Cuzin!! My husband and I have been having this same conversation. We've started allowing ourselves to grieve lost friendships, and even the decisions of our children that we know will make life harder for them. It's so hard to parent adult children but we're leaning how to do it differently.
2025-07-16 13:48:41
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DaisyMae123 :
I turn 60 in a few weeks and the things I would have done, taught and the way I loved my kids would’ve been so much different if I could go back. No do overs, but man. I’ve grown so much after going to therapy for 3 years has changed me.
2025-07-16 13:11:12
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Talle :
This! Yep… just lean into it. ❤️
2025-07-16 22:36:45
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Tierra Pezzelle :
Thank you for this message cousin. ❤️
2025-07-16 15:20:11
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Queen Christine :
You’re doing the Lord’s work
2025-07-17 20:01:43
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Michelle :
We are DOING THE WORK!! Thank you so much for pushing this out …it’s uncomfortable but necessary 🩶🙏🏽🙌🏽✨
2025-07-16 18:41:43
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BlackgirlOnTheMove :
OMG! You are not lying…I’m parenting myself. Yeah, this resignates…therapist asked me where does my feelings go and hell good question because idk (hide n go seek anyone?) trying to find that out! 🥰
2025-07-16 18:03:23
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sunflowermommaxo :
You are awesome! Love you, too.
2025-07-16 21:01:05
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Sherron :
💐 Grief used to sneak up on my at the most inopportune spaces and places; now we are not besties, but we check in on each other on a regular basis
2025-07-16 15:06:51
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Hezzah :
thank you, I needed to hear this today. this week has been very heavy with grief for me. I needed this reminder ❤️
2025-07-16 13:18:04
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Nikki@home :
I didn't realize i was doing this until I broke down crying in a restaurant. Being the oldest and first daughter is a lot.
2025-07-16 13:14:26
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Holy Ghosting :
“There is grief in every single things we do.” This stopped me in my tracks. You broke me with this realization. 🥰
2025-07-18 18:52:16
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jessie :
So true
2025-07-17 10:29:06
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Emperor Queen Tarot :
Yes ma’am what we resist persists
2025-07-17 08:01:00
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nanas_knit_and_crochet :
I’m allowing myself to feel the grief of experiencing my last firsts with my youngest. It’s hard but it’s ok
2025-07-17 22:30:40
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Alise :
I've been letting myself grieve and I realized how much I have been trying to hold together and now I feel like I'm falling apart. I've experienced so much hurt and healing, but both are equally exhaustive.
2025-07-16 13:27:23
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Micaella🏳️🌈 Martinez :
you’re out here sounding like Michelle Obama and I am so here for it!!
2025-07-16 22:38:27
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Normalmamalife :
This! ❤️
2025-07-16 21:25:45
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Nonnipop :
You are my inspiration cuzzin. I went and joined the gym yesterday and I'm working out my schedule as I also check on my 81 y/o dad multiple times daily. With 2 athletic teens and a husband (that does help) I have to have a schedule. I'll be 50 next yr and I'm trying to be fine as wine, like you. Anywho, let's get it😁😁
2025-07-16 13:25:50
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Babbles0606 :
It is HARD! Thank you for acknowledging
2025-07-17 00:24:37
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Elizabeth Amy Ubell :
Yes. Thank you
2025-07-16 13:32:16
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Shama :
This is so true thank you for this
2025-07-16 16:13:41
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lelaoftwo :
Prima, solid advice gracias
2025-07-16 14:06:07
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TwinLady :
btw - an on time message
2025-07-16 14:00:48
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Anisaangel21 :
Ahmien cousin! 🙌🏾🫶🏾
2025-07-16 13:36:57
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