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not.quite.crunchy :
If you notice your partner skipping meals with ANY regularity, help them.
2025-07-16 21:20:58
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Dawn Dillinger Devoe :
BF can tell her she’s beautiful until he’s blue in the face, but if she doesn’t believe him, it won’t matter. She MUST get help ASAP and he MUST stop blaming himself
2025-07-16 21:49:21
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Katie89how :
this hits close to home. give this man a medal for being an amazing person and boyfriend.
2025-07-18 11:48:13
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KayVarg30 :
I have lost 110 pounds. body dysmorphia is a real thing. my husband tells me he thinks I'm beautiful. it's hard to fix 30 years of insecurity
2025-07-27 15:52:59
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🌺 :
I can say I’m someone who struggled with an ED. The thing I’d say is both respondes are normal AND understandable. EDs are scary and super hard even for us, and some many nuances and intricacies that we hide from others. We know that they’re there and why. We want to make sure others don’t seee for many reasons. There’s many modalities of therapies, and there are therapists for EDs. It’s just hard to find someone who treats them. I think the other thing id say is EDs are rough. While it maybe hard for OP to hear this, it’s wonderful that you tell your girlfriend you love her. But when we’re sick or in active cycle, we can come up with many reasons why people give us compliments. But just because people want to usually doesn’t cross my list. I hope that helps. If just say continue to work
2025-07-21 04:25:30
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Gkokc07 :
I use to be like that even at 96lbs I felt fat and hardly ate but now I’m at healthy weight
2025-07-16 22:16:50
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Fauna :
The most dangerous thing is her convincing herself she has to do it "for him" to shame herself into keeping up with it
2025-07-16 23:33:48
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Lahmes Lama :
I always had a very active metabolism so I was eating a lot (like a family pizza in Sicily filled me up for an hour) people always commented on me being skinny, eating sweets and everything telling me I'm gonna gain weight when I get older and I should watch my habits so now I'm older and having unhealthy eating habits even though body wise nothing had changed except some weight loss now so I guess one answer to the question could be that the society watches girls eating habits and comments and that ultimately effects the relationship with eating and their body image when they get older. Society desperately needs to change for all the girls and women developing ed! I hope the woman in the story got help❤️
2025-07-20 13:01:21
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Brianna Eshelle Whit :
its not him its her unfortunately and I really hope they actually get the help I have this eating disorder and it sucks but my husband asks me everyday what I have had to eat all day if I say nothing he will ask what I want and make it and I try to eat it. It takes time but I hope they get through it
2025-07-18 05:26:07
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Jasmine :
omg I remember thinking I was fat when I was 19 because I had a small stomach. I was borderline anorexic and just ate 1 meal a day. I started eating more when I fainted checking out a customer at work. my meal was supposed to be when I took a break that day but it was storming so I skipped it 🥴 sometimes we are our worst enemy
2025-07-17 01:31:15
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Leo :
Tbh I’d start with him reassuring her that she is indeed perfect in his eyes and if she’s open to help then he will be there all the way .
2025-07-22 17:18:47
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Kat Shaw :
I think her getting some help and him reassuring her how much he loves her I think she will get better
2025-07-16 19:45:26
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rgvucla :
It’s not him it’s her. Talk to her and her family about getting her help
2025-07-19 23:24:17
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Beccajane :
I have the excuse “I thought she knew” or any variation. Always tell your partner how much you love them and that they look good. Why would you stop to begin with?
2025-07-18 01:42:19
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Connie1972🌙 :
Get her help I use to skip a lot of meals not because I wanted to be skinny but busy with work or low on food now I have gastroparesis
2025-07-17 20:00:05
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Kiana🐨 :
OP let me see your IG for you page, any girls in bikini pics that he liked in the past? Cause a girl wouldn’t just give up eating especially for FIVE DAYS if she didn’t felt like she wasn’t good enough.
2025-07-16 21:14:44
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Iron fist in a velvet glove :
Screamed at her? Why would that be your first response?🤨
2025-07-16 23:34:59
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Ryan :
😂😂😂
2025-07-25 21:07:32
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shawna (KAOA) :
👑👑👑
2025-07-22 11:52:04
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ALISHA🎀 :
🥰🥰🥰
2025-07-20 18:31:30
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girlywiththehair :
😭
2025-07-18 09:21:29
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𖦹 :
😎😎😎
2025-07-17 09:38:23
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Kuhlee :
I skip meals a lot because of how fat I am. sometimes I go days... My partner knows this and has never once said anything to me
2025-07-24 15:40:41
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Vicky :
It’s not his fault. She dosent like what she sees and assumes he dosent. I get that 100% but I can’t to starving myself I physically can’t do it at all most humans can’t so I say eating disorder 100%. It’s amazing the BF is being supportive for her not everyone would be. I hope she gets some help ❤️❤️
2025-07-20 16:36:17
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PJ | 40, Fearless & Feral :
This is ED & nothing but intense therapy will help
2025-07-16 20:25:43
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