@dshawnrceo: Women need to be self-sufficient because relying on others for their livelihood puts their future at risk—life is unpredictable, and independence is security. When you control your own finances and decisions, you hold the power to build the life you want without waiting on anyone else to show up. Plus, being self-sufficient builds confidence, resilience, and freedom—none of which come from depending on someone else’s paycheck. #divorce #blackgirlmagic #marriage #Entrepreneurship #over50andfabulous
Thats my aunt thanks for letting people know the dangers of being by a SAHM. Men will withhold things you deserve just because they can.. Sooo…Their older children intervened & told their dad that if he doesn’t take care of her they’ll put him in a SNF when he’s old & he won’t see them or his grandbabies again. The ex husbands family also stepped up for my auntie..He gave her a house ( she didn’t even know he owned) , she gets his insurance policy, his pension, her jewelry, her clothes back, & 2k a month. I’m trying to get her to make a Tik Tok to tell her story. I hope she does🤦🏾♀️
2025-07-20 10:05:21
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Candice Candice :
my fam members new husband (which she begged for marriage for 10yrs prior) refuses to add her to his health insurance. He's a veteran and works FT. I want to tell her that he doesn't like her
2025-07-17 01:04:51
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EMPOWERED :
You’re absolutely right…. Got my full time HR govt job and my lil side part time hospital social work position. I have no regrets!!!
2025-07-17 00:36:14
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thisqueenmealpreps :
The way married women, including myself when I was married, do not tuck a stash of money back is ridiculous. I’ve always worked but I didn’t save as much as I should have to start over. 🤦🏾♀️
2025-07-17 00:54:59
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luciankitty71 :
Why would she stay after e said that
2025-07-18 20:02:08
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Diva1984 :
That’s absolutely awful. Ain’t no way.
2025-07-17 15:55:26
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CarolDiane :
All facts 🥰
2025-07-17 00:39:06
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Brownie Grace57 :
wow - so sorry for her
2025-07-17 16:57:46
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veronicamobleywil :
True
2025-07-22 11:47:28
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auntiebettye :
NEVER put all your trust in a man. I have been working since I was 16 because I don't trust no man.
2025-07-17 04:43:22
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Fee :
I’m not worked two years her entire life!!?? Omg!!!
2025-07-17 01:43:01
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👑MsCapricornQueen♑️ :
👏👏👏
2025-07-17 08:54:05
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Dr. Bunmi :
Some of these men secretly hate their wives and never wanted to leave her anything
2025-07-17 23:36:33
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soldierpsalmist :
Cold blooded. 😳😳😳 When they talk like that leave before you end up with nothing
2025-07-17 00:29:37
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Serenity SoSweet :
That story really just broke my heart bc WTAF?!?? I can’t fathom not having my own everything but I’ve been taught that all my life, so that’s what it’s going to always be.
2025-07-17 02:14:43
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Frisco bonita :
Men like that are truly selfish. I wish those women had divorced them. Always have a plan B-Z.
2025-07-17 12:24:23
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The Feminine Millionaire :
That story is a nightmare... I wish women would realize some men are cruel, some are idiots, some are mean & evil
2025-07-22 05:36:04
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