@whata_bout_winston: Like what am I supposed to do if I get overstimulated 🥲 #bride #bridetok #2026bride #introvert #introvertedbride #wedding #weddingtiktok #weddingproblems
1. We had a welcome picnic (v informal) the day before the wedding. Helped me “practice” being the center of attention and decrease the anticipation.
2025-07-17 19:40:56
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Meagan :
Oh for sureeeeee. That’s why I eloped and didn’t invite anyone haha
2025-07-17 18:37:36
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Amelia&Loki :
Ohhh yesss. Even picking out my dress with 4 people was stressful 🤣 it was great but I don’t like attention lol
2025-07-18 22:50:07
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Rex and Eiger :
Skip the vows and speeches!!!
2025-07-17 17:56:54
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Hannah :
Omg and all the other wedding weekend things.. I told people I had to work til noon on thurs (friday wedding) so they wouldn’t come over or make plans lmao. Thurs was Juneteenth and my work is super flexible, I did work but like def didn’t actually have too.
2025-07-18 01:29:26
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Cdf83 :
SAME!! I have decided that the wedding itself I’m going to think of it as a photo shoot with close friends and family and our reception is just going to be a weekend long party at an Airbnb! There will be no speeches no fancy sit down dinner and no dance floor!
2025-07-17 17:59:29
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jump4joy12 :
Wedding photographer here - schedule time to be alone just the two of you, or to take breaks. Do a first look, do private vows (just the basic I Do during the ceremony).
2025-07-18 11:09:37
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wigglywags :
We did private vows & then at reception, we walked around to the tables as people were eating instead of them coming to us. I liked it bc then people weren’t looking for me!
2025-07-17 17:50:33
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kw8586 :
We eloped! Came home and watched and movie and ate cake on the couch. Perfect.
2025-07-17 21:20:29
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Sophia :
Introverted extrovert here- we eloped LOL
2025-07-17 23:38:23
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Flordelis :
No not okay lmao I cried after my dress try on 😭 so thrilled to get married but haaaaate being center of attention
2025-07-17 19:26:01
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Jay :
literally made me want to puke we eloped and then did a reception and having that big group of not just intermediate family made me wanna 😭😭😭 I was shaking during speeches
2025-07-17 19:27:42
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Brittany Etter :
Me🙋🏽♀️it was a lot… and I only had 34 people. 😅 tbh it was the best day ever. 💓
2025-07-17 18:29:16
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Ellie + Friends 🐕😺😺 :
This is exactly why we're eloping or just getting married at the courthouse and honeymooning after.
2025-07-18 15:08:17
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Kacierae :
We are having a code word! Also technically getting married in the church the day before since my cousin can marry us being a Deacon, I feel like that will help a lot!
2025-07-17 22:27:03
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Lauren Widmer :
Girl i wish could do micro October 2025 bride and have 150 invited… regretting decisions
2025-07-18 02:15:12
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Chelsee Suther :
yes!!!!! 👏🏼 that’s why I decided to wear a blusher veil to block them all out and I just focused on my groom. The whole time I just stared at my now husband! The whole time I just focused on him for the entire time!!
2025-07-17 23:04:41
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Mariah Campbell :
we got married at my in laws house with just our parents and bffs. it was perfect
2025-07-17 19:09:13
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user5421957689574 :
We are both interverted, we are eloping. 6 people max, comfortable gown and under clothes. The mushy vows I wrote have me anxious.
2025-07-17 19:52:44
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zoecdake :
We ended up doing a “bridal brunch” the day before the wedding, had immediate fam only for the ceremony (there were 8 adults + 4 kids), private vows with just our photographer & then a reception with about 100 guests. the only speeches were my mom & dad. my also introverted husband and I were THRILLED to be on our flight to our honeymoon the next day 😅
2025-07-17 18:14:32
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Ann Chau Li :
You literally have tunnel vision during the ceremony. I didn’t notice anyone except my husband!
2025-07-17 18:59:36
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Bella Kash :
I think introverts should definitely elope it saves all the stress.
2025-07-17 19:45:40
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Shay :
a courthouse wedding was enough for me,a traditional wedding is way too much socializing for me and wasn’t in my budget at the time 😂
2025-07-17 22:36:47
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Nikki :
My niece had a first look with her husband and exchange vows privately… and then did the ceremony for everyone… her and her husband were the only ones that knew what they actually said, but they had the traditional wedding vows at the ceremony.
2025-07-17 21:25:51
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Bre Martinez :
you know I’m not even an introvert & thissss is why we eloped🙈 so I’m sure you’re stressing. but it’ll be beautiful! you’ve got this💕
2025-07-17 18:07:18
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