@fryrsquared: I've obviously simplified the actual study! It's been replicated many times over but if you want to read the original: Attachment, exploration, and separation: Illustrated by the behavior of one-year-olds in a strange situation by M.D.S. Ainsworth and S. M. Bell (1970) or the book that came after: Patterns of attachment: a psychological study of the strange situation by M.D.S. Ainsworth, M.C. Blehar, E. Waters, and S. Wall (1978)

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Nikhil Jain :
Great one my baby son is completely new style when the mum comes back he goes berserk and uncontrollable throwing things around stomping and crying for next 30 minutes Any study on which attachment style both in relationship should have to have a healthy and long lasting relationship .
2025-07-19 06:33:24
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helenvilliersma
Helen Villiers MA :
Bowlby’s Attachment theory is seriously flawed though, which this is based on. It’s important that people research the criticisms of it too ❤️
2025-07-19 13:42:36
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naijairish357
Patrick Omo325 :
I started off as baby 1 then life happened now I’m baby 3 😆
2025-07-18 13:37:10
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littletipsypanda
LittleTipsyPanda :
That’s so interesting! I didn’t realise it was so baked in
2025-07-17 16:21:27
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trudy999
trudy999 :
What’s the style when the baby doesn’t cry when Mum leaves the room?
2025-07-17 18:16:49
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venice_aimon
Aimon :
@Aimon: Unless they were all raised exactly the same way this is a flawed study. Those babies may have already learned the style perhaps based on how their mother treats them.
2025-07-20 21:00:58
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howie_bellafonte
Howie Bellafonté :
I fear I was baby 3. 😂
2025-07-21 13:29:59
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jestershead1
Jestershead :
What about baby #4, where mum leaves the room, and doesn’t come back?
2025-07-17 18:14:15
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mrdoodles40
mrdoodles3000🇨🇦 :
Just discovering nurture vs nature?! Early Childhood Development shapes who we are! What a revelation! See also: grass is green, sky is blue, air has oxygen.
2025-07-19 11:39:18
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fishyfishfishin
jon :
I struggle to believe you now after your hot car cooling trick with the door wafting and back window open didn't work :(
2025-07-18 00:08:38
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dougsbir
dougsbir :
you are even more cheerful to watch than Brian Cox but don't tell him lol
2025-07-18 08:51:16
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momo901020
momo901020 :
Also probably the most ethical psychology expirement of the 70s
2025-07-17 16:59:56
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unbotheredirish
shane :
now the only question we really need answering is how many marriage proposals do you get a week 🙈
2025-07-18 01:50:16
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foggypastry
foggypastry :
Disorganised attachment is a combination of all three 🙃
2025-07-18 07:45:06
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ellie_baby2003
Elliebaby2003 :
As former foster carers and adopters where children often don’t have those core relationships as babies we see how the lack of any attachment affects hugely as developing children and then when they become adults.
2025-07-18 07:07:54
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totaram_c4
Ashu :
So what did the mom or anyone could have done to enable the switch to ‘secure attachment’ style?
2025-07-19 13:06:19
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shortblk
Rosco :
Would it also depend on if you were first second or third born?
2025-07-18 18:59:05
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badminton3d
Dedalus :
What about the parents who leave the room and never come back? 🤪
2025-07-18 13:26:31
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arjanmerks1
arjanmerks1 :
When I was seven went on a holiday with my friend and his parents for three weeks. I was not homesick, didn’t
2025-07-17 21:25:11
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wenglish1010
MJ5595 🇬🇧 :
yep defo no 3 don't play psychological games either stay or go 😂😂😂
2025-07-17 22:55:52
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bryanbossman1
Bryan Wilson :
so is 2 potentially a stalker 🤣🤣🤣
2025-07-17 16:23:04
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navygators
JPW :
I have so many questions! Were birth order and mother's temperament when playing/leaving considered? What about repeating it with siblings (long term approach)? What a fascinating study.
2025-07-20 11:55:54
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oldlonewolf63
Lonely-Old-Man :
Incredible study!!! So real... anything from childhood marked our adulthood
2025-07-18 19:35:12
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andycarwrecker
Andy Taylor195 :
out of curiosity, what happens when both parents walk in and the baby goes to the Dad ignoring the mum?
2025-07-18 08:37:07
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ruby_moomin
Ruby Moomin :
Yes, There’s soooo much evidence around this to back up how our relational patterns are formed in our early relationships. As a psychotherapist, I see it over and over. But like you say, good news is you can move towards more secure relationships.
2025-07-17 23:09:44
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