your own emotions.” We all need to acquire the tools to self-sooth. It can be really beautiful to be in relationships with others who can help us regulate, but we are not entitled to that.
2025-07-16 15:39:03
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Petty Mogul :
Thank you for speaking about this! It was very hard to watch that especially without any context from the produceds afterwards.
2025-07-16 15:36:05
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Pree Zee :
@Chris Seeley Chris Seeley you need to sue @Love Island USA Love Island USA because this is literally SA.
2025-07-17 04:35:39
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lunarwhirlpool :
@miah
2025-07-20 08:54:17
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User156890006690 :
!!!
2025-07-16 22:33:50
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picklerick :
@Too Faced
2025-07-19 08:27:37
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msrosaria :
@❤️
2025-07-17 15:18:15
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blah-blah-blah blah-blah-blah :
Chelly and Ola need to pull a Leah and get the producers to release all the clips of huda’s behaviors and hold the producers accountable for further spreading racist hate agaianst them online through false representations! They need to get in contact with LEAH to find how she got them fired and held accountable!! Big brands and business now join in. They need to sue or press for emotional damage and racial discrimination. Tag EJ please to make a video on this!! They need to be held accountable!! PLEASE COPY PASTE EVERYWHERE❗️❗️
2025-07-17 18:55:49
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Elizabeth_Rules :
@kailynn🎱🍸🐆💌 @k8lynn25 here you go, since you guys are uneducated, I thought I’d show you what professionals have to say about the topic, and hopefully you guys won’t continue defending SA after this.
2025-07-18 20:38:59
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lisaveldsman_ :
So when Huda said he didn’t want to kiss him in public he said then we won’t have sex in private? What’s that then?
2025-07-18 03:33:34
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🌑 :
If u are a specialist u would do better at researching bcs it’s not what happens. Yes Huda wanted it but when he refused she said she wanted to cuddle and then the countdown happened. Before that he threw a pillow at her hard against her face which she has had surgery for. Prior to this Chris kept persisting n getting angry at her for not kissing him, isn’t that coercion?
2025-07-20 08:51:26
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