as an actual victim of coercion and force this whole discourse is genuinelly so disturbing. these words hold weight and people throwing them around to put down someone they dont like minimizes actual stories. like its so annoying :/
2025-07-18 03:57:00
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🌑 :
“He never coerced her he just asked” so if he”just asked” why did it become a whole argument to the point Amaya n Bryan had to fix it? Riiiight. Also refusing physical touch jst bcs she didn’t want it in the beginning is manipulation 😝
2025-07-18 11:11:34
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🙇🏾♀️ :
And whole time she just wanted to cuddle 🤣
2025-07-18 01:08:48
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noname06 :
He straight up, said in an interview that he would not kiss her in the sheets anymore because she did not want to do PDA, which is also weaponized her boundaries
2025-07-18 15:49:16
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Sadie :
SA is short for “sexual assault” and I fear the huda haters think SA is short for “cuddle assault”
2025-07-19 13:36:46
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Sherniq :
He asked for PDA. He didn’t throw a tantrum and count to 3. Also imagine if Huda was a man and telling a woman no pda but he will sleep with them, and only doing things in the dark. We would all be in up roar calling that man a POS. I don’t understand why you guys can’t see any wrong doing in her? It’s getting a bit worrisome.
2025-07-18 00:00:09
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thefunniestevr :
Wait, also, in the finale, when they were talking about in on their date, she SPECIFICALLY SAID she didn't want more than cuddles. LET'S NOT FORGET THAT PLEASE
2025-07-19 05:44:34
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avaxiiosn :
He never tried to coerce Huda into PDA in public. He just couldn’t understand where she was coming from because she wanted to get sexual in the bedroom, but didn’t want to give him a kiss in front of the Islanders, which she did not have to. He never demanded it. He never counted down. He never said you had to. He simply asked her why she was doing that he thought it was her being embarrassed.
2025-07-18 03:19:37
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kayyy.mera :
As a person who has personally experienced being coerced by an adult as a child. This whole thing has been very triggering for me. Cuddling can sometimes be SA but what Huda did was no where near SA and when people try to compare that to what I experienced it hurts me. An adult asked me to cuddle with them and I straight up said no. As I tried to walk away, they grabbed my arm pulled me and forced me to be beside them so they could cuddle me and they go to bed. This was where near close to what I experienced and I am sure others can say the same that actually experienced SA.
2025-07-20 09:00:57
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Vader Girl :
Well Huda told the girls that she had to forcefully grab his arms and get him to be affectionate with her. Chris never did that. He simply talked to her about his feelings. He didn't grab her forcefully to make her do what he wants. Big difference!
2025-07-18 03:25:31
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naomybabay :
Yesss exactly 😅I was wondering the same thing like… is it not the same just in different forms? He started acting different when she stood firm on it as if him acting different would get her to change her mind and start doing the pda
2025-07-17 23:55:44
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erika ✗𝟶 :
Huda defenders rlly be doing THE MOST instead of just admitting huda was wrong
2025-07-20 02:12:12
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Kenzie Layne :
I watched the show and she literally just wanted to cuddle. Was the counting down thing doing too much? Yea, but people saying she threatened him is crazy. She said that if he didn't cuddle with her, she would be upset tomorrow. And rightfully so, because a man suddenly withdrawing emotional and physical affection when he doesnt get his way first, that's manipulative.
2025-07-20 05:35:37
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Simonereact25 :
Can we all agree none of it was coercion and people just throwing words around because they are online wanna be therapist. Chris just didn’t want to cuddle while if I did that to my man he would be like alright alright and started cuddling me.
2025-07-21 13:19:00
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. :
Because she wanted to have s3x but didn’t wanna do pda ? He set boundaries never FORCED her into pda. The first time they had s3x he literally said “I FOLDED” meaning she initiated it first. It’s not about him being a man . Just because he’s not a PERFECt Victim doesn’t mean it wasn’t sa
2025-07-19 20:04:50
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🔫🐴 :
he addressed it, she didn’t want to, he took a step back, she bugged him about it ALL NIGHT. we’re not gonna pretend like those are the same.
2025-07-17 23:59:26
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Ms_Lifestyle🐆✨ :
They are picking sides it’s crazy
2025-07-18 18:31:30
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noonstyles :
because ppl don't see guilt tripping as coercion unfortunately
2025-07-18 00:34:03
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🌹Toribabyy🐺🌻 :
even forcing someone to give u a kiss is a crime !
2025-07-18 15:52:17
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Marvellous :
I chatGPT the whole thing and what he did was in fact a coercion bc he kept pressuring her even after her expressing her discomfort and hers weren’t
2025-07-18 05:56:06
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bamxbamzz :
“Cuddle me” = SA, “kiss me in public” = not SA apparently
2025-07-21 15:43:33
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ʚɞ :
IVE BEEN TRUING TO EXPLAIN THIS TO PEOPLE AND THE ONLY RESPONSE THEY GIVE IS “well huda SA’d him” BRO
2025-07-19 23:52:47
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Cass :
For you as a woman of color to come on this app and speak so confidently and elegantly is so inspiring. You are EATING and at the same time teaching the girlies that care to learn!
2025-07-20 05:02:49
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𝓲𝓼𝓪! :
coercing a 27 yr old man and counting to three like he’s a child is different than him communicating that he wanted her to display affection in public and taking a step back when she wasn’t comfortable . not to mention she kept cutting him off
2025-07-18 04:47:54
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