Exactly! Thank you, I’ve been saying this for this longest. A truly generous person is not generous in a vacuum. Whatever I do for a person is because it’s who I am. I can’t be take advantage of because I’m not giving in order to receive nor am I doing it to get picked. Once I see a person is no longer deserving, I walk away with no regrets and not feeling a way about what I’ve done. I’m never kicking myself like ‘I did all that for them and they treated me like that’. I did what I did free and clear. They don’t owe me and it’s all good.
2025-07-18 13:31:07
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Milewilliams :
My biggest problem is that I’m helper
2025-07-18 13:24:38
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Morgan :
This the one! This is why I hold no resentment or bitterness towards any man that did me wrong because everything I did was with pure intentions
2025-07-18 16:17:43
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FridaVonDeez :
My biggest problem is a lot of men see us as free labor or what we can do for them. It’s transactional not genuine “love”. I would absolutely take care of someone that is also taking care of my needs too. But if it is a one way street, I’m out. (Applies to friendships too)
2025-07-18 13:28:33
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Jess🪻 :
I did it because I’m also an empathetic person and do it for anyone. But every time I have done that I have been taken advantage of. It’s great that your situation went well. Happy for you, but I have a question. Why say you’re going to block people? As someone that’s empathetic, that also means listening to others perspectives. Many of us just get taken advantage of over and over.
2025-07-18 13:48:26
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tsunamibreeze0 :
This is a great topic—didn’t come across as a gender specific. Most women out there are very selfless. Granted I’ve haven’t experienced that much in my personal life—but that’s a reflection of my choice of character 😅
2025-07-18 13:26:47
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Iman :
I am empathetic as a person and have always been that way, but at this point I match energy. I am not giving to someone who only takes.
2025-07-18 15:19:57
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⛓️💥 JusAWnThatLuvs ⛓️💥 :
Yep
2025-07-18 13:48:47
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LR Jazzy J :
Glad you said that as people always assume that GIVERS only give to men…WE give to everyone. Never seen a true giver be able to be selective about giving 🙄
2025-07-19 03:59:48
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MysterySauce :
I do it because I'm a giving person. I would do it for anyone.
2025-07-19 21:54:14
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Geri 🇩🇴 ♥️☕️🧉 🥑🍍🍹🍥 :
Why are we required to be considerate to men?
2025-07-18 13:35:32
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DCBabe32 :
I’m a natural giver, but I’ve learned some men don’t deserve ish.
2025-07-18 13:59:47
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