My mother was a narcissist and very abusive. But she wasn’t abusive around others. All my friends thought she was “so cool.” Um no. She wasn’t. I only learned after she passed that a couple of my relatives saw it, but it was a different time when you just didn’t talk about it. She did ALL the things you said. She ALWAYS put me down, never encouraged me or showed affection or pride, told me constantly that I was worthless, a POS, etc. Somehow, even at a very young age (before I’d even started school) I knew she was wrong. I’d cry myself to sleep telling myself over and over “it isn’t true.” NO idea how I knew that.🥹💗🦋
2025-07-18 20:57:05
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angharad_priv13 :
moma i’m done, just came to say goodbye forever, i’ve always loved you ❤️
2025-07-18 18:56:40
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✨✨Cocoleen🩷✨✨ :
Going through a divorce from one right now! Worst experience of my life!
2025-07-22 13:11:33
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ladyguinevereinarmor :
I left my narcissistic husband for good. I'm going through major withdrawals now!!! Going through the divorce. Needing lots of prayer! What your explaining I've been through all of it....
2025-07-20 20:36:41
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Anthony_calamaro :
i love you. thank you for staying who you are no matter what. It helps us.
2025-07-18 18:55:18
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Tami Jones Reed :
Glad ur still here ! We love u!
2025-07-18 19:12:22
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LeahDevine :
Mama Tot you just described my relationship and the physical things going on with me, hair loss, acne, anxiety, always wondering why things feel off and what did I do wrong even though I know I haven’t. I can’t work, so much to say… but it would be a novel, lol
2025-07-18 20:44:48
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user9954041595494 :
So true! I was married to one and finally got away after 22 years.
2025-07-18 19:05:39
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Jessie :
I told my bf that at my funeral he would be the victim, where all the attention is all on him
2025-07-24 21:28:13
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Kelsi Brooke :
every day of my life
2025-07-19 16:48:33
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Blessed mama :
It’s scary how they will trick ya too
2025-07-18 18:57:09
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Katherine Kobel :
You explained it perfectly 💯💯
2025-07-18 20:13:06
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Lani :
Their number 1 objective is to steal your light & deregulate your emotional stability 🌸
2025-07-18 20:57:22
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Makayla Retalic :
We love you. You’re an amazing human! ❤️
2025-07-18 18:56:17
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Amy(Crawford)Pirkle ❌️ :
yes he did i finally got out April 25,2025
2025-07-18 19:10:37
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lisa.kendall19 :
It’s exhausting. But there is peace and a beautiful life when you get to the other side 💕
2025-07-18 18:59:55
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sabrinaloane621 :
This is exactly how my ex husband (that was an alcoholic) treated me for seven years. I finally said it’s enough and walked away.
2025-07-18 19:26:13
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AngieBartley :
Be aware of the walking away love bombing. They sense their "supply" is almost out of their grasp so they will say and do whatever they can to keep you. Once you're gone, prepare for the desperation in them to hit a whole other level. They are in panic mode.
2025-07-18 23:31:20
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chaps :
I’m dealing with a narcissist bully on this app and she just read a lady who took her life police details on her livestream of how she done it and said her note she left was all a lie 😭 out of spite because she doesn’t like that ladies friend it’s so sickening I’m still hurting for the lady friend 😔
2025-07-19 00:48:26
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Beth :
Discounting: where someone dismisses your reality. Example, you say to them: im hurt. They say: no you aren’t. Especially if THEY hurt you.
2025-07-18 19:20:32
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Debbie :
oh baby girl dont I know this so well. my sisters
2025-07-20 18:33:06
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Jamie Jeffries :
“Nobody has said and done any of those things for you”…THAT part. And don’t they know it too…
2025-07-18 19:01:47
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lauraricks2 :
for me, the narcissist went to my parents telling them I needed help and went to my friends and lied to them about things I was doing and saying about them. my family and friends and even myself knew nothing about narcissism so his seapration tactics were a success! another big red flag was him always saying "it's always about you isn't it?" I got this many times a day!
2025-07-18 19:17:02
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user4882922409514 :
You explained it perfectly!! This is happening to my daughter and it hurts me so bad that she doesn’t see it!! 💔
2025-07-18 21:40:54
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Ashley Pugh | REALTOR 🏡 :
This was my last relationship. The fakeness and effort they put in while being the devil behind your back is traumatizing. 😢
2025-07-18 19:25:12
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