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bean01969
Colleen :
My mother was a narcissist and very abusive. But she wasn’t abusive around others. All my friends thought she was “so cool.” Um no. She wasn’t. I only learned after she passed that a couple of my relatives saw it, but it was a different time when you just didn’t talk about it. She did ALL the things you said. She ALWAYS put me down, never encouraged me or showed affection or pride, told me constantly that I was worthless, a POS, etc. Somehow, even at a very young age (before I’d even started school) I knew she was wrong. I’d cry myself to sleep telling myself over and over “it isn’t true.” NO idea how I knew that.🥹💗🦋
2025-07-18 20:57:05
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angharad_priv13
angharad_priv13 :
moma i’m done, just came to say goodbye forever, i’ve always loved you ❤️
2025-07-18 18:56:40
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cocohansford
✨✨Cocoleen🩷✨✨ :
Going through a divorce from one right now! Worst experience of my life!
2025-07-22 13:11:33
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ladyguinevereinarmor
ladyguinevereinarmor :
I left my narcissistic husband for good. I'm going through major withdrawals now!!! Going through the divorce. Needing lots of prayer! What your explaining I've been through all of it....
2025-07-20 20:36:41
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anthony_calamaro
Anthony_calamaro :
i love you. thank you for staying who you are no matter what. It helps us.
2025-07-18 18:55:18
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tamijonesreed
Tami Jones Reed :
Glad ur still here ! We love u!
2025-07-18 19:12:22
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leahdevine82
LeahDevine :
Mama Tot you just described my relationship and the physical things going on with me, hair loss, acne, anxiety, always wondering why things feel off and what did I do wrong even though I know I haven’t. I can’t work, so much to say… but it would be a novel, lol
2025-07-18 20:44:48
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ruckermary
user9954041595494 :
So true! I was married to one and finally got away after 22 years.
2025-07-18 19:05:39
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jessieh1984
Jessie :
I told my bf that at my funeral he would be the victim, where all the attention is all on him
2025-07-24 21:28:13
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kelsibrooklyn
Kelsi Brooke :
every day of my life
2025-07-19 16:48:33
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blessed_mama001
Blessed mama :
It’s scary how they will trick ya too
2025-07-18 18:57:09
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katherinekobel
Katherine Kobel :
You explained it perfectly 💯💯
2025-07-18 20:13:06
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the_saged_soul
Lani :
Their number 1 objective is to steal your light & deregulate your emotional stability 🌸
2025-07-18 20:57:22
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itsjewels23
Makayla Retalic :
We love you. You’re an amazing human! ❤️
2025-07-18 18:56:17
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snuwbabe72
Amy(Crawford)Pirkle ❌️ :
yes he did i finally got out April 25,2025
2025-07-18 19:10:37
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lisa.kendall19
lisa.kendall19 :
It’s exhausting. But there is peace and a beautiful life when you get to the other side 💕
2025-07-18 18:59:55
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sabrinaloane621
sabrinaloane621 :
This is exactly how my ex husband (that was an alcoholic) treated me for seven years. I finally said it’s enough and walked away.
2025-07-18 19:26:13
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angelabartley88
AngieBartley :
Be aware of the walking away love bombing. They sense their "supply" is almost out of their grasp so they will say and do whatever they can to keep you. Once you're gone, prepare for the desperation in them to hit a whole other level. They are in panic mode.
2025-07-18 23:31:20
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chapisadime41
chaps :
I’m dealing with a narcissist bully on this app and she just read a lady who took her life police details on her livestream of how she done it and said her note she left was all a lie 😭 out of spite because she doesn’t like that ladies friend it’s so sickening I’m still hurting for the lady friend 😔
2025-07-19 00:48:26
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celtgirl60
Beth :
Discounting: where someone dismisses your reality. Example, you say to them: im hurt. They say: no you aren’t. Especially if THEY hurt you.
2025-07-18 19:20:32
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debsshenanigans
Debbie :
oh baby girl dont I know this so well. my sisters
2025-07-20 18:33:06
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jamiethisyoujeffries
Jamie Jeffries :
“Nobody has said and done any of those things for you”…THAT part. And don’t they know it too…
2025-07-18 19:01:47
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lauraricks2
lauraricks2 :
for me, the narcissist went to my parents telling them I needed help and went to my friends and lied to them about things I was doing and saying about them. my family and friends and even myself knew nothing about narcissism so his seapration tactics were a success! another big red flag was him always saying "it's always about you isn't it?" I got this many times a day!
2025-07-18 19:17:02
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tanyaj2327
user4882922409514 :
You explained it perfectly!! This is happening to my daughter and it hurts me so bad that she doesn’t see it!! 💔
2025-07-18 21:40:54
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_realtorashley_
Ashley Pugh | REALTOR 🏡 :
This was my last relationship. The fakeness and effort they put in while being the devil behind your back is traumatizing. 😢
2025-07-18 19:25:12
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