A dude on here said a child’s first enemy is an unhealed parent.
2025-07-17 14:18:34
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haileydixonwarrrd :
Narc playbook 101 the purpose is always to dim the light of the scapegoat to do everything to keep them from realizing who they are because if they ever realize how beautiful their light was, they would leave the narcissist behind and see their darkness
2025-07-17 00:04:25
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Tua :
“Go get a job” *gets a job* “No, not THERE!!! 😡😡”
2025-07-21 16:18:58
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🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹 :
Narcissistic parents don’t want to see their kids to better than them, ever
2025-07-16 23:29:54
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Carolann :
The plot of Matilda!
2025-07-16 23:26:52
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Andy Videographer :
My mom got furious when I started going to the gym regularly. “Your arms are too big, you look like a man” She made fun of me when I was thin. She taunted me when I jogged, saying I looked strange when I ran. I gave up for 20 years
2025-07-17 00:29:05
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Niamh :
I feel your words deeply, this was my experience too 💖💖💖 I was punished for doing my hair, nails, makeup, how I dressed. There was a level of misogyny, like I was doing something wrong by being feminine and liking myself
2025-07-17 10:03:42
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💖Kili💖 :
When I got an offer for a job that was well paying after being dependent on her she told me to do volunteering instead.. ???
2025-07-17 02:16:44
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King :
My Narcissisitic abusive mom
2025-07-22 10:49:22
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SharifaCrawford :
My mom bought TONS of desserts the day after I started working out. 😬🙃
2025-07-16 23:55:26
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atibbz :
“dont lose to much weight” when I was still overweight lol
2025-07-17 08:53:42
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Sahara Maria :
At 45 my mom still talks to me like I was a minor, and appears worried if I have to drive at night, but completely agrees if anybody else drives me. She also treats my brother as if he was her husband
2025-07-18 17:17:08
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Tena Travels :
Just going through this. I'm learning to drive and my mom won't let me use her car cuz "she wants me to be safe", when in reality she is very unsure of her driving and she doesn't want me becoming better than her. She also wants to limit my movemenr and keep me stuck.
2025-07-19 02:51:54
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lex82839 :
My mom begged me not to buy a house in Orange County California at 2 % interest rates bc the market was “going to crash”
2025-07-16 23:40:06
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Teresa :
My mother would do anything to sabotage, block or dismantle any progress i made in order to feel needed and superior
2025-07-17 14:34:41
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Indigo Avantí :
When parents like this are concerned it’s really a need for control.
2025-07-17 00:53:56
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Gigi :
After I had my son (around 25-26), I tried using pilates at home to get back in shape. I'd split with his dad & was staying with my mother. Every time I put that DVD in, she'd stand around the corner literally kekeing 🤨 Stuff like "you don't know how kekeke"...
2025-07-18 02:48:53
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Ms Te Manu (Aotearoa NZ) :
You’re seeing this exactly how it is, and the way you’re handling it is perfection. I’m 41 and no contact with my mother, it took nearly 4 decades for me to see it.
2025-07-16 21:58:23
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Luis :
my mom cried when I told her I had a personal coach
2025-07-19 16:48:04
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CallmeLoo~0 🕯️ :
Question, what if my husband does this. He literally does anything to sabotage my workouts or walks? He makes those comments too. 🤔
2025-07-17 00:18:27
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user04129325911111111111 :
My mom saying “you’re not on my level” in an argument when she knew she was in the wrong. It was so eye opening
2025-07-16 23:37:16
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user098362848572 :
Omg I stopped going to college because my mom didn’t agree
2025-07-17 00:18:31
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EPU1776 :
I was trying to buy a house for my family. My Mom put my name on a credit card. She demanded I gave her what I spent every month. 2 years later she said I ran up 20k on the card. After some investigation I discovered she was making the minimum payments. Premeditated financial abuse.
2025-07-17 11:48:40
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Michele Smith :
My mother, for years said I looked too muscular. At some point she said, she was going to jump into one of my social videos and remove those weights from me. I couldn't understand it till you explained it.
2025-07-16 21:02:07
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travlprincess36 :
I saw this with my MIL she tried discouraging me from weightlifting avidly for my health because she said she told her daughters not to too we would look manly and yet they all have diabetes and no healthy habits yea not taking your advice
2025-07-16 23:35:38
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