It's totally accepted for neurotypical to be socially incompetent and inconsiderate. But god forbid an autistic person articulates their words perfectly and communicates everything verbally, they are "lacking any social skills." It's totally ok for neurotypical to have boundaries, no questions asked, but when an autistic person tries to assert boundaries, no one respects that. After being expected to answer the same fucking questions over and over again, I'm fucking done. Either accept me as i am and don't question my ways. Or don't let the door hit you on the way out.
2025-07-17 14:58:10
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Meg :
Hard pass on accommodating neurotypicals 💀
2025-07-17 06:08:37
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Alex'sArt :
Overexplaining gives them fodder for manipulation
2025-07-17 12:04:00
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Nadjja Salorem :
I go non-verbal when I know someone's not even worth an answer, tbh
2025-07-21 03:45:25
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Violet 🏳️⚧️ :
my mother claims to understand and respect my needs and then proceeds to fundamentally misunderstand what autism even is and refuses to do research. YOU MADE ME THIS WAY THE LEAST YOU COULD DO IS SOME GOOGLING
2025-07-17 18:20:26
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Jei :
I honestly am just going to start pretending that I can't speak. 😩
2025-07-17 21:43:12
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Merri :
"You don't have the context to be giving advice" has been a helpful phrase
2025-07-17 18:08:22
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Yara Thepass :
I'm begining to hate neurotypicals lmao they can all kiss my fucking ass I'm done pleasing them by changing myself constantly fuck that fuck them
2025-07-18 12:45:37
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elise 🧡🤍🩷 :
they also don’t care for an explanation it’s completely useless
2025-07-17 15:14:57
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ol'Crick :
"neurotypical" are diseased
2025-07-17 17:39:47
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Ezra Mour :
... I stopped caring honestly, I can't mask anymore.
2025-07-17 17:50:19
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caticorn :
Golden rule = only be polite to people who are polite to you.
2025-07-17 05:57:18
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DarthRaijiin :
I'm so tired of accomadating them. They refuse to even try.
2025-07-18 18:16:15
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eroticfishcake :
They never take the explanation we provide to them seriously, and still bully us. It’s ridiculous. And when you get sick of it and cut them off, they opt for playing the victim and you’re suddenly their arch enemy.
2025-07-17 23:35:44
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jane doe :
them pointing out what's wrong with me and my stims. like do you have common courtesy just bc i like to fidget doesnt mean im hyperactive or when i avoid eye contact sometimes doesn't mean i'm lying to you. i've have to train myself to overcompensate by being completely still and just staring straight into their eyes 😭 i feel like there's this universal number of social gestures that needs to be done in moderation and that im either always overdoing or under performing it idk
2025-07-17 03:12:21
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La_Chayo_86 :
“i can explain it to you but i cant understand it for you”. We need to collab on blurbs for situations we all get into tbh. Like a script 😂
2025-07-17 13:13:44
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Kimonotown :
Late diagnosed here. Just recently figured out why u was so exhausted. The masking and over-explaining and the constant repeating myself is a lot. I just can’t.
2025-07-17 08:22:50
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Celeste ── .✦ :
THANK YOUUU EXACTLYYY
2025-07-17 02:39:50
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lebellavoie :
I love answering:” please go inform yourself rather than throw your labour on me” or “i’m too tired to accomodate you”
2025-07-21 20:35:00
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gloomystarfairy :
No because I’m really tired of being treated like a misbehaving dog that needs to fall into line and they never listen to me when I say no or stop or leave me alone, they just get more aggressive and acting like IM MISBEHAVING. I’m tired of being treated like my autistic traits aren’t ok and something to be punished for but it’s ok that they can yell at me, disrespect me or put their hands on me but my negative reaction to them doing that to me isn’t ok and I’m the problem and the bad one???
2025-07-20 17:10:17
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NDMD :
Matching energy is a game changer. Great natural filter. No regrets.
2025-07-18 15:37:48
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