@kimmuenchparentcoach: Parents of 20-somethings listen up! Here are 10 important tips to guide your parenting during this decade. Need more help navigating this chapter of their life? Follow along, share with a friend who's right there with you, and download my free guides on setting boundaries and tough conversation starters found in my profile link. I believe in you, together we can get through this! #fyp #parenting #modernparenting #parentingyoungadults #parentingcollegekids #parentsupport #parentproblems #parentingtips #genz #epidemic
I hat do we do when having young adult that is 24 and does not want to work due to anxiety and plays games all day eve try day does. Nothing and does not talk to me or husband
2025-07-20 10:22:51
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Angie :
You just came on while my 20 year old daughter is sitting across from me. She said, “I follow her! She’s on my side!” We both love your advice! 🥰
2025-07-20 00:22:18
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Cor :
Children should be raised to be independent! Leave and have a great life! A visit is a bonus!
2025-07-26 00:07:58
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East Bound And Down :
accountability and respect please from kids
2025-07-21 02:04:23
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Charlemagne :
The first 10 are difficult 😆
2025-07-20 21:39:49
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kjeanm :
i got married last year and the 2 most annoying comments i get from my mom are “when are you having kids” and “when i was your age, i already had 2 kids”. stop trying to force kids on us and stop telling me that i cant be tired from work/daily life just because i dont have a kid
2025-07-20 02:01:04
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l.a.fraser :
I have an amazing relationship with my adult daughter and future son in law.....i think it's because I have always put her feelings first and I always will. I'm here to be her life's cheerleader
2025-07-20 19:47:30
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stiffyfunbags :
Don’t enjoy being around my sons wives - feel like I’m on eggshells - gets exhausting and demoralizing 😳😳😳
2025-07-22 09:20:05
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Bongo :
My boomer mother is narcissist. She made me work as early as 15,16 to help her pay for bills and she had a bad habit of throwing me out of the house when she felt like it. It was so sad for me growing up. I have little to no good memories about her to be all honest. She favored my younger brother n she would put me down any chance she could. Just a very abusive mother all around. I always wished I had a kind mom. I never got to father in my life either so I didn’t have any luck there either. Jesus loves me and he has blessed me in many other ways n I’m very much grateful for his love 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
2025-07-22 15:57:04
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Diana G :
I’m an only child that had 3 kids so no idea how to make siblings close. Their dad (ex-hubs) grew up in a superficial family. How do I get my adult kids be closer to each other mentally?
2025-07-20 15:57:20
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User197702241978 :
Thank you , Kim . Can you elaborate more on what is defined as emotional abuse?
2025-07-20 13:03:22
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user9022346220530 :
It’s super hard to support a relationship they’re in when I see red flags and they are choosing to ignore them.
2025-07-21 01:32:06
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karengay8 :
Learn to keep your mouth shut. Don't make judgmental comments when they tell you a problem. They don't want you to fix it unless they ask for help. Make neutral comments like, "that must have been annoying," or "I don't know how else you could have handled that."
2025-07-20 00:53:26
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Bird51 :
Not asking too many questions, I want to know it all but when I start asking too many questions on the phone he tells me he has to go.
2025-07-20 16:02:31
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Michelle :
Tone of voice! Such a struggle!!!
2025-07-26 21:55:23
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Patricia Martin :
My parents did the opposite of these and there’s no relationship. My dad is still trying to control me in my 50’s . I have no contact w him anymore.
2025-07-20 00:33:05
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RR :
I love your look and I appreciate your words😎😎😎
2025-07-20 22:18:51
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janetlc46 :
That actually was helpful thank you
2025-07-20 06:11:15
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junebug.618 :
💯
Some of these suggestions would be helpful for the adult children as well. Mutual respect.
2025-07-20 18:48:08
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fran :
I loaned mine money and got it on paper. She filed bankruptcy against me. Don't bring up things from the past, isn't that what they are doing? Many of us have issues with the stuff our kids have done to us. This sounds like a double standard to me. It doesn't seem to matter how much we apoligize and say we are wrong. it is never enough. They are stuck in victim mode and getting power out of it. Time to stop playing the game. we had to deal with our life experiences and so do they.
2025-07-22 16:00:10
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charliework237 :
It finally happened. The second of my two 20-something daughters moved into her own place this week. I'm glad for that, for both of us. I don't have any magic words of wisdom. It happened on her timetable when she was ready. I didn't do everything right along the way, but I tried to be emotionally supportive whenever I could. Occasionally financially supportive, but I'm mostly separated from that now.
2025-07-20 02:30:12
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F E :
Support their dreams sure by all means... When their dependent on parents economically on fulfilling them is when conflicts begin
2025-07-20 12:06:40
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angie1971.0 :
I struggle to not but in not because of control but because I’m so curious about every aspect of their life. I agree with you. I need to get a life.
2025-07-20 01:20:36
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Lily :
Number 2 is difficult for me. I’m Italian, I have a loud voice. It sounds as if I’m arguing but I’m not. So I find myself always watching what I say and how I say it. So because of this, they take things the wrong way 😞
2025-07-20 21:02:08
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anniemc47 :
I pray that God helps me see them the way He does. Changed my perspective a lot! It’s not about who I want them to be.
2025-07-20 12:38:06
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