@vanessaandxander: 3 Things I Would NEVER Do After Working As A Secs Therapist For 20 Years ❌ #1: Shame my partner for initiating when I’m not in the mood. ❌ #2: Stop initiating to “test” my partner. ❌ #3: Fake an 0rg@sm. What would you add to the list? 👇