My mother was a narcissist and very abusive. But she wasn’t abusive around others. All my friends thought she was “so cool.” Um no. She wasn’t. I only learned after she passed that a couple of my relatives saw it, but it was a different time when you just didn’t talk about it. She did ALL the things you said. She ALWAYS put me down, never encouraged me or showed affection or pride, told me constantly that I was worthless, a POS, etc. Somehow, even at a very young age (before I’d even started school) I knew she was wrong. I’d cry myself to sleep telling myself over and over “it isn’t true.” NO idea how I knew that.🥹💗🦋
2025-07-18 20:57:05
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angharad_priv13 :
moma i’m done, just came to say goodbye forever, i’ve always loved you ❤️
2025-07-18 18:56:40
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✨✨Cocoleen🩷✨✨ :
Going through a divorce from one right now! Worst experience of my life!
2025-07-22 13:11:33
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ladyguineveregeff :
I left my narcissistic husband for good. I'm going through major withdrawals now!!! Going through the divorce. Needing lots of prayer! What your explaining I've been through all of it....
2025-07-20 20:36:41
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Tami Jones Reed :
Glad ur still here ! We love u!
2025-07-18 19:12:22
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Anthony_calamaro :
i love you. thank you for staying who you are no matter what. It helps us.
2025-07-18 18:55:18
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Kelsi Brooke :
every day of my life
2025-07-19 16:48:33
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LeahDevine :
Mama Tot you just described my relationship and the physical things going on with me, hair loss, acne, anxiety, always wondering why things feel off and what did I do wrong even though I know I haven’t. I can’t work, so much to say… but it would be a novel, lol
2025-07-18 20:44:48
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deb359 :
You really nailed it 🥺
2025-07-22 06:11:46
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Blessed mama :
It’s scary how they will trick ya too
2025-07-18 18:57:09
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Lani :
Their number 1 objective is to steal your light & deregulate your emotional stability 🌸
2025-07-18 20:57:22
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user9954041595494 :
So true! I was married to one and finally got away after 22 years.
2025-07-18 19:05:39
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Katherine Kobel :
You explained it perfectly 💯💯
2025-07-18 20:13:06
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Karen❤️ButNotThatKaren :
My soon to be ex son-in-law was such a narcissist. He traumatized my family for 8 years. My beautiful daughter finally got away from him. We are still experiencing trauma from it. They have a child together and it is challenging. She has come so far since he has been gone.
2025-07-22 14:44:15
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chaps :
I’m dealing with a narcissist bully on this app and she just read a lady who took her life police details on her livestream of how she done it and said her note she left was all a lie 😭 out of spite because she doesn’t like that ladies friend it’s so sickening I’m still hurting for the lady friend 😔
2025-07-19 00:48:26
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Makayla Retalic :
We love you. You’re an amazing human! ❤️
2025-07-18 18:56:17
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Amy(Crawford)Pirkle ❌️ :
yes he did i finally got out April 25,2025
2025-07-18 19:10:37
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Gidget :
my neighbors instead of helping the single mother of 4 they called law enforcement because my 1 year old wasn't wearing a diaper. I can't afford diapers right now and instead of helping they tried to destroy my kids lives
2025-07-22 10:56:19
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𝒏𝒂𝒚✩ :
narcissists are dangerous people . physically , mentally nd emotionally .
2025-07-22 18:20:33
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lisa.kendall19 :
It’s exhausting. But there is peace and a beautiful life when you get to the other side 💕
2025-07-18 18:59:55
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Debbie :
oh baby girl dont I know this so well. my sisters
2025-07-20 18:33:06
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TLandry :
I am dealing with this now, I am finally divorcing him and moving away.. pray I can get out and he leaves me alone.. he is great, until he is around his grown sons, then he wants to feed off of them and they disrespect me just as much as he does because of him. I am a very strong, independent woman and I will never let somebody treat me the way I have been treated over the last two years. It sucks thank God I’m getting out.
2025-07-22 04:56:00
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Melly :
True with alot of gifts and money
2025-07-22 05:27:04
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sabrinaloane621 :
This is exactly how my ex husband (that was an alcoholic) treated me for seven years. I finally said it’s enough and walked away.
2025-07-18 19:26:13
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CathyCam :
I’m going through every bit of this right now and plus more. I’m very aware of all of it, just trying to figure out a way to get out 😞
2025-07-22 13:11:40
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