A dude on here said a child’s first enemy is an unhealed parent.
2025-07-17 14:18:34
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Wife of Lena Luthor :
when I contd my studies to degree n masters, something which is a norm nowadays,my mom wth comment so many negativity..on my gradn day instead of congratulating,she said I gained weight. I didnt knw it is ok not to bring parents to gradn day. that day I saw some classmates didn't even bring their husbands. 5yrs now I run my own biz and didnt even tell her. the last time she asked I said I am working somewhere new. a fren said I shld share w her maybe she will proud..nu uh... I knw my mom better
2025-07-24 18:01:44
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The Flying Monkey, MD :
This was my covert narcissistic father
2025-07-25 21:59:02
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Sahara Maria :
At 45 my mom still talks to me like I was a minor, and appears worried if I have to drive at night, but completely agrees if anybody else drives me. She also treats my brother as if he was her husband
2025-07-18 17:17:08
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🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹 :
Narcissistic parents don’t want to see their kids to better than them, ever
2025-07-16 23:29:54
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haileydixonwarrrd :
Narc playbook 101 the purpose is always to dim the light of the scapegoat to do everything to keep them from realizing who they are because if they ever realize how beautiful their light was, they would leave the narcissist behind and see their darkness
2025-07-17 00:04:25
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Gigi :
After I had my son (around 25-26), I tried using pilates at home to get back in shape. I'd split with his dad & was staying with my mother. Every time I put that DVD in, she'd stand around the corner literally kekeing 🤨 Stuff like "you don't know how kekeke"...
2025-07-18 02:48:53
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Tena Travels :
Just going through this. I'm learning to drive and my mom won't let me use her car cuz "she wants me to be safe", when in reality she is very unsure of her driving and she doesn't want me becoming better than her. She also wants to limit my movemenr and keep me stuck.
2025-07-19 02:51:54
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VONARTWERKS :
This is so wild. This describes my situation to a 'T'😒
2025-07-24 16:34:46
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atibbz :
“dont lose to much weight” when I was still overweight lol
2025-07-17 08:53:42
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Carolann :
The plot of Matilda!
2025-07-16 23:26:52
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Niamh :
I feel your words deeply, this was my experience too 💖💖💖 I was punished for doing my hair, nails, makeup, how I dressed. There was a level of misogyny, like I was doing something wrong by being feminine and liking myself
2025-07-17 10:03:42
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Andy Videographer :
My mom got furious when I started going to the gym regularly. “Your arms are too big, you look like a man” She made fun of me when I was thin. She taunted me when I jogged, saying I looked strange when I ran. I gave up for 20 years
2025-07-17 00:29:05
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King :
My Narcissisitic abusive mom
2025-07-22 10:49:22
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Teresa :
My mother would do anything to sabotage, block or dismantle any progress i made in order to feel needed and superior
2025-07-17 14:34:41
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Tua :
“Go get a job” *gets a job* “No, not THERE!!! 😡😡”
2025-07-21 16:18:58
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Luis :
my mom cried when I told her I had a personal coach
2025-07-19 16:48:04
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Indigo Avantí :
When parents like this are concerned it’s really a need for control.
2025-07-17 00:53:56
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Shainacatrina :
Self abandonment disguised as moral superiority…. W O W 🥺
2025-07-18 18:18:36
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CallmeLoo~0 🕯️ :
Question, what if my husband does this. He literally does anything to sabotage my workouts or walks? He makes those comments too. 🤔
2025-07-17 00:18:27
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SharifaCrawford :
My mom bought TONS of desserts the day after I started working out. 😬🙃
2025-07-16 23:55:26
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Echo :
My mom got so angry when I started running. She would constantly tell me how I’ll destroy my knees and it’s a waste of time. She constantly brings up how horrible of an athlete I was as a kid to mock me. Now I realize she’s just insecure about my growth as a person
2025-07-17 16:18:28
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user04129325911111111111 :
My mom saying “you’re not on my level” in an argument when she knew she was in the wrong. It was so eye opening
2025-07-16 23:37:16
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Ms Te Manu (Aotearoa NZ) :
You’re seeing this exactly how it is, and the way you’re handling it is perfection. I’m 41 and no contact with my mother, it took nearly 4 decades for me to see it.
2025-07-16 21:58:23
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lex82839 :
My mom begged me not to buy a house in Orange County California at 2 % interest rates bc the market was “going to crash”
2025-07-16 23:40:06
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