@thejeffreymarsh: “I thought I was the mother of three boys… and then one of my children came out as trans.” In this powerful clip from Inner Voice Episode 4, my guest opens up about how her child’s bravery in coming out as trans didn’t just shift her child’s life — it also sparked a deep reflection within her about who she was, and what it really means to be a mother. She said something that stuck with me: ✨ “I realized that being the mother of ‘three boys’ was never really true — it was just a story I told myself. And when my child told me who they really were, it was my job to listen, and let go of the story.” We talked about how often parents see their children as extensions of themselves. As little stories they get to write. And how scary it can feel to realize that our children aren’t ours to define — they are fully their own. For her, this was a moment of humility. A moment of love. A moment of learning to see beyond gender, beyond expectations, beyond ego — and simply be with her child as they are. ✨ Parenting doesn’t mean clinging to the story you thought you were living. ✨ Parenting means making space for the story your child needs to tell. And in doing that, she found herself becoming a new version of herself — a better, more honest, more loving parent. This conversation is a beautiful reminder that when one person in a family comes out, everyone has the opportunity to grow and become more authentic. 🎧 Inner Voice with Jeffrey Marsh — Episode 4 is streaming now: → Apple Podcasts → Spotify → YouTube (with captions & cozy visuals) 🔗 Link in bio to listen, subscribe, and reflect with us. 💬 Drop a 🌈 if you’ve ever had to rewrite the story you were telling yourself — in order to show up with love. #InnerVoicePodcast #JeffreyMarsh #ParentingWithLove #TransYouthDeserveLove #RewriteTheStory #HealingJourney #SoftnessIsStrength #LGBTQVoices #RadicalAcceptance #TakeYourOwnAdvice #YouBelongHere #PodcastClip #EpisodeFourNowStreaming
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Wednesday 16 July 2025 19:00:06 GMT
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Pamski :
I don't understand it being part of your identity to be a mom of boys or girls or any kind of gender! I'm a mom but however my children identify themselves is their identity not mine!! Your the parent of your kid, and no matter what changes or how they live you support them
2025-07-17 12:53:40
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I’ll never tell :
Twilight Zone!!
2025-07-26 18:45:31
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Broken Tongue :
I heard one parent describe it like, “You buy tickets to Italy. You read all the travel guides to Italy and take Italian, and pack for Italy. But suddenly your plane is routed to Norway. And you’re utterly unprepared for Norway; it’s not what you planned! But even if you didn’t get to go to Italy, you can still enjoy Norway.”
2025-07-16 23:07:49
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Jessica 🦌 :
Look up the organization Mama Dragons. We are here specifically to support the *mothers* of queer children (“mothers” being an inclusive term; anyone identifying as a mother is welcome). Parents need support so we can advocate for and love our kids in the best way possible ❤️🐉
2025-07-17 14:42:01
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Bimbo Baggins ⛧ :
My kiddo came out to me and it meant everything that they felt secure enough with me to tell me that. I never was able to tell my own parents anything like that without fear of disownment.
2025-07-17 17:04:43
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⭐️🌙 Stella.Moon 🌙⭐️ :
I was a parent who identified as a boy mom of her only child as a son for 22 years. Seeing who they've become as an adult and how happy she is has been amazing. Not as hard to let go of my identity as I feared. 🩷
2025-07-16 19:40:44
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Kris :
So the 5 yr old wanted to keep it private or the family chose that? What does that mean, not present as trans? That’s different from not identifying as trans out in public, but just assuming the physical appearance of the gender they feel most comfortable, or only doing that in private?
2025-07-18 08:38:16
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debbiemayer507 :
so wonderful to hear this mom's honesty and to know she fully supports her child. growth is a beautiful thing!
2025-07-21 18:35:33
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chickenmom1964 :
I started out as a mom with two boys and one girl. Now I'm a mom with three boys.
2025-07-16 19:44:44
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Carla :
I completely understand...I was a boy mom too. I had 2 boys. They were "the boys" "my boys". Now I am a mom of a daughter and a son. I had to transition along with my daughter. It is challenging. Some people try to say it isn't about us....(parents) but it is. Our children's transitions is everyone's transitions.
2025-07-16 20:32:07
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catherine_sarah3 :
yes. I thought i was the parent of these children named....and 17 years later one is no longer, replaced by another. and 3 years after that, another identifies differently. And I am the parent, fierce and standing alongside but also remembering the little ones who were mine. It's a complex experience.
2025-07-18 07:44:34
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Kim Hernandez 63 :
I can relate to this! I have a trans son. We navigated through day by day. I support all his decisions. ❤️
2025-07-16 23:15:41
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Ivory :
I love this. My oldest child is non-binary. They have taught me so much about my own identity by living freely in theirs.
2025-07-17 01:04:17
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Danielle Westervelt :
This so resonates with me. I have learned so much about myself and the world through my kids transformation. Words can not express how thankful, grateful and proud I am to be their parent. Thanks for sharing your experience. 💕
2025-07-16 20:37:04
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lisawylie225 :
I understand I had 3 girls and finally a baby boy and now at 20 he is transgender and I get it , but we were not private we were proud and just let her be her and now she is a model and a musician traveling the world Cortisa Star is now a superstar because we accepted her and loved her and now she can change the world
2025-07-18 01:51:34
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esme.wild.at.heart :
This is beautiful! I am a lesbian, 2 Lesbian (1 non-binary) kiddos, 1 gay grandson, 1 transgender grandson, I'm blessed with an ever evolving beautiful family!♥️
2025-07-17 12:14:03
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pinkroses66 :
Let’s keep up the conversation. Proud mom of nonbinary child. Unconditional love ✨🌈🫶
2025-07-19 03:33:00
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Heidi Kuehn, EdD 🥨✈️ :
Often kids will come out to their friends before their parents, because they fear/know they will not be supported. Statistically trans kids do so much better when at least one adult at home is supportive, so this story is heartwarming
2025-07-16 19:34:30
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Amanda Gassaway R539 :
I am in the journey rediscovering a brilliant child that is thriving in life. Has it been easy? Absolutely not, because we had no books, no way to know how to do anything other than support and love. I am a work in progress, learning and growing with my beautiful 27 year old son.
2025-07-17 00:58:20
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pinkp310 :
I was a parent of 2 boys 1 girl now I’m the proud momma of 1 male and 2 females 🥰💙
2025-07-20 13:41:38
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Cee 🏳🌈 :
Luckily, the trans kids I've known all knew in their hearts their partents would accept them. But it always seems challenging to me when you know and understand who they are but have to pretend to the rest of the world. I am sure even if they choose this that it must be hard.
2025-07-17 08:45:47
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kristen mintz :
Yes, yes, yes. Love this so much
2025-07-17 19:54:54
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Kangaroo_Market :
Excited you have a podcast!
2025-07-23 10:49:44
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Chandace Rae :
Thank you for sharing this. It was definitely difficult to explain the feelings to anyone. It was a challenging journey for sure
2025-07-18 19:21:13
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C :
oh that mum sounds sweet and let's change and growth into her home.🥰🥰🥰
2025-07-16 19:22:38
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